Do you think most people end up settling in life?

[Arabella_Rose]

do you think that most people just get married by the time they hit a certain age?
When people are young, they date around, then break up over and over again non stop. Then around the age of 30 or so, they stop the cycle of breaking up and start settling down with their partners.

do people just marry out of convenience? There was a guy who told me that most people do end up settling by a certain age rather than to find their "perfect one"

[MalesGOD1]

Most married men marry because its the only possibility at regular sex or they just give up. With the way things are because of the effects of feminism in the legal/courts world men who don't marry do have the best lives possible. Don't let married men's lies fool you they like to see other men suffer so they don't feel so bad.

[Anonymous]

Yes.

Most men tend to settle when they no longer have the options to continue to play the field. While most women settle because of their biological clock.

Sure, we'd all would like to find the perfect one but sometimes that takes more time than what we actually have. So, most of us will have to make peace with what we can get and live out life that way.

[Arabella_Rose]

reality is, most 35 yr olds tend to be married with kids already. Male or female.

[Opinion Owner]

Well if they're 35, married. That still could mean that one or both settled due to time and due to lack of better options. Or, they got lucky and found "the one".

[Arabella_Rose]

folks who tend to wait for "the one" tend to stay single and childless until old age. Usually it never comes.

[Opinion Owner]

Well if what you said is true then that answers your question and proves people correct who have said that most settle.

[Arabella_Rose]

It is true. Dating doesn’t get better into 40s-50s. Most of their friends are married or too busy raising kids to hangout with them. They are less into the partying scene so meeting new people becomes much harder. Many of them just go to work then head home daily as a routine. Divorced people around their age are usually hesitant or unwilling to get remarried. They are also not very willing to date a single parent

[Anonymous]

I think some do. You get old. You get tired. You want to be in bed by 9pm. You don’t have time for it anymore and it’s like, “Fine, get over here and get a tax break and happy ever after with me.” 😄 At least that’s how some people view marriage when they settle.

[boggboss]

Here is the thing your perfect person dont exist people get wrapped up on creating a person that's perfect with no negatives about them when said person is not real so yes people settle but not in the negative way people associate settling with

[msc545]

I think most in fact do settle.

[jimmy2]

You can find love at any age dear