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Is it hypocritical of me to not want to date fat girls even though I’m fat? (Page 2)
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It's your choice as to who should be your date. You will be perceived hypocritical if you body shame someone. As long as you respect every human being it's nothing to be ashamed of.
I was going to say that you are not being hypocritical its your preference. But reading further you hold some very skewed and sexist views on women. That's going to be your largest hurtle.
If you accept that women may reject you for the same reason and see that as equally okay as you rejecting a woman for that reason then no.
Otherwise yes.
A sexist, a hypocrite and a fat bastard... I can see then lining up for that
I’m slender. No fatties for me. If you won’t take of your weight you’re a no for me. Whether you’re a hypocrite or not doesn’t matter, I won’t give fat boys a second look.
Regarding the question itself, no you like who you like.
Regarding the subtext you just seem a bit a ass
It's okay to like what you like, whether it's food or fit girls.
I would think it as a negative thing.
Just don't expect to have much success in that venture.
Do try to get into a more healthier weight.
Wouldn't*
yah but your sexist mindset is probably not gonna get you any dates anyway.
Yes and no.
-Yes because you're fat so its like how do you have the nerve or audacity to not want to deal with your own kind
-no its not hypocritical because two fat people together isn't healthy.
It's totally opposite of yiu what you are now
Then girls also think thay way that why should i date fat man interested i get a lot more fit abs
In a way.
But not really. Because girls who are fat usually want to stay that way, because it's comfortable for them. Guys who are fat usually want to lose the weight.
You'll be fortunate if the ugliest girl even wants you.
You know that men are also massively judged by out looks right?
Women job are not just to look good. They have to look good as much as we do.
Tbh, I think women care more about look than most guys do.
Ugly girls can usually find a date. Ugly guys can't.
Not that guys don't go for really pretty girls, but I think they are more likely to put other factors above looks than the ladies are.
Look at a single guys house compared to a single ladies house. Guys don't usually care as much about looks.
@Lost_in_the_Woods ugly guys can't get a date? You would be surprised.
Sure looks matter, to some more than others. To say that ugly girls get more lucky then ugly guys I don't agree. We do agree that drop dead gorgeous girls get more than anyone else.
*Ugly guys who don't have money or degrade other people.
I'm not very ugly, but I'm poor and have bad social skills so I struggle a lot. But the only people I know who have a harder time are guys who are poor and unattractive.
Make two tinders, one with a photo of an ugly guy and one with a photo of an ugly girl. See who gets more likes. 🤣
Tons of guys only swipe right because we are happy to give anyone a chance.
Most girls almost always swipe left before they know they have their choice.
I'm not blaming anyone or saying that is wrong. I'm just saying I think that is the reality.
@Lost_in_the_Woods the vast majority of thunder users are guys so the girl will have more likes. More guys, better chance if someone finding her pretty.
Trust me I have seem my friends in tinder, ugly girls don't get any.
Where are you basing the claim that the vast majority of tinder users are guys? I believe that is false.
You are basing you claim off a very small sample size. I have read multiple popular articles about the state of girls choice on tinder because most guys just spam right swipe and most girls very rarely do.
Your friend probably only swipes right on very hot guys. That isn't a fair test. I think you would probably agree that she would get tons of matches if she swiped right on everyone.
I googled it and sites report everything from 60-80% male.
I would guess it's closer to 60, but I don't know that.
But, if that is true... It only supports what I'm saying which is that the least attractive girls have way better chances than the least attractive guys.
Tell your friend to swipe right on everyone for a week and see if she doesn't get at least ten matches.
@Lost_in_the_Woods I was talking about my guy friends on tinder. They don't swipe right on ugly girls and let me tell you there is a lot of them on tinder!
Tons of guys swipe right on everyone. I will give anyone a chance.
@Lost_in_the_Woods hope someone gives you a chance too
Everyone has their ideal body type, the trick is finding your opposite.
Yes that is hypocritical. I would say the same thing about a fat woman who refused to date fat guys.
Girls don’t like obese guys just the same reason why you don’t like obese girls
in reality, it wouldn't be hypocritical because people have every right to choose who they want to date. But the extra information makes it seem like you're trolling.
Is okay have preference, then rest is you be arsehole. No girl want life like that with fat man as slave
Lmao slavery? The idea that a fat guy as your boyfriend would enslave you is ridiculous if you're serious. I really hope you're joking because fat guys have to have money to attract a 10/10.
@Mofunfour20 even if he does have money, it won’t even be a real relationship. Just prostitution.
@Arabella_Rose thats really what most relationships amount to. Equal value exchange
@Mofunfour20 realize that once you stop paying her , she will ditch you. That’s not the definition of love. There have been women who murdered their husbands for their life insurance payouts.
Just cus she wants your dollar bills, it doesn’t mean she loves you
@Arabella_Rose all is fair in love and war. They kill their husbands because the love of money is the root of their evil. They just sold him on the idea of love so they have the wedding theyve fantasized about
@Mofunfour20 I will marry a guy for money too , but I’ll probably just cheat on him With a man who I truly love
@Arabella_Rose its really his fault for getting married in the first place so when you divorce him you can get alimony for the the relationship and guy you really like. Yoi win regardless because there's so many simps, its hilarious
@Mofunfour20 marriage offers a stability and security that relationships do not provide.
Yeah but I just see it like this in dating. Don't be asking to have a woman with a certain trait that you don't poses.
Yes it is. I am thin and never attracted to fat guys.