I wanted a threesome but now that it’s become a reality I’m getting jealous?

[Anonymous]

So when me and my boyfriend first met I would say that I wanted to have a threesome. I told him to find someone. But now that he found someone I’m getting jealous. She’s in her early twenties with a nice body. I’m in my late 30s I’ve had kids (we don’t have kids together ) and I need to lose weight. She’s the one who approached my boyfriend and started talking to him. He got really explicit about what he’d do with her. They talk really good and everything. I’ve never talked to her. I feel very jealous and I know that it would change how I feel about him. But I also feel bad because I told him that’s what I wanted. Now I feel awkward He suggested I could watch. Just thinking of it makes me so jealous

[K-I-S-S]

Well, the problem is that your sexual value is low while hers is high.

You really don't have any bargaining chips over this situation, he could easily leave you for her.

It is your fault that it is low, obviously you. know what men like and you just took yourself out of the competition.

You should have found a woman similar to yourself to have fun with. But he found a hottie.

It is a shitty situation to be in.

Well he does like you for the fact that you let him have fun, so that is a plus. It would probably be for the best to just go with it and have fun, acting on jealousy now will make it worse/bad. Right now it is possible to come out unharmed in this.

If you like him and want to , then maybe offer him something most women don't, butt sex, or something else he likes.

Or just let him know how you feel about her and hope for the best.

[Anonymous]

Be careful what you wish for!

Looking back on this, how foolish was it to make this request? Can you learn something from this experience?

Maybe you should talk to him about your change of heart. Or just suggest that she watch while you two get it on, if that idea excites you.

[Anonymous]

That’s kinda sus the fact that she approached him first and how he only wants you to watch… Please tell him about how you feel, it’s okay to change your mind but speak out now or you’ll regret it later

[Notstr8]

Hey iys aprocess and its about 2 make rules and sticj to them a 3 some never say it must include openetration or ejeculatiion so llittle steps its fun but as usual the girl is driving and gas full kill swiuth liberty and respect.

[MrKinktastic]

You’re feeling insecure. Maybe have your boyfriend reassure you that he’s into you and this is just to add a little spice to your already very desireable sex life and that it won’t change his feelings about you.

[sawno]

Watching is definitely not the way to go. Either do it once and tell him you didn't enjoy it in the end or be up front with him and let him know you no longer want to do it.

[abc3643]

Two important adages to remember know that you've learned a lesson in The School of Hard Knocks.

1. Be careful what you wish for because you just might get it.
2. You reap what you sow.

[exitseven]

Next time it will be you that gets to pick the third party.

[Jlegacy]

There is still time to back out. If you don't feel comfortable, back out now.

[Wise4myage]

If you want to keep him, then its best to say you've changed your mind and ask him not to mention it again.

[more_than_a_guy]

Talk to him about how you feel, try to spice sex life in other ways. It's okay to have cold feet here. If he loves you truly, he will respect you and won't judge, only understanding you.

[888theGreat]

those things never work out , you will be the house maid why he is screwing her. The third wheel. You just lost the guy , congrats.

[Anonymous]

Maby you should call the whole thing off. Cheating is cheating even if your okay with it because he's still cheating in his heart and you shouldn’t encourage that with a three sum

[Jmmmfi4]

Kinda put your foot in your mouth here... guess you're gonna have to talk to him about this

[Hangry06]

You made your bed. Now lay in it

[Iron_Man]

That’s just all wrong totally

[YesICan]

Be careful what you wish for next time.

[Syrian_survivor]

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes

[noohair]

What were you thinking?

[In_Trance]

So... what's your question?

[ChiPaPa]

Oh well.

[anylolone]

Weird.