As a natural blonde girl, we ain't all that bad. I personally really dislike it when people put me on a pedestal. I normally have that with foreign men, especially in foreign countries. I have thought of dyeing my hair many times especially for vacations to draw less attention. I just think dark hair would look hideous on me.
Im really sorry. @spuitkaas you girls are highly fetishized and everyone is okay with it
You’re not even that pretty girl. Nobody is putting you on anything lol
@Natashababygirl you sound jealous
@Natashababygirl no need to get nasty. Girls should support other girls. There are plenty of people who think I'm attractive and plenty who don't.
@spuitkaas Your picture doesn’t scream pedestal. I do get put on a pedestal and my standards for whom I find attractive is high since I AM that attractive myself.
Yes women should support women, but women should stop lying too!!
"I dislike it when people out me on a pedestal"... sure baby, as soon as you are no longer out on a pedestal you will go screaming on TikThot.
@KrakenAttackin
when she is no longer ON the pedestal, its men like you who can't get the hot ones who will be happily willing to go for her. Men your age do not tend to be very attractive
I am a pretty blonde girl and guys get very intimated by me
Any tips or advice on talking to you?
I’m not intimidating. send me a PM and let’s just talk
Follow me back
I just did
Are you going to send me a PM?
Yes was just shy
@fit_and_feminine. I don't think they are "intimidated", they just don't want to deal with the bullshit.
@KrakenAttackin Not everyone has turned gay like you.
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You shouldn't get intimidated just because someones a blonde.. It's just a hair color... Not all blondes act the same anymore then all women or men act the same.. I'm a "strawberry" blonde, natural have been all my life, and I never thought I was better than, or thought I deserved special attention for being a blonde... Actually when I was little, I wished I was born a brunette because I was the only one in my family with blond hair, I used to think I was adopted lolol
The complete opposite for me. Blondes want you to feel intimidated by them because they know that all of humanity bows down and worships them. That's why so many of them act like snobs and are proud of it. I am not attracted to that.
@anykayd It's called a generalization. Which you should always take with a grain of salt. Sure it's not nice to put a message down like that, but what's important is to understand what the messenger is trying to say rather than what he said. Sounds a bit weird, but it still makes sense.
@TruthBringer
Do you realize that girls might act standoffish , if they know you want them but they are not attracted to you? It really doesn't mean they have bad personalities, it just means they don't want you asking her for her number
@TruthBringer
Its the same for guys.. Some really cute guys may seem like they a bit unfriendly or standoffish but its just their way of avoiding giving you any signs of interest. You need to realize that these people get hit on A LOT, so thats why they do that.
@anykayd Don't give me a lecture about female nature. I've dated enough girls to know how girls act when they are or aren't attracted to someone. That includes blonde women. What @ManOnFire has mentioned goes beyond that. Try not to come with a red herring fallacy next time and stick to what is actually being said.
@TruthBringer
I live in a city filled with very attractive people. Attractive men and women. I know what they behave like when they aren't attracted to certain people. Be open to new information, instead of being arrogant.
@anykayd Like I said, you're speaking to someone who knows how people behave when there is or isn't attraction. You live in a city full of attractive people? Not sure how that's relevant. Another red herring on your end. I also live in a city and visit many cities in my country that are full of attractive people. Your point? The difference between you and us is that we know when someone acts arrogant and entitled because they happen to have a bunch of simps pedestalize them. But that insecurity within them will always outshine their facade as soon as a self-respecting man who doesn't give a damn about them walks in a room.
@TruthBringer
You sound like you have a really bad personality. Egotistical arrogant and disrespectful. Do you know that?
@anykayd You're free to believe that if you like. I already told you that you're digging way too deep into things. Just because you can't comprehend what we're saying doesn't necessarily mean I have a bad personality. Which is ironic coming from someone who resorts to ad hominems.
@TruthBringer
I don’t see what’s the huge problem with what I just said. No need to give such a Disrespectful attitude
@anykayd I'm not being disrespectful. I'm simply debunking your arguments as they contain logical fallacies. How is that being disrespectful? You're the one who resorted to personal attacks talking crap about my personality, while I was simply attacking your arguments, not you as a person. Pot. Kettle. Black. Classic case of projection on your end.
All I was saying is that generalization shouldn't be taken literally, but rather an indication to what the messenger is truly trying to say. You and I both know that not all blondes are like that (what ManOnFire claim). No need to dig into it so much.
I highly recommend looking in the mirror with that disgusting attitude of yours. Ad hominems won't get you far.
@TruthBringer
How was what I said incorrect? Do you think attractive people would make eye contact and smile at people who they don’t find to be attractive , hitting on them?
And yes I do have right to be offended by your egotistical and arrogant and rude personality. You have no proof that I’ve said was incorrect.
@TruthBringer
My point is, some good looking people might be misunderstood of having A “bad personality” simply because they are sick of being constantly hit on my creeps or if they intentionally are standoffish to guys that they aren’t attracted to
Attractive people get hit on a lot which is why they might seem standoffish to certain people they aren’t attracted to. They might not make eye contact with certain people but it look rude but it doesn’t mean they have a bad personality. They just don’t want you to assume they are interested in you
@anykayd I never said that was incorrect. I simply said you're using a red herring logical fallacy that doesn't apply to the actual statement presented. That doesn't'mean what you said is totally incorrect, it simply means it's irrelevant to the actual point that was made, which is the generalization of the original poster. But you didn't like that so you chose to attack me as a person. Which says a lot more about you, miss.
@TruthBringer
It is relevant to the point made. Many people accuse good looking people Of having bad personalities simply because they got rejected by them. Of course everyone gets offended when they get rejected , but it doesn’t mean that the hot girl has a bad personality just cus you’re offended.
I personally known many pretty blond girls in my life with decent personalities like everyone else. They might seem rude to certain guys on the street trying to hit on them but to everyone else , they are nice
@anykayd Of course there is nuance. Hence why I said that you have to take what he said with a grain of salt.
@TruthBringer
That still doesn’t prove what I’ve said was completely wrong.
@anykayd Nobody said you were wrong. Your logical fallacies were just misplaced, that is all.
@TruthBringer
Yea you said I was wrong. You even rambled on and on and on in paragraphs saying how my answer was shit.
@anykayd *facepalm*
Being attractive is temporary unless you eat like a bird and exercise like an Olympic athlete so I do not respect good looking people purely for their looks, in 5 years, it will fade away. If somebody is kind and hard working, I will respect them more.
I get shy/nervous around any girl that I think are pretty and good looking because for some reason their beauty is really mesmerizing and their eyes that matches up really does the job a lot quicker. I’ve been that way since my early school years and never really had the nerve to chat with them. However there were some girls with both blonde and brunette hair wanting to talk to me and wondered why I was always quiet and don’t really talk much. Some of them even wanted to make eye contact with me but I kept looking away at times because I’m not really that good with looking at pretty girls in the eyes. It’s different around guys because it’s much easier to talk with someone of my own gender about anything. But I guess it takes time for the boys to have enough courage to have a talk with the lovely ladies that they think are naturally good looking while it takes a lot longer for the other guys to do the same thing. The beauty in the eyes says everything about a person & it can be something that everyone see before things change over the years. Oh and even some of the girls in my middle school kissed me on the cheek without me even asking for one maybe it was because of my shyness around them and they thought it was cute.
Even at the ripe old age of 53 yes., And not just blondes. In fact, still after all these years and numbers in triple digits and 4 long term relationships I still get tongue tied if I am emotionally invested in the outcome of contact with a woman I'm very attracted too. I still have difficulty reading her unspoken signals which sadly, is 80 to 90% of the real conversation. What's actually spoken about is relatively meaningless beyond it being an excuse to talk to the woman. And not screwing things up is still the challenge. Given that a woman has sized a man up and made a decision about him in under 30 seconds upon first contact. If three minutes go by and you're still chatting away your in. The trick now is to not fuck it up. Recovery is generally not possible if you do. Certainly the guys chance has to wait for another meeting. And depending upon the nature of the fuck up, recovery may not be possible at all unless enough time has passed and she simply does not remember. This however is a rare ocurance as generally their memories are like steele bear traps, especially when strong emotions are attached.
Not really. I don't get intimidated by girls, because I'm not into them. I only get intimidated by guys I'm attracted to.. well, I get super nervous and end up embarrassing myself. When approaching girls, just breathe and be yourself. Make your intentions clear, and just ask them out. Don't use cringey pick-up lines, especially when you're nervous.. or at all.
It depend on the person , everyone has different standards of beauty. White women in general are very basic and overrated to me , have yet to see an attractive white woman that doesn’t have a spray tan , lip fillers etc. Asian women are ok i guess , black women are the blueprint , because a lot of women low key copy what they are born with. And maybe I’m biased because I’m Latina , but Latinas are walking goddesses lol. Im sure a lot will disagree , because like I said everyone has different beauty standards.
You’re Latina but your Hispanic men prefer white women 😂
And I have only dated white men , would NEVER date a Hispanic men as they are awful 😂 My dad who is a white man prefers Latina women , he’s married 3 of them. My sister on the other hand loves black men. Like I said everyone is different. If you can’t respect others opinions maybe you shouldn’t ask questions 😂 you clearly have a Eurocentric beauty standard , i do not
Well it’s easy to get a black guy as they don’t like their own girls lol. They kinda look like guys 😭
What does black men have to do with me? 😂 I’ve never dated one of those either. You are clearly a racist against women of color. Your pink nipple , tuna pussy bitches Can have you sir , cuz nobody else not even your mother does. 😂🙏🏽
You are racist against white women…
I'm Latino and you are wrong, I like women, it doesn't matter the color or their hair. A woman with cinnamon skin is extremely sexy ( piel canela ). White women are just as sexy. I just don't like a woman without curves. There are a lot more white women without curves than latinas. North American white women i mean. It doesn't matter what nationality they are also their accent might make them sexier...
I'm Argentinian and not dark at all, But my accent makes a lot of difference when dating.
I don't get intimidated by anyone, Your confidence determines your intimidation.
I‘m straight but yes I get sort of intimitated when I interact with a pretty blonde girl, as the stereotype is usually that these girls are mean or just pretend to be nice to you but look down and make fun of you behind your back. That‘s why I‘m very careful around those girls as I can say due to my experiences that this stereotype is mostly true.
Blonde girls are mean?
Yeah, nearly all blonds I know were fake or obviously mean. I just never met a blond who wasn‘t like that so I‘ll stick to my opinion.
They are stuck up usually?
No. You seem to have a lack of education problem. you need to watch less porn and pop culture stuff. These industries have sexually objectified them in a way that's left a solid sexual attitude about them.
There was an article I read about seven years ago, which said that in a research experiment,, a group of guys in a party tended to go for the blondes more, because their hair color has indicated a sort of "sexual openness".
Fine by them, it's a self uniqueness advantage. but sadly if that's your type and you overcome your issue, you still have to watch out for your social environment as this attitude is so rooted in people!
I hope you find your barbie lol ❤️
Once you start to get it through your head that just because you are attracted to a certain type, doesn't mean you need to pedestalize them. And for what? What did they do to deserve to be pedestalized? That's the mentality of a simp and you will be wise to get out of it. Once you realize that women are just as if not even more insecure than men are (in my experience, it is the latter), then you will not be intimidated by them. No one gets intimidated by insecure people.
No, I don't. You have to know that petite, blonde women are just like everyone else or like any other girl. They can be nice or rude, smart or silly, law abiding citizen or criminal and etc. And above all, it doesn't work out with one blonde girl, it will 100% work with another blonde cutie. Good luck.
I am a super shy kinda guy... and a introverted person and i don't speak much wid strangers... So i always get nervous around girls
And i am an unsocial person... just i always go to work and come. So i never had any girlfriend in my life. If i ever wanted to make..😅
Hardly. Theyre overrated and i hear guys talk about the variety of other women more than blondes now a days
Yes but I hit on her and now she is my wife. 30 seconds of terror of being rejected vs a lifetime is what I thought. So I took my shot at the right moment by asking her to dance near midnight in New Years Eve. Guaranteed kiss at mid-night. I just had to make sure I was the guy who asked her to dance near that time… that was the big risk, I saw the vultures nearby and hit on her first.
Nope rather have anything but a blonde. Dated a blonde reluctantly, because it was my best friends wifes girlfriend. It was a nightmare for me, anyways blondes are ok but rather have middle eastern or Latina.
Why are blondes nightmares
Lol, date one you'll find out.
there's some good ones.
Ummm... are they holding a gun to my head? lol no intimidation, tellem put some makeup on when they don't have any on, & vice versa, when they do say it's too much & just look at the priceless look on their face.
Then follow up with a JK you cute😏
I understand being intimidated by someone but why date someone you're not attracted to? that's just weird/sad and unfair to the person you're dating. I hope all the girls you date that you're not attracted to leave you.
I usually happen to come off as awkward around a guy I'm attracted to because I'm so nervous around him, I do start to blabber or I say something silly.
It’s just a hair colour. There are brunettes who are WAY prettier than the girls you posted such as Deepika Padukone/Aishwarya Rai. It’s just all in your head. You put them on a pedestal.
Yes I do but in my mind, this combo is perfection especially if she has blue or green eyes
@t-8900 both of these women I mentioned are perfect in conventional standards. Everyone ages. These girls are like teens and they’ll look like rotten milk by the time they’re 23 however Aishwarya is 48 and still looks gorgeous. In her prime she was considered the most beautiful woman in the world. The women he posted have ugly wide and flat noses. It’s your taste that is ugly.
Wow so many jealous girls
@Sarahr123 well if you want them hey more power to you. (48 and still gorgeous). I have zero desire for a 48 year old woman tyvm. I want kids, lots of kids. You know what a 48 year old is gonna give me? Not kids, there ya go. You can get upset all you want. Nature wired me to like women who are younger. If you want to date 48 year old women go for it.
@t-8900 You want lots of kids because you’re a chav lol you dumbass nobody is asking you how many kids you want. It’s about conventional beauty and you clearly have no sense of it. Having the cheek to pit two bleached blondes with filtered selfies above international pageant holders and world nominated sexy goddesses. They don’t come near their bums and it burns your ass because you’re an old loser with no life.
@t-8900 It’s okay for porkheads like you to be racist then it’s okay for the rest of the world to be racist. Rither way these two are ugly as fuck. Some White people are good looking like David Beckham but that’s because he isn’t pasty and has a nice olive tint. His wife is also hot.
@t-8900 Nobody cares how many kids you want you cunt. As if you have a chance with this 48 Y O anyway. Nobody told you to marry them. It’s about the fact that aesthetically these women are not all that and the bottom one is F U GL Y. You can go fuck as many young bottle blondes as you want and have billions of kids out of wedlock like the chav you are. Nobody gives a shit. Don’t talk shit when you don’t know anything about easthetics. Aesthetic is different to your physical attraction and desires.
I sure did for long time, but not just them. it's more about the "energy" of that person.
if you can "humanize" someone, you can subtract their power so you don't feel so controlled. becasue that's what it is... manipulation.
I'm not intimidated by anyone; rather, people are intimidated by me for some mysterious reason.
@rachelspiks I wonder why hehe
What is the cause of your fears? You need to figure out the root of your problem. Usually confronting your fears will fix it, which would mean that you should talk to more blond girls, and even tho it might be uncomfortable you have to go trough it if you truly want those fears to stop.
No, not really. Long ago I stop putting a pretty face on a pedestal.
It's pleasing to see a beautiful woman, but a pretty woman it's just another human being with all sort of virtues and flaws. While I imagine many of them love to be praised, sometimes I can tell, others only want to be treated like another mortal.
Here is a secret that I learned. Many of the true blonde women that I had ever seen and known had a heart of gold to the point that I had a better chance of ending up in a relationship with them second to Asian women of various types because of my skills in life and etiquette.
No. Quite the opposite.
I'm the sort who goes towards problems, rather than away (manager in me, unfortunately). But girls are girls and people are people. Don't get twisted up and always aim for "friendly" if unsure.
I am not intimidated by people. I personally am not the best looking out there. I don't change for anyone. I am who I am. I am 56, I am not a perfect son, but none of us are. I like tattoos and body piercings. So many things that I have experienced and seen, so I do not intimidate.
Nope, we are all the same on the inside.
Now depending on their personalities that can be a bigger turn on, or turn off than how pretty someone is, or thinks they are.
Beauty fades, dumb is forever.
I am not intimidated by anyone.
I was attracted to blondes and redheads who had good facial structure and slender to athletic physiques.
Strange, though, one of the two women who I loved had hair so black it was blue.
Not really. I’m more intimidated by my own kind lol (brunettes).
I get shy/intimidated by women I want to ask out or I find super attractive. Doesn't matter their hair color
No, I'm not intimidated by them because they're usually the kind of girls who don't like me.
I feel intimidated by bald white guys with tattoos.
LMAO, no one is intimidated by women they find attractive- they want to talk to them and be with them!
I'm intimidated by them...
@Physics-Man: Don't be- you of all people have an interesting story, and lots of women like that
Which interesting story are you referring to?
i dont feel shy or intimidated, but i might act slightly different around him. like i suck up to them usually
No because there are the most common type where I live.
tall and blonde
@Coulis 🤦🙄 erm Plentiful
Yea I get intimidated by blonde girls. Blondes are really my kind of girl!🥵
A persons beauty or hair color doesn't really change how I view them or act around them
I see how you feel but no one intimidates me, but I can understand what you are saying. You just feel like they will be stuck up, self absorbed and snobby. But I'm sure that's not the case with all of them.
No, just by red head whit many freakles.
Negative, I Roll Everyone the same. Soul, Intelligence, Personality, Beauty is a Bonus.
I used to get intimidated by any pretty or popular girl. Especially at your age. Now? I could care less as i know they have insecurities and faults too.
No, it's only the ones with the great big tits that I find myself debating what to say for too long, and then the moment passes. Which is the definition of intimidation I suppose.
Hell I get all fuckered up by all pretty women no matter what her hair and skin colors are. Beautiful is just beautiful, and neither hair color nor skin color has a place in my definition of beautifulb and that's that.
Not intimidated by them. The first picture reminds me of an ex a year or so ago. Thought we'd get in trouble a few times she couldn't wait to get back to my place and asked me to finger her while we were driving there.
That’s my kind of woman ! I like the dishwater blonde more so that the bleached blonde.
The second one is FUGLY and both are bleached blondes like almost all white women who are in their 20s or 30s.
The second one is not fugly at all
She is perfection
You’re a jealous woman clearly, that girl is far from being ugly.
White girls with blonde hair and blue eyes. 🙏
@Sarahr123 go on
I don't want to look like her so not jealous 😂. Her nose is hideous.
I also see a flat chest.
The answers here from blondes prove my point that they're ugly 😂 Pleased to see that 😈
Men are such suckers for a pretty face. We need to realize a pretty face is like nature's "warning colors".
Not at all!—as a matter of fact, the circumstances would be in reverse, and I'm the shy one? Come on, now!
I'm not really into blondes, but yeah I suppose I get a bit intimidated by the hot ones. I shouldn't though because I am quite tall
No sir, I do not. Neither gender nor hair colour are anything to fear.
Not scared but avoiding them at all cost the manipulative type of women you can never get anything from her and you will always lose if you try to win something the best thing is just to quit the game. They come in beautiful shape and face
I can always think of an excuse to not approach one. Doesn't matter the hair color.
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No I don’t get intimidated by them but they are a gem for sure
American Blonde women tend to be pretty basic and ordinary in terms of personality so no. I don't blush and get shy around them.
Not the look what makes me intimidated but personality. Especially if she is shy you will be always afraid to look creepy 👀😅
Hair and eye color wouldn't matter. I don't know if intimitaded is CV the right word, but I am nervous around pretty girls.
It can definitely still happen. Especially if the sexual attraction and desire is high. The hormones mess with a guys brain
She's incredibly cute
I don't necessarily get "intimidated" I just don't really know what to talk about with them so I never approach them
Intimidated and scared by a girl? I'm not that weak nor pathetic.
Personally I feel shy around any pretty girl, part of the package of being an introvert.
Not really. Dark haired Jewish women…bitchier the better.
@Sarahr123 something about Jewish women…. the perceived aggressiveness perhaps.
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