What top three things do you wish men and women can agree on when it comes to relationships and dating?

[ShadezMcgee]

Ladies and gentlemen, list your personal top three and I will updated the question later to show the top 3 most common ones.

[normalice]

1. Butt stuff after the first date is okay.
2. Oral sex before the first date is okay.
3. Cats are slightly more important than dogs.

[FinalFantasyBro]

1. Equal Compromise
2. Neither gender trying to boss the other around
3. Men not cheating on their women. Or Women not cheating on their men, remember cheating regardless of the person is just straight up wrong.

[AmandaYVR]

This is a good q. Too bad it didn't gain more traction.
(Which also relates to your other q I just answered.)

How about...

• No one should be 'in charge.' I can't believe anyone still wants someone to be the boss.
• Which also means that it's no longer just up to men to prove to women that they are worthy of being in a relationship with them (or even just dating them.) This newfound equality means that there are shared emotional responsibilities as well, and since feelings are supposedly more females' domain, I don't see why they think men should do all the pursing, and all the risk-taking of their heart. They justify it seven ways from Sunday, but all it really is, is hypocritical, and fear-based.
• Wanting sex does not preclude a committed relationship from happening. That's faulty logic. It's not logic at all, in fact. If a man is interested in sex, even if it's early on, it does not mean he already knows the woman isn't 'good enough' for a relationship. Sometimes it's just sex. But I've done the research. Men will sleep with someone, while they're trying to find out who she is, and if they are compatible. They're not mutually exclusive.
• All women are not devoid of logic. Stfu about that (some of you men. Not you, Shadez.) You should, instead, be appreciative that women have more sensitivity and are more guided by feelings. It plays into your favour sometimes too.
• Just because the technology exists now, doesn't mean that we should be in constant contact with partners, or keep rigorous tabs on their whereabouts. This isn't healthy. It's going to have consequences, for the people who rigidly try to adhere to this. Phones are not leashes. They're supposed to be tools. We can still make rational decisions on how to use them, and what to expect from people we are dating and in relationships with. (Actually, this applies to friends too. Give people reasonable time to respond.)
• Pain is pain. Treat each other's heart with the same sensitivity and care as your own. Everyone bleeds the same.

I could list many more, but I'll stop here. These are just the first random ones that came to mind.