What is the worst thing someone could do on a date?

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AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

Be on their cell phone too much and not apologize for it. They shouldn't be on it at all. Block the time off. The person in front of them deserves their attention. They're putting their time and effort in to be there. Messy eater with food flying. Being rude or completely dismissive to the wait staff, for no reason.  Criticizing what I order. Like, who cares. As far as what they talk about, there are no rules. They can do anything they want.

readyplayer001 · Accepted Answer

be on their phone the whole time, i leave mine in my pocket. i once went on a date the guy said i been chasing you for months, he started on his phone- texting, then saying sorry every second and about a half hour in i got tired of it. excused myself and left through another exit leaving him there, then changed my number when i got home.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The worst thing someone could do on a date, would be to bring their boyfriend along. Just saying that would really suck. Next, would be to ask you for bail money to get their boyfriend out of jail...

Wester1967 · Accepted Answer

Order food without asking you. A girl did that to me on a first date last weekend. Fist and last date.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

Take you somewhere where there's another female there they arranged to meet a week prior.. Yes that actually happened once🤦 needless to say there was no second date..

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Pressure you for sex or introduce you to drugs

Arcreactor81 · Answer

Considering the fact that I've never been on a date, I think I know of something that's not cool for a date.
Being kind of rude to the waiter is not something I would encourage at a date, or just in a normal condition.
I'm sure there's so many things to not do at a dtae with someone, but this hits hard considering the fact that a few of my friends work at fast food places.

Yeah. Don't do that.

Anonymity123999 · Answer

-make fun of or negatively comment on someones appearance
-makes things very sexual early
-being judgmental
-being unhygenic
-being rude to anyone
-acting uninterested in what im saying
-doesnt ask me questions to try and get to know me
-continuously talk about politics
-expect me to pay for the date when they were the one to invite me (Sorry if this sounds selfish but I think whoever is the inviter should pay)

Ailito · Answer

Based on experience? Ask, "so how much for an hour?" And worst I can think of is them being a mad scientist and disecting you. That would definitely be the worst thing to happen on a first date.

Anonymous · Answer

Sitting quiet and not trying to keep the conversation going, constantly checking on their phone or taking too many pics, talking about their ex, hitting on someone else, flexing about their wealth/achievements too much and constantly talking about themself

FitCarmen · Answer

Pet peeve if he acts like or assumes he is owed something just because he pays for the date. The worst thing if tries to get physical when not welcome.

bubbles328 · Answer

Mention exes over and over. It’s useful to know a little of someone’s past on the first date but not full on rants about them

Screenwriter · Answer

Demonstrate bad manners. Show up late; interrupt the date when talking; not discuss who's paying (probably should be done beforehand).

cth2188 · Answer

Talk about past partners  Eating while showing food  Farting  Burping  No good formal skills On cell phone  Disrespectful  Loud while talking  Ordering the largest meal

WhoRtheseGuys · Answer

Offer to take you to an expensive dinner and then after go to the bathroom and leave you with the check.

LinaDaGoddess · Answer

Trying to pressure you into doing things you’re not okay with doing… for example, sex, drugs, alcohol, smoking, etc…

menina · Answer

Pressuring you, making assumptions, try to tell "jokes" that are not funny. Not paying attention to what you're saying and be rude.

Cherry234 · Answer

There are a couple. I'll name the ones I really dislike. Being on your phone the whole time and being rude to waiters/waitresses

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Kill her, chop her body up in a restraint. behead her, feed her to pigs. throw her in a pit of snakes torture her shoot her stab her. the list is fairly long tbf.

LeaveMeSortaAlone · Answer

I got asked if I had a spiderman fetish cause I had old Spider-Man vans in my closet. On the first date, he seen in it in a Instagram post. Why?

Coulis · Answer

Dishonesty and all of its iterations. Weak character and being two-faced. When someone is dishonest this flaw appears pretty quickly.

claryy · Answer

Talk about an ex or talk about himself without trying to know me

ShaTTeredMasterpeace · Answer

Being rude to serving staff is a sure shot way to end the date early and never hear from me again.

JenniferStar · Answer

Keep asking or implying they want sex before the end of the date.

aintnocandle · Answer

Probably rape and kill me? That’s the worst I can think of

Medlife · Answer

Act like someone who deserves respect, but gives none. Everything else is irrelevant.

maybear · Answer

Insult me the whole date and compare me to their exes.

Rachel794 · Answer

Bad manners, being rude to staff, not making an effort to dress up

LivingExample · Answer

Say you are going to the restroom then leave without telling them!

NicoletteXO · Answer

Date rape, torture, imprisonment, murder, necrophilia... you did say WORST.

rafflesia · Answer

have ex call & get back together right in front of you

Pallavi37 · Answer

The guy called in in his own resort n he was in shorts 😀 on first date

Mystery11137girl · Answer

Behave rudely with me or anybody who comes around us

snowgirl123 · Answer

be rude and disrespectful and flirt with other people

lucky840 · Answer

Tell me they hate the outdoors and the smell of campfire.

electromagnetic · Answer

Talk about their ex, disrespectful to those around them, texting or just downright on their phone.

FictionalCharacter · Answer

Not showing any interest.  Being uncomfortable around your presence.

lunalu18 · Answer

Ignore me while i talk about things... Not compliment me and check out other girls...

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

• be a golddigger • be rude and judgmental • not saying a word but only "hm" "k" and no convo • not showing up at all • being a smartass

DJB72 · Answer

Explosive diarrhea but come on the date instead of rescheduling.

Moimaris · Answer

Leaving after a couple of minutes

35230 · Answer

say i love you too with out them saying i love you first

genericname85 · Answer

call their ex and organize a booty call for the date to witness xD

Andres77 · Answer

Get sick and have an accident or throw up in the car

Still-alive · Answer

not pay attention to what im saying or seem interested

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

Not take NO for an answer!

TallAnon · Answer

Torture, murder, rape. A combination of those would probably be the worst.

SphynxUK · Answer

Stare at their phone.

Flower7 · Answer

Talk about their ex and compare me to her.

Toldol2 · Answer

Talk bad about exes and force a relationship

BlacklightShade · Answer

Empty a suitcase full of ebola.

kc_4308 · Answer

Lie and take advantage of me

anmari2001 · Answer

its called ate because you ate the d

KAT247 · Answer

Be on their phone the whole time

Laura456 · Answer

Make it seem like a job interview

Anonymous · Answer

Be rude, treat you like shit, and leave early. Oh, and for women, leave you stuck with the bill.

Anon1996thesecond · Answer

Eat with their mouth open.

EmmaMary · Answer

Not turn up in the first place.

Starwitch23 · Answer

Touching inappropriately

JosyJosy · Answer

Talk about your ex instead

lizchill · Answer

Pay attention to someone other than their date.

Kitty0811 · Answer

Order for me. That is just a stupid move.

exitseven · Answer

Not show up and then lie about it.

Wise4myage · Answer

Talk on their phone and ignore me.

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