be on their phone the whole time, i leave mine in my pocket. i once went on a date the guy said i been chasing you for months, he started on his phone- texting, then saying sorry every second and about a half hour in i got tired of it. excused myself and left through another exit leaving him there, then changed my number when i got home.
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- Be on their cell phone too much and not apologize for it. They shouldn't be on it at all. Block the time off. The person in front of them deserves their attention. They're putting their time and effort in to be there.
- Messy eater with food flying.
- Being rude or completely dismissive to the wait staff, for no reason.
- Criticizing what I order. Like, who cares.
As far as what they talk about, there are no rules. They can do anything they want.
The worst thing someone could do on a date, would be to bring their boyfriend along. Just saying that would really suck. Next, would be to ask you for bail money to get their boyfriend out of jail...
Order food without asking you. A girl did that to me on a first date last weekend. Fist and last date.
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Take you somewhere where there's another female there they arranged to meet a week prior.. Yes that actually happened once🤦 needless to say there was no second date..
Pressure you for sex or introduce you to drugs
Considering the fact that I've never been on a date, I think I know of something that's not cool for a date.
Being kind of rude to the waiter is not something I would encourage at a date, or just in a normal condition.
I'm sure there's so many things to not do at a dtae with someone, but this hits hard considering the fact that a few of my friends work at fast food places.
Yeah. Don't do that.-make fun of or negatively comment on someones appearance
-makes things very sexual early
-being judgmental
-being unhygenic
-being rude to anyone
-acting uninterested in what im saying
-doesnt ask me questions to try and get to know me
-continuously talk about politics
-expect me to pay for the date when they were the one to invite me (Sorry if this sounds selfish but I think whoever is the inviter should pay)Based on experience? Ask, "so how much for an hour?"
And worst I can think of is them being a mad scientist and disecting you.
That would definitely be the worst thing to happen on a first date.Sitting quiet and not trying to keep the conversation going, constantly checking on their phone or taking too many pics, talking about their ex, hitting on someone else, flexing about their wealth/achievements too much and constantly talking about themself
Pet peeve if he acts like or assumes he is owed something just because he pays for the date. The worst thing if tries to get physical when not welcome.
Mention exes over and over. It’s useful to know a little of someone’s past on the first date but not full on rants about them
Demonstrate bad manners. Show up late; interrupt the date when talking; not discuss who's paying (probably should be done beforehand).
Talk about past partners
Eating while showing food
Farting
Burping
No good formal skills
On cell phone
Disrespectful
Loud while talking
Ordering the largest mealTrying to pressure you into doing things you’re not okay with doing… for example, sex, drugs, alcohol, smoking, etc…
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Pressuring you, making assumptions, try to tell "jokes" that are not funny. Not paying attention to what you're saying and be rude.
Kill her, chop her body up in a restraint.
behead her, feed her to pigs.
throw her in a pit of snakes
torture her
shoot her
stab her.
the list is fairly long tbf.I got asked if I had a spiderman fetish cause I had old Spider-Man vans in my closet. On the first date, he seen in it in a Instagram post. Why?
Offer to take you to an expensive dinner and then after go to the bathroom and leave you with the check.
Dishonesty and all of its iterations. Weak character and being two-faced. When someone is dishonest this flaw appears pretty quickly.
Talk about an ex or talk about himself without trying to know me
There are a couple. I'll name the ones I really dislike. Being on your phone the whole time and being rude to waiters/waitresses
Being rude to serving staff is a sure shot way to end the date early and never hear from me again.
Keep asking or implying they want sex before the end of the date.
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