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What do you think of OLDER men who prefer dating much YOUNGER women? (Page 2)
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I think it depends on if they already have kids or not. For example, someone my age, 40 single with no kids dating a 20 year old is fine with me, but someone 40 that has 20 year old kids and is dating a 20 year old, then that seems bad to me.
And I think it should only happen when they have compatible morals, compatible long term life goals, and have things in common. It shouldn't happen for money or for just sex.
Superficial because anything over 10-15 years apart doesn’t normally turn into long term.
Long term for some could be 10 years
Not long term enough for most young people though.
thats true. most of these young women dating these men 15-20 years older tend to have very short lived relationships that are usually comprised of lust, infatuation, and sex rather than true love. Its rare for such relationships to work out long term.
And usually by the time she is 45 and he is 60 , she usually starts developing a wandering eye for other men that are younger, hotter, and still can keep up with her in bed and on physical activities.
@shaysh87 And he got what he wanted and she got what she wanted... next.
Oh no that isn’t a good mentality to have. Fake people are a dime a dozen. Let’s pay off of that trait for abit, shall we?
@cheechee4me
What usually happens when a young woman in her 20s goes for an old guy in his 40s. She is either going after money Or just looking for a sexual hook up, or she has an old man fetish. There are weirdos who are attracted to white hairs , bald spots , wrinkles, saggy balls. I know it’s weird but they do exist.
She may also be attracted to his fatherly maturity (some girls find fatherly guys to be sexy), the experienced way he fucks in bed , Loves his Credit score / stability. These girls are not looking for someone they can relate to , they just admire his fatherly maturity.
These relationships tend to be usually short lived because these girls lack similar levels of maturity , Different perspectives on life , drastically different life experience, different life stages. All of these differences tend to accumulate and cause a lot of emotional disconnect
And when these young women marry Do these old guys , it’s very common for them to start regretting it when they been married for 10+ years. they end up finding that they’re just married to an old guy approaching senior citizen years , who can’t keep up with them physically or sexually.
Studies have proven that couples with large age gaps tend to have much higher rates of divorce and have larger declines in martial satisfaction 6-10 years later.
“Lay” not pay.
@shaysh87 not sure what the problem is here. I’m sorry if you’re into superficial only. I’m not though.
I’m not into using. I think it’s cheap and insincere. Void of any heart whatsoever. Be damned to anyone who says otherwise.
I very clearly stated long age gap relationships don’t work usually.
@cheechee4me
Sometimes these people do end up marrying. And often times , it’s not uncommon for the younger party to regret marrying such an old partner 10 + years into the marriage
Anything over 10 years will cause problems down the road
@shaysh87 😕😕😕
It really comes down to how the couple feels about it. If the younger girl legitímately likes the older guy and vice versa than who gives a shit about what other people think. It’s there happiness. Fuck other peoples judgment.
But if a older guy is going around hitting on younger girls who aren’t interested then that’s creepy.
Their preferences their business as long as they leave me alone.
Everyone is entitled to their own preference I guess, I think a difference of 20 years is still decent if they're both mature enough. A gap of 30 years or more... it's a bit weird, and it's hard for me to think that there's genuine affection and attraction, it looks more like a relationship of convenience, money or financial security in exchange for sex.
I’ve always liked older guys (though not exclusively and not that much older) so I can’t judge. If the girl is into it and they’re into it it’s fine with me.
I think its silly if the dude is far significantly older than her like a 20 year old being with a 40 year old. The man can be your dad.
You're past your prime and she's in her prime, but whatever.
Milk him for his wealth because he's only with her because she's young and pretty otherwise he wouldn't look her way.
As long as all parties are happy then more power to them and really it’s nobodies business except for maybe her parents
Creepy, sure.
But if both are willing subjects who am I to stand in their way. Whatever the agenda.
I don't take creepy feelings generally very serious, usually they are baseless and not worth becoming a judgmental asshole over.
He is shallow. It depends on how young he preferes. As long as he preferes women not under 23 , it is ok. And he should not complain about golddiggers because he knows that no normal sane young hot woman will choose an old man over a 25 years old hot man due to evolution. Nothing wrong with old men but we have to be realistic. We all care about looks when dating
Are you familiar with the phrase legal and up
Does not matter whether it is legal or not. Women's brain is developing till the age of 23-25 which affect the personality and maturity. So scientificically and biologically a 18 years old ain't mature and tend to have instabile personality. So it is immoral and disgusting to me
Legal does not morally ok. So is the age of consent 13 in japan aka pedophilia is legal
Actually that would be more accurately Ephebophilia not pedophilia
You are right. I am sorry
That a mute argument because personality and maturity varies based on the person that being said from your POV a 16 year old could date a 50 year old if they were mature enough and don’t get me started on the physical aspect because by 23 most women’s bodies have been fully developed for 4 years prior and will have reached their adult height 8 years prior so what are you talking about it’s doesn’t matter 18 is literally an adult
You can’t try to use that as an excuse because I’m sure you met people well over their 30s who aren't mature enough so what other reason would you think it is immoral and disgusting
So what are you saying? Your point?
Biologically seen it is disgusting
You dont even read my posts. I am not going to reply myself
My point is 18 is biologically an adult
Repeat myself ***
Legally it is but not biologically due to brain development
That’s true @hi_it_is_me123
@hi_it_is_me123 so if someone’s brain is underdeveloped or never full developed do to oh let’s say substance abuse you know drugs vaping drinking ya know stuff college and some really cool high school kids do ages 15- 24 are you telling me That for the rest of their life they aren’t adults because their brains didn’t fully develop that’s retarded
So if they are unable to make rational decisions due to drug abuse, yes. What is retarded is your obsession with teenie girls. And you are 22 and so it would not be that problematic to date 18-19 years old girls. So i dont understand why you behave like a 50 years old creepy guy.
Noone would care whether a young guy like you date young girls. So i really dont understand your problem.
Why is that retarded?
Most people don’t care yea their 16 but they also look like grown women
Lol I can see it now, this guy in his white van sitting outside of local high schools waiting for last period to get out so he can scope out his next victim.. *cough cough* I mean girlfriend.. 😂
I agree haha lol
@jennifer_Hanmabloom wait you sleep with 16 year olds? What?
@Subarugirl her parents pick her up I only see her not during school hours
@Subarugirl I date 16 year olds
@PrettyPriya
I do think it's kind of creepy but if the couple is happy together then that's what really matters. It's not my place to tell people who they should be with
if you're personally targeting young men or young women than yes. If it just did happen than no. Life happens. Also if he's already on life support on a wheel chair. That's sus.
I don't care even if all the women around me are taken by 80 yr old men.
Some people find such relationships creepy, and I would say that they may not be the perfect pairs, but the thing is there's not much difference between two young adult couples and this scenario except that in this case, the guy is wrinkled
I wouldn't date someone older, I prefer men that are at least 2-3 years with 4 being the maximum for me to date. But hey different folks different strokes if they're happy I'm happy for them.
where are you finding men 2 years old? geez... that's nearly picking em up from the hospital. they aren't men at all at that age, I was 2 once. I'd guess they are really affectionate and subordinate.. give em candy and they are yours. to each their own... (sarc).
I mind a generation difference, but I'm cool with age differences. Anyone who is more than 25years older, and could practically have a kid your age is creepy to be dating someone their kids age.
Let's not play being blind.
it's good for them guys. They want young girls and they get them. Give me 20 more years and promotions and I'll become one of them too.
the girls being with them are obviously gold diggers. Maturity in their language means deeper pockets. No more bullshitting.
Completely up to them. If there weren't young women who were allowing the attention, there would be no older men doing this. Takes two to tango.
Because they know they can gain their attentions through financial and emotional stability. Something a lot of young men do not possess yet.
If they prefer that... I'd say perverts.
If, by chance, they end up falling in love with a younger woman then that's kinda cute. Kudos if she accepts his feelings and reciprocates.
Love must not have age limits, dating should.
I personally think its creepy, but to each their own. At the end if the day it's none of my business.
I just find it creepy because i used to get hit on by older men as a kid. Hated it.