Men: Is it your fault your single? (Page 2)

Question

Are you single because women ignore you? Are you a man women would look for as a partner? Are you actively out there asking ladies out or are you just passively “looking” for love? Do you put forth the effort to look nice when you go out, to talk with the ladies when you get the chance, to ask them out, or make any outward effort? I wanna understand from both sides of this question if one sides to blame or if there’s a disconnect. If your voluntarily single then you needn’t give an opinion. This question is for the men searching but have yet to find their Belle.

jasco · Answer

Sort of their fault mostly my fault. I think my personality isn’t appealing enough to women that I find attractive. Also being that I don’t know many single women around my age nor do I know anyone who could help me in that department. Women simply don’t find me attractive and that’s ok, I have learn to live with that and it’s not like I can’t live without a woman in my life

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Well, considering being single as a fault is relative.
But I think most men don't put the correct effort. Some have reasonable standards and it's good. If they can't find a woman meeting their standards, it's better to not settle for someone who they are not convinced with.

A good number of single guys or guys who finds a relationship after much effort are the ones who possess most of the qualities women seek in men. But they fail to represent themselves correctly.

NerdDG · Answer

Is it my fault for genetically skinny? Is it my fault for being uncircumcised? Is it my fault for love video games more than women? Maybe. Maybe not. I'd careless about them.

David_Bayer · Answer

It is my fault. I'm unable to maintain any relationships and acquiring them is even harder.

Derwood · Answer

Women don't want to be women... barefoot pregnant and I'm the kitchen... get me a beer baby I'm to busy relaxing from doing real shit. Anyway that said men nolonger want to be men so when you think of what a real man is in your head you can kiss that shit bye bye as well.

Recurrence · Answer

I’m single because I’m still working through my anxiety and insecurities and I don’t put myself out there

Dchrls78104 · Answer

I have standards that people might say are high. I do not see them in the modern woman and I don't trust her. As a result, I have never dated and always been single. So, maybe it is my fault. I own it.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm single because I only just started trying to be in a relationship.

Notfabricated11 · Answer

The fault is that of society. They have put labels in place that everyone needs to follow because other people follow the rules. " A REAL MAN " "ALPHA " " BETA". All the labels that have associated behaviors that women want to see. Lmao

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Im not single but tbh its hard to even meet women that are the kind one would want to date. Like i can meet a girl at a bar but a single girl hanging at a bar isn't my idea of someone id want to be serious with.

king-dom1 · Answer

I've been single for 7 years now, reason is cuz i couldnt trust anyone anymore, they lie too damn much, i just wanna be with someone who I can trust or at least get along with but nop

ChristLover · Answer

I would say that i choose to be single but it could also be that I have yet to find someone that I actually want that wants me too

Celtero · Answer

I guess so. Though, it's not exactly easy to be motivated in today's dating environment.

Anonymous · Answer

I was single for 2 years after breaking up with my ex I took a risk and did something reckless but it worked somehow and now I'm with my dream girl

Snakeyes7 · Answer

Honestly I don't really care. I have better things to worry about in my life than if a woman wants to join me. If they do? Great. If not? That's their choice.

OddBeMe · Answer

I’d say 70/30. There’s expectations our society pounds into us. So single people are fighting the expectations as well as our own issues.

Chthou95 · Answer

It's not women's fault but it's not my fault either. I believe some men are destined to be single & you have to learn to focus on other things in life.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah it is my fault. I don't really go out very often and when I do I'm usually too shy and don't really talk to many women. I think I need to expand my boundaries and just talk to more people.

Anonymous · Answer

It must be my fault. I've been stood up and cancelled on last minute. Approaching in person is pretty much never and option and online is useless.

es20490446e · Answer

I'm single because I don't know any woman I liked to have anything romantic or sexual with her.

InferiorElegy · Answer

I don't speak for all men but for me it is entirely my own fault why I'm single. It's my fault I wasn't a sperm with attractive genetics.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe... But then again I am short , hairy and skinny built male... not the typical type who can attract women

Anonymous · Answer

I’m single because I don’t socialise much. Also the majority of women aren’t good enough for me. I’m a guy and I can be picky I don’t settle for no bitch. The modern women generally isn’t that great apart from the fact that they are more independent

Anonymous · Answer

Well it seems men have always been expected to take or accept responsibility for their lives more than women are

Slim57 · Answer

Sure is. Too many bad women out there and I'm picky.

EnglishEuropean · Answer

It's nobody's fault, some people just aren't relationship material.

Anonymous · Answer

It takes 2 people to make a relationship. You can't make someone like you.

Anonymous · Answer

It's no one's fault why we're single. It's not ok to blame ourselves for that just like blaming others.

Whytepowerhanma · Answer

Nope it’s women’s fault for being whores how am I supposed to be faithful with all these skanks and bimbos waiting to homewreck my happy relationship

MJtheCoach · Answer

You sound hopeless.  Only beta men have a hard time with women especially relationships

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