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No, but if we both release words that make us lose face in regular dating scenes about our attraction to each other, then we are probably going to be in the scenario soon. I know that it isn't proper, but that will more than likely happen to me because of people who message me quite a bit on different apps for an extended period of time because of how we have gotten to know each other previously before meeting in person.
Nope, I want to know them first and whether I see them as a possible romance or just a friend. I even think kissing on the first date is a bit far (but that’s kinda the culture here)
I know this is going to sound stupid for a guy to say but I want to fall in love first before I have sex with a person because I want to be sure I'm not going to be ditched and abandoned
It is not likely but it is not impossible either. It really depends on how well things go and what kind of chemistry we have.
Generally, no. I was usually looking for that intellectual & emotional spark first.
I never expect sex from a girl anytime I never have and I never will. My attitude about this is if it happens great but if it doesn't it's no big deal. That's probably why my very closest and best friends are women.
No more first dates for me, fingers crossed, but YES.
if the mutual chemistry was right, I was always open to it and wanted it, BUT I didn’t expect it.
My first dates are a screening test so I never go in w/ the intention of having sex. It has happened b4 but typically I'm just trying to see if the woman is worth my time on a first date.
No! Never. When i go to a date, am hoping things go right and again hopefully to look forward for a second date.
I assume absolutely nothing. There's no consistency or predictability in women I care to bet on, so I just stay open to all the options. Sure enough, then there's the "I like a man who knows what he wants" crowd who decide that finding a variety of outcomes acceptable is "not knowing what you want". So no, but there be no winning lol.
I only go on online dating for sex not that I go on often but it’s a solution if I’m long term single and not looking
I wouldn’t do it with my husband, I’m damn not gonna do it on a first date?
Huh?
@Jamie05rhs I was falling asleep when I answered it… I thought it asked ir I would make a porn video on a first date! Seriously, THATS how tired I was!
@CrazyGirl2 Lol! It's okay; it happens. 😂
No... I've been around the block... I know enough to know for me anyway... its about the heart. Having said that though... if the gal expressed interest I would of course respond favorably. Think about it... it would be rude and why would I want to reject a woman's desires... particularly since I am interested in her in the first place. And no... it would not effect the way I think about her... good or bad. Rejection is hard on women... why would I hurt someone I'm interested in?
That's what the ideal goal is. Lol. But it rarely goes that smooth. And I don't really have my hopes set. Lol. I still enjoy the date either way. But hate having blue balls
No sex on the first date is going to fast. Really get to know the person first.
Mostly I don’t. I don’t have any expectations. That way I’m never disappointed.
Most don't - they need some time to gain some familiarity and connect. If that has had some precursor, or happens really fast, it can happen. I wouldn't get too hung up on it though - how many 'first dates' will you actually have in your life?
Not necessarily, but I am open to it depending on the circumstances. I don't expect it, unless we, like really hit it off, sparks flying the whole bit... Or she's a hoe and I am willing to take the risk for some fun.
I do not expect a girl to want to have sex on the first date. If she does, then great. If not, maybe next time. I like women who practice good judgement and do not have sex on the first date, who like to know who they are having sex with first.
No I don’t want sex on the first date unless we have been friends for years and even than I still more than likely wouldn’t wanna do it. I rather just have fun and relax ya know