Do you have it in mind to have sex on a first date? (Page 2)

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Do you have it in mind to have sex on a first date?

Cubus · Answer

No, I want to have sex with someone I can trust. You can't trust someone that much after one date.

weeping_lamentations · Answer

Not really. I mean if it gets a little physical and touchy like we kiss and hug makeout then maybe but I wouldn't hint or suggest sex on the first date

Romajoyi · Answer

Depends on the level of attraction I have for the guy.

MysticDevice · Answer

If the chemistry is all there then maybe. It was one time and we did do it on the first date and it went well.

Hairylegs222 · Answer

No I don't. Too early, don't know her yet nor have any feelings towards her yet. I have to super like the woman 1st.

Recurrence · Answer

No, I’m a virgin so I never to get to know someone before. I don’t know how much time that is, but I don’t think it’s just a day

Nigjt · Answer

Yes if I am spending time with a Woman then I am very much hopeing she will come or take me to her place to make some love for a few days or more. God Bless

NightOwl8801 · Answer

I dont expect it to happen... If we both click and are on the same page then that would be up for discussion.  I've gotten a completely unexpected handjob on a first date and now she's my spouse

Jayplays900 · Answer

Naw, unless she advances first. Sure, after maybe the 3rd or 4th date whenever I know she's not gonna hurt me, but yeah. After a few couple of dates, sure.

MJtheCoach · Answer

Is my aim! If I don’t smash the chick on the first date I’ll never meet her again. Which usually she uses her not sleeping with against you to play games.

Mac-One · Answer

I have had only 4 first dates. I was younger then and had not thought about sex.

Dargil · Answer

NEVER do that. It often makes a relationship still born.

Rjc36 · Answer

Never planned for it to happen and it only happened once.

Inibblez · Answer

No, then again i'm an old gentle men type of person, and double then again, if the girl's that hungery looking, i'd not turn her down, but it not on my mind, though for most guys it is, and some also start to expect it, and give guy's a bad name.

Natehunter199 · Answer

Not something I'm expecting but sure wouldn't steer from it

LindaT1974 · Answer

No it’s usually half way through the date when I know him a bit better whether he gets lucky or not

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Not really. I try to go in open minded to anything that might happen.

DaveToo · Answer

Not always. I need to know the lady before I commit to any relationship, sexual or otherwise.

Jaysolo66 · Answer

I hope so! It's one of the best ways to get to know someone. At the very least have a fun night.

exitseven · Answer

When I was dating I never expected sex on the first date.

Redstang88 · Answer

Definitely don’t expect it, but won’t complain if things go that way

bgreek · Answer

Hell no, where is the thrill of the chase? Plus, if any woman has sex on the 1st date Most guys won't respect her, and see her as a slut

Likes2drive · Answer

It can happen but I’m never expecting it but if things are going that good and she wants to then I’m not going to say no

Anonymous · Answer

Sex is the only reason we make time for women. Women want to believe differently and simps will tell you otherwise but sex is the only thing we need you for and the reason we do everything else.

OddBeMe · Answer

No necessarily. I think humans, especially males have sex on the mind constantly because of nature. But both genders want relationship.

crazy8000 · Answer

Not really. She has to trigger that in a way that majority of female's have problems to do due to their obsessive compulsive belief they shouldn't.

KiraIsBored · Answer

It’s always on the table 🤷‍♀️

Ironic_Method · Answer

Generally it's on my mind, but I'm a very sexual person. It's certainly not required.

Anonymous · Answer

I always have it no my mind, I case I like a her I will not say no to it and will not artificially make her wait, just because some 'guru', told online I have to...

McKellar · Answer

I've had sex on a first date before, but I certainly don't expect it on a first date every time or right off the hop or anything.

KatieSims3Lover · Answer

Nope I will always make clear I would wait for sex and only when i am ready to do. when i get in a relationship.

prosmind · Answer

No, I will wait for next date but if she is in provocative dress, it means she is also mentally and physically prepared for sex on first date.

Shawn411 · Answer

You damb right but not flipping out about it and the older you get you better be giving it away with know baggage baby...

fred_durst · Answer

i would be lying if i say no , of course website like this is the last place that i can brutally honest. IRL , i am pretty much fake person

Notfabricated11 · Answer

If she's okay with it , then I'm down. But I never go on the first date thinking its a go. Just need that chemistry.

RayBeam · Answer

LoL would woman ever not think of sex they can not live without thinking of it its their nature oh me i swear to god i newer think of sex at first meeting well if you Guys bleive me here

TexasRed95 · Answer

No I don't know the person so why would I sleep with them?

Typhon_ · Answer

Definitely not gonna do that, no need to ramp it up to 100 in 1 date.

Surely · Answer

The thought is always there! But the world doesn’t stop spinning if it doesn’t happen,

sagar124 · Answer

It depends on what mood you both are and if you both are thinking the same.

Mangospacho · Answer

I take things slow. I usually wait until the second date for that kind of thing.

Iknowbestgirls · Answer

@Chikky absolutely! Why wouldn't you be thinking about sex on the first date?

notwoke · Answer

if at all possible without breaking the law or doing it against her will

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

I don’t really like to anymore. When I was much younger, sure. Now it’s the 2nd or 3rd date.

NawfZumbi · Answer

Depends on how the date goes. If I'm feeling the connection yep. If I'm not then nope. Buy her a Uber and keep on pushing

krin_m · Answer

When I was dating, if it happened naturally, it did. I never started a first date with that expectation.

Robh55 · Answer

Not as a rule but being a single adult, I dont discourage it! 😁

Lushly · Answer

No I rather wait an I believe its up to her so she feels comfortable

Luckycharms12 · Answer

I'm not going see her again if have sex on first date

king-dom1 · Answer

It always happens, I just carry couple condoms with me now

constantine15 · Answer

Yes, she won’t get a second date unless we have sex.

Nick473 · Answer

No and any guy that does is dating for sex not a relationship

Shy_Steve · Answer

Of course I do, But that's only because I haven't had it yet.

legalboxers · Answer

I did. each time - each relationship lasted 4 years

Guardian45 · Answer

While that's a NICE thought, it is COMPLETELY UNREALISTIC!

cookiecrusher · Answer

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princeofromance · Answer

It all depends on how comfortable she is with having sex on the first date.

Twalli · Answer

Never, but I am open to anything short of penetrating her vagina or ass.

TallAnon · Answer

I always think it would be nice, but it's not a requirement, things go how they go

tsmuwkenshii · Answer

I think most people do when it’s planned accordingly but I don’t actually think most girls expect it as opposed to their social counterpart

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