Have you ever been disgusted or offended by another persons dating preferences before?

[Still-alive]

Like they state what they look for in a potential partner and you were disgusted by it?

Yes

Sorta

Not really

Not at all

[420Rachel]

No I don't care. If I don't meet someone's standards then obviously it's not meant to be.

[Still-alive]

Well youve met mine heh. :P

[loves2learn]

Yup! Did you read that same question today? 🤣

[Still-alive]

Uh oh no I didn’t lol. Link?

[loves2learn]

Do you know of any women in their 20s that have never had a boyfriend or first love before (that is not gay or asexual)? ↗

[loves2learn]

Should I come to the conclusion that I will never have a girlfriend, wife, kids, or family of my own? ↗

[loves2learn]

He’s asked the same thing a few times. Gets old quick. 🙄

[dustybiker]

I like public toilets that have never been used before, but they are hard to come by... 🙊 Sorry.. couldn’t keep it in.

[Still-alive]

Weirdo lol

[t-8900]

never had a boyfriend? never had a first love? lol you can fall in love with someone without even dating. like what? ffs that's insane. just read his posts and look at his username. He already projects so much self-loathing ain't nobody gonna fix that.

[loves2learn]

@dustybiker 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[loves2learn]

@t-8900 so true. He is a LOST cause.

[420Rachel]

Brooooo. That dude is a certified loser.

[loves2learn]

@420Rachel yup! Nailed it lol

[t-8900]

people dont choose who they love or when they love them. It just happens. So I'm not sure what he's thinking. Has he never loved someone? If not then it sounds very sheltered to me. Also its not like you would still have those feelings for them years down the road. I think it's literally asking the impossible tbh

[loves2learn]

@t-8000 yup literally asking the impossible. And he himself had sex with a 16 yo when he was 20. Where I live that is not illegal to be clear but questionable ethics and his mentality so so fucked.

[loves2learn]

Whoops, apologies. @t-8900

[t-8900]

OH i did NOT see him say that... uuuuuuh he can go f*ck himself. Practice what you preach, that's my philosophy.

[loves2learn]

Mmmmhmmm. I am *this* close to blocking his ass.

[loves2learn]

Thank you for the mho! Was it the lonks? 🤣🙃

[TheUniqueOne96]

Well, I watched a video a few weeks or so back, where some guy addressed some feminist article bashing some guy for his dating profile and he basically exposed some women for having some similar requirements and being hypocrites about it.

Now, every is entitled to have whatever preferences and standards they wish, but I guess it does kind of disgust me when people are hypocrites in certain ways e. g. in the video, the guy address some women's profiles and saw some of the following:

A woman with two kids, literally pregnant with her third, saying she doesn't date men with kids.

A woman saying she won't put her ass in a car that cost's less than 100k.

A woman saying a guy who's less than a certain height, isn't a real man.

[ChiTown33]

Disgusted no. Confused and a little exasperated yes. I'm a very logical and analytical person. It confuses me how many women can knowingly pursue one toxic relationship after the next. I try to help with advice because that's what this site is for but I see so many women finally getting out of a toxic relationship. Only to jump headlong into another one with the exact same type of guy. They present their case to me. And it's pretty obvious the guy's character is s***. All the red flags are there it boggles my mind that I can see with the naked eye what she can't with a microscope. I understand oxytocin is a b**** that confuses you but c'mon! Lol

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Not really offended but definitely disgusted. It’s their choice anyway. However, I had a friend who would specifically target vulnerable girls, he would find girls who are severely mentally unstable, and take advantage of them and leave. I had to block him and distance myself after I noticed this pattern because what kind of person does that? What kind of person would I be if I was still friends with him?

[Minahh]

You did a right decision in distancing yourself from him

[t-8900]

I dont like it when people have outrageous expectations. It's not as common as some try to make it out to be but the three sixes are extremely annoying.
6 foot (plus)
6 pack
6 figures

honestly it's like 5-10% might actually want/expect this in a guy. But the issue is people act like and portray it as the norm. Its hardly the norm. If you got those expectations you're probably dying alone or you'll buckle and tote the line eventually.

[DarkCarousel]

I’ve never heard of it that way. No 666!

[t-8900]

@DarkCarousel exactly. and as they say money (greed) is the root of all evil.

[TheorionMage]

Because knowing the other persons in-depth,
you realize that THEIR choice is based in their low self esteem and gullibility
in believing they could not deserve better and they were just tired. So, they settle.

So, as their friend you make your observations to them timely and TACTFULLY and bite your tongue with the inevitable "did I NOT tell you so? Did I NOT as your friend WARN you?" comes round. BUT... it WAS / IS THEIR free choice!

[Aethereal]

Yes. Usually when their preferences are not preferences and are actually prejudices. An example is when the person takes one (unchangeable) thing/feature/trait and uses it as the sole basis for disqualifying a very large number of people from their dating pool, regardless of how many other great and/or rare positive traits someone with that one disqualifying trait may possess.

[DonkeyDan]

Not really, it's none of my business ehi they find attractive, just because it's not a type I'd find attractive doesn't mean it bad. The only thing that kind of disgust me is when people look for materialistic things in a partner, like money and power.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

What one has in their dating profile is their business
as long as they aren't going to harm anyone but if they
seem to be wanting to harm anyone or got a profile
with guns, wanting money sure I would report them
anyone with guns could be a serious issue but I
would do a background check on them.

[Xtcy2083]

Why would any half sane person be "offended" by SOMEONE ELSE'S dating preferences? To the person who was, I would say "Get a life!"

[Still-alive]

Read the lonks below @loves2learn

[loves2learn]

Yuuup read my lonks yo! 👊🏻

[Xtcy2083]

@loves2learn Okay, the lonks.

[KieranByrne]

Lonks?

[Xtcy2083]

@KieranByrne That's the way those two spell 'links'.

[KieranByrne]

Thank you, I never understood 'Lingo' words, although will not judge any that use it!

[loves2learn]

It’s just a typo guys. Then I ran with it.

[KieranByrne]

✌️😌

[Still-alive]

@loves2learn lol i was on my phone. it happens

[loves2learn]

@Still-alive sure does. To me too!

[KieranByrne]

I have 'English, Deutsch, and Latin' on my keyboard. Autocorrect and sentence structure makes my typing look like I have been drinking!

Just 'Flexing' 💪

[loves2learn]

Autocorrect is always drunk. Sprichts du Deutsch?

[loves2learn]

Ja. Ich habbe funf jare Deutsch gelernen im schul. Also, meine Deutch war besser zwenzig jahre nach weil ich zum Deustchland gegangen.

Ich auch habbe ein bisschen Russisch gelenernt im Deutschland.

[loves2learn]

Pretty sure that is Russian and the answer is nein lol

[KieranByrne]

Haha, it is the first one says 'How much Russian do you know?' which you answered and the second says 'I have been learning Russian on and off for two years!' 👌😌😂

[loves2learn]

Deustchland ist schoen, ja. :) Schwimmen im Ostsee.

[loves2learn]

Guten nacht!

[Seangreen]

There's always that guy the only wants to date a 10 in reference to looks and she better have a degree and a career and a car and better be good in bed but she better not have had a lot of Partners and that's the same type of guy that complains about how there's no good women out there

[NathanDavis]

nope... I try my best not to judge

and I never take it personal either, after all... they're just preferences

obviously, I am not counting the cases in which they're actually disgusting like predators and all kinds of sick stuff

[DizzyDesii]

Only in terms of age gaps. Anything over 5 years always makes me cringe

[Still-alive]

even if its between a 50 year old and a 42 year old for instance?

[DizzyDesii]

I don't know why but when a person is like 40+, i dont pay much attention. But anyone dating someone old/young enough to be their child/parents is really nasty

[Still-alive]

why is that nasty?

[DizzyDesii]

Why is it not? It makes you feel like they have mommy/daddy isues or it makes the older person look sus. I know some people who were checking out the child and literally just waiting for the moment they hit 18. Yea thats legal but sad and disgusting. Gives me pedo vibes. Anyways, people will do as they please but i still find it disgusting

[Still-alive]

seems like an arbitrary line you have there between when you get disgusted and when you aren't disgusted. but you do you.

[DizzyDesii]

As i always do

[DarkCarousel]

Not really, no. Recently, I read a post from someone who wanted to date a disabled person because they wouldn’t cheat on her. So I kind of scoffed at that.

[t-8900]

i remember it well. </3

[loves2learn]

Samsies 😬

[DarkCarousel]

@t-8900 @loves2learn definitely an odd one…

[Seangreen]

I had a friend marry somebody because he said they were so ugly that no one would sleep with her even if she wanted to cheat they're divorced now and not from infidelity he just left her ass one day

[loves2learn]

I’m reminded of this song lol

https://youtu.be/Y1ZJiBHh-Yw

[Cherry234]

No not really. But I do think some people are too picky and have unrealistic standards. It's their business though.

[Seangreen]

Yeah but when they make it public and it's something that's a little extreme people are going to send them no matter what so it's just stuff some things are Best Kept to yourself

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

Nope. None of my business who someone else chooses to date.

[Ekke118]

Only disgusted when guys like the exact opposite of what I like.
I get it that I'd have less competition, but past a certain point it's just encouraging what I don't like.

[purplepoppy]

I might think they're an idiot but its their life and choice

[menina]

Yes that has happened many times to me but I don't tell them that I'm disgusted or offended.

[MrKinktastic]

Yeah, being openly close minded is a giant red flag

[FinalFantasyBro]

I can't say I have ever been offended about a preference but if you are using that preference to spread hate that when we start having problems.