Yikes. I don't date women with kids. But you are not obligated to do anything for them. Now if you wanted to spend time with her as family, then why not.
If you pay for her kids. She should reciprocate with some home cooking if she couldn’t afford to pay when going out. Just remember. If you two get together, her kids will cost you a fair amount of money during your life together.
I like a girl who also has two kids. I've been trying to ingratiate myself to them, in order to impress her. Right now though, she's not in the mind set of wanting to date because she's still in full custody battle with her ex husband
Kids have their mother and father but new boyfriend of this mother is not going to. spend for kids, he only like to fuck that mother, so mother is cheating
Yes!! Because you are not just in a relationship with her. You are in a relationship with her kids as well. It’s a package deal. Unless she tells you not to. You should automatically do it.
It just seems like the right thing to do. To me if you are thinking long term with the lady you need to be damn good to those kids. Don't be one of these sorry asses who isn't good to his step-kids. They are part of the total package
if she can afford to pay for her kids then yes but if you make more money and she doesn't have a lot then you should pay for everyone. I mean.. if you are planing to marry her then you should pay but if you don't then she pays
If its serious step up and be captain cuck save a ho already and start paying your dues. If thats not what you want, keep it casual, kids shouldn't be on date because you're there to smash.
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What the actual fuck? How is this not being a gold digger?
Obliged, probably no. I wonder how your girlfriend sees it. And how deep you are in that relationship. Hope you still have time to back off if liability seems hire.
Your girlfriend and her kids come as one package and you signed up for it otherwise you wouldn't have picked a single mother. You should if the dad ain't in the picture
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It's telling that fully two-thirds (20 girls) of the female respondents to your poll say YOU should pay for HER children.
The double standards and hypocrisy of modern females is boundless.
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Why would the kids be going on dates with you?
Sheeze, maybe you could offer to pay half for a baby sitter.
You aren’t obligated to do anything go on dates without them. If anything pay for a sitter. Good luck I can’t date men with children.
Yikes. I don't date women with kids.
But you are not obligated to do anything for them. Now if you wanted to spend time with her as family, then why not.
If you pay for her kids. She should reciprocate with some home cooking if she couldn’t afford to pay when going out.
Just remember. If you two get together, her kids will cost you a fair amount of money during your life together.
I like a girl who also has two kids. I've been trying to ingratiate myself to them, in order to impress her. Right now though, she's not in the mind set of wanting to date because she's still in full custody battle with her ex husband
Obligated? If you aren’t prepared to be part of a family then you shouldn’t date her.
No you dont have to but you still can care for her kids without paying anything.
As he is enjoying their mother so, why not pay for her kids?
@Zygum Because it get expensive. They have a mother and father who can pay for their stuff.
The asker is right.
Kids have their mother and father but new boyfriend of this mother is not going to. spend for kids, he only like to fuck that mother, so mother is cheating
shouldn't even be building the expectations that you pay for HER stuff. Don't he paying for those kids.
Yes!! Because you are not just in a relationship with her. You are in a relationship with her kids as well. It’s a package deal. Unless she tells you not to. You should automatically do it.
It just seems like the right thing to do. To me if you are thinking long term with the lady you need to be damn good to those kids. Don't be one of these sorry asses who isn't good to his step-kids. They are part of the total package
if she can afford to pay for her kids then yes but if you make more money and she doesn't have a lot then you should pay for everyone. I mean.. if you are planing to marry her then you should pay but if you don't then she pays
It not your responsibility to help out with your girlfriend kids, the mother of the kids are the one who are responsible for her own children.
I say no but I guess you have no choice, either pay or lose her.
PS: this is why I dont date or get with single mothers
If its serious step up and be captain cuck save a ho already and start paying your dues. If thats not what you want, keep it casual, kids shouldn't be on date because you're there to smash.
To 64% of women:
What the actual fuck? How is this not being a gold digger?
if you like her and want to keep her you have two kids too as they come with her, but not everything all the time.
Arguably not right now but if you move in together you must accept them as if they were your biological children.
Obliged, probably no. I wonder how your girlfriend sees it. And how deep you are in that relationship. Hope you still have time to back off if liability seems hire.
Your girlfriend and her kids come as one package and you signed up for it otherwise you wouldn't have picked a single mother. You should if the dad ain't in the picture
It's telling that fully two-thirds (20 girls) of the female respondents to your poll say YOU should pay for HER children.
The double standards and hypocrisy of modern females is boundless.