Do you not even bother to give attractive people attention because you know you have no chance with them anyway? (Page 2)

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I myself do, I don't even bother to look at the attractive guys that walk past me because1st. They don't look at me.2nd. It will just boost their ego when I look at them but it won't give me anything. It'll just make me look like I'm another one of their fangirls obsessing over them.3rd: I have no chance at all so why even try or bother to give them my time and energy?4rd. They are player's.5th. I'm not worthy of them, they are out of my league and there are so many girls hotter than me that will try to get them. Most likely they will succeed.6th. Most likely they are whores.7th. They are most of the time obsessed with themselves and they look down at people less attractive than them. But if I found an attractive guy I liked and if he was a good guy (which they 99.9% of the time aren't) I would date him even though he's out of my league.

Lionman95 · Answer

True I do it the other waywith the difference that even when I find an attractive woman I probably won´t date because I´m not willing to risk it any disappointments.

Anonymous · Answer

I am very unattractive, and I have given up on dating as a result. Much more peaceful but also lonely.

robocop666 · Answer

only attractive women look at me. Average and below know they have no chance

Planemad · Answer

Pretty young things are not interested in old blokes.

putes · Answer

Uh yes, and I'm old.. when is ol willy Mays Hayes gonna get that fire

Skylar_C · Answer

Yeah I do the same, attractive people intimidate me and i just know they wouldn't lie eyes on me.

TheGreatAwan · Answer

Why bother. Women are so superficial😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

AdithyaR · Answer

I've got a similar anxiety issue. I don't approach people cause my mind wk automatically convince me that they're probably taken or won't be interested in me. Only my thing happens to me with anyone I find attractive or interesting.

ilovesunnydays · Answer

"Im not worthy of them", this thinking my friend needs to go, if you want to be happy in life. And it will take effort, try to say everyday to yourself that you're worthy. Fool out your mind, and with time it works.

Xylem1992 · Answer

If we replace the word "attractive" with "self-absorbed shithead" then the entire thing would make perfect sense.

But as it is I dont agree. Obviously there are people who are attractive who are not players or whores etc.

Dragonpurple · Answer

I wouldn't say I ignore them, I would not bother trying for anything with them though. I have no problem talking to anyone though.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I ignored this girl one time and she cried. I felt bad afterwards.

anylolone · Answer

Gosh, you have issues. How attractive you (it's a hypothetical "you", as in another person) are is irrelevant next to my inner world and other more relevant things.

Neosporin · Answer

I don't consider myself to be ugly but at times there are girls who I think are above my league and I try to avoid them because it reminds me of how inadequate I am haha :tear-smile:

dustybiker · Answer

Nobody should ever cut themselves short.

Avicenna · Answer

That’s silly/ if you find done interesting, talk to them.

Baredog69 · Answer

No way you never know if a fish is going to bite until you throw the line out there and find out.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I don't think that way. I interact with whoever I want to interact with.

Staximus · Answer

I just leave super hot women alone, they have enough guys bothering them. Most in my part of the country want Mr perfect anyways, and that's not me.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I don't give anyone attention even if I'm single.

blended_ninja · Answer

I always take my chances lol

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

If you think someone is out of your league then you're right. You have no business talking to them.

dvc0006 · Answer

who are whores? the girls who succeed with them or the guys. how would you rate yourself? I think you are wrong

StickStickity13 · Answer

Do you even notice or care about average or below average guys?

Shy_Steve · Answer

Yes, Definitely because I'm just Shy.

ojmetal · Answer

Y ah, but I generally don't flirt at all

Anonymous · Answer

Shame shame , you and i are stuck in the same boat

Joshua0213 · Answer

Yeah if I was single I would, how do you know if you don't ask?

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

I observe the field from a plateau none can even comprehend

cookiecrusher · Answer

How do you plan on finding the 0.01% without taking care of your looks and talking to guys you like?

FamilyGuy2020 · Answer

I sometimes do ignore them but mostly not

Chthou95 · Answer

Men won't. Most women today want to date up. Not down. So yeah a lot of dudes say why bother

Shiningtempest · Answer

It depends if they're emotionally & mentally stable & have a pleasant demeanor or not.

Twalli · Answer

Granted I don't know how you look, but beauty is subjective and I highly doubt all guys you find attractive will not find you attractive. Therefore you're closing a lot of doors that might not need to be.

Deebee123 · Answer

It’s all about chemistry

Cinimod1983 · Answer

Sometimes I do just for 4

9317421151 · Answer

I do tryin to get lucky

sean1234 · Answer

Attract

OddBeMe · Answer

attractiveness is 100% subjective. So you’re idea of an attractive guy could think you’re equally attractive.

spartan55 · Answer

What a great attitude you have.

linka_pat307 · Answer

I just crush on them

boobliker · Answer

pretty much

Babygirl_S · Answer

I do.

grega239 · Answer

Something like that

Wise4myage · Answer

No, If I felt that way, than I wouldn't bother.

PapaScott2020 · Answer

Always have and probably always will

PeterSmith1983 · Answer

Do you consider yourself as attractive?

constantine15 · Answer

I feel the same towards pretty girls

Abdulwahh · Answer

Thats not me i value myself

snowblack47 · Answer

Dependes on the attitude of the person.

Anonymous · Answer

Wow lol

Dargil · Answer

I have, yes.

emperor90 · Answer

Yeah i do

whistlingwh0res · Answer

No I always show my vagina so they can release.

Fredde69 · Answer

Of course not

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