Do you not even bother to give attractive people attention because you know you have no chance with them anyway? (Page 2)

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I myself do, I don't even bother to look at the attractive guys that walk past me because1st. They don't look at me.2nd. It will just boost their ego when I look at them but it won't give me anything. It'll just make me look like I'm another one of their fangirls obsessing over them.3rd: I have no chance at all so why even try or bother to give them my time and energy?4rd. They are player's.5th. I'm not worthy of them, they are out of my league and there are so many girls hotter than me that will try to get them. Most likely they will succeed.6th. Most likely they are whores.7th. They are most of the time obsessed with themselves and they look down at people less attractive than them. But if I found an attractive guy I liked and if he was a good guy (which they 99.9% of the time aren't) I would date him even though he's out of my league.

ZackBan · Answer

Depends on the mood.  There are days where I feel like the most attractive man in the world and so I would speak to anyone.  And days I feel not in good shape so I'd keep to myself

Anonymous · Answer

I don't AVOID talking to anyone. Because I don't ask women out. If they're interested they can certainly ask me. In hindsight I probably confuse some women. Because guys approach and talk. So do I, but where I differ is if she doesn't ask me out I eventually just walk away.

Anonymous · Answer

80% of men will never approach women of any kind.
10% of men will only approach if the perfect situation shows itself.

The last 10% of men are the greasy slimy males who approach all women without fear or worry because they don’t care and will just move on to the next girl and keep trying.

Anonymous · Answer

I actually wasn’t the most attractive guy growing up. I lacked self confidence and I let myself go. But as I got older, I started working on myself. I worked on everything, my personality and my looks. I go to the gym every single day now and I got a haircut that suits me. I dress nicely as I spend a lot on clothes to compliment me. With all that done, I get a lot of female attention now. And a lot of girls always assume I’ll be an a-hole, but when they get to know me, I’m still that guy who was super shy and nice to others back then, I just look different now. That being said, I still have girls that hate me because I chose another girl over them, but even then, that’s not fair. You can’t make someone like you. You just have to keep on moving if someone doesn’t reciprocate those feelings back. Remember, there’s always someone out there for you. And you should treat everyone nicely. Treat others how you want to be treated. It goes a long way.

Starla1234 · Answer

I would still try with an attractive person because I would regret it afterwards if I didn’t try to get their attention.

noinsight · Answer

more like I don't wanna be one of the 20 people on their list

Lovesims3plumbob · Answer

Most of my ex boyfriends were attractive and some had trash personality. Why bother going for attractive people if willing to cheat on that partner and some ofthese traits were from my ex boyfriend. I had 9 ex boyfriends.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't bother to give any attention to any girl. Because I know that none of the girls will be with me in any condition given. So yeah! No attention given at all!

libsaretards · Answer

If I really like someone I go for it. Worst case she says no but at least I know and can move on. Best case (which has not happened yet) shit finally goes right and she becomes my wife.

Heartache0405 · Answer

I tend to avoid attractive people. Because the last time I tried to chase an attractive person... It didn't end well

oobidee · Answer

you'd be surprised how often an average looking person ends up with someone out of their league.

VanillaSalt · Answer

I avoid hot women for a reason… their fake. All women are fake to various degrees. Plastic, makeup, filters, too stupid to understand just because your moms told you your worth a million bucks does not mean your worth a million bucks. But hot women come with an attitude, a sense of entitlement, and a level of crazy that can only be had by someone ever put in their place, never told no, and never held accountable.

People are people and some men are like this too but I don’t date men and women get special treatment around the board even compared to the men we would compare them to. This allows women to behave like this far too easy. Can you believe there’s women out there that think men can’t lay a woman out if she’s trying to fight him?

Honesttguy · Answer

If we had in society easier ways to talk to each other and get to know eachother im sure it would increase chances to meet good looking person that is also good match in personality, hard part is social distance between us is so huge and effort put it to close distance just to be then slapped and treated badly, it really does add up and increase resistances on both sides making it harder and harder. Sad but true.

JorgeJr · Answer

Ima keep it a bean, I still shoot my shoot. Im average in looks at best. I live in Ann Arbor Mi. Cute girls in abundance, does someone better looking have a better shoot? Yea, does that mean Im automatically disqualified? Not in slightest. My "hook" is Im funny. I can make damn near anyone laugh. Add that I got some cheese, I still score some shots as an average lookin guy.

Bismarck_96 · Answer

I know that I'll have no chance on talking to an attractive woman so I dont bother on investing time to someone who I have zero chance with them cause the minute you approach to talk to them they'll give you the "I have a boyfriend" thing

LinaDaGoddess · Answer

I just smile and act courteous.. What’s meant for you will naturally come into your life..

Anonymous · Answer

Yes :/ there’s this super attractive and stylish guy I’m crushing on, but have only had the courage to talk to him once :(( .. I wish I could build it back up again but oh well

TsundereMatrix · Answer

I’ll speak to them in a friendly way but I always assume they are taken because that’s just my luck

Anonymous · Answer

In my case, not just attractive women, but all women lol. I just assume I have no chance because I've never been successful any time I've approached. So I just stopped doing it altogether.

Layafell · Answer

Yeah with that kind of thinking you have no chance 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

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