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Based off your experience, when you fell for someones personality rather than their looks, did you last? (Page 3)
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I've always dated girls who had a great personality and never went by girls looks and I find beauty that is skin deep
I see
There has to be physical attraction but looks can't hold a relationship together, there has to be an emotional bond. It's too bad women break guys hearts like you did though.
Well he knew what the deal was early on when he asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him lets just date until I was for sure. So i ended things after 2 months of dating. I dont feel as much guilt. Had he been an official boyfriend then of course i wouldn't have left him for someone else
Ok I understand. That's why dating sucks, lol
Actually no. It ended in a fiery divorce. She's an excellent deceiver.
Damn. Was she at least cute
I thought so at first. But that smile became a sneer.
I dated a woman for her personality. She was average looking. She did have a nice smile and beautiful eyes. I married her and we're still married.
But average is not unattractive
She grew on me. We were coworkers
I've done that, and it didn't last. I fell for someone with an interesting personality disorder and a lot of intellectual capacity which was very attractive for about two weeks.
Yea relationships need both physical and mental attraction
agreed
You only look at somebody so much but you will always have to deal with who the person is
True. But i need them to start off with both
One day you might realize you can't always have everything you can try nothing's guaranteed in this life
I mean, you should be at least somewhat attracted to the person but personality is what really lasts.
I mean... yea no, i liked his voice and personality. But i wasn't into his face.
Yeah. The face isn’t something you can really change and it’s kind of hard to ignore. That’s a non-negotiable.
Right like if it was just body, i’d consider but face is major and i dont need no dude on botox lmao
I did over 50 years ago... not sure how long it may last, still hoping...
Oh your wife right?
yes...
Yes I could and have dated women with better personalities than looks.
Ahh okay
Yes. You need substance and not just beauty to have a relationship.
But this question is can you be with someone who has substance but not beauty?
Yes because thst is what lasts. Beauty can fade.
That is true but shit i still wanna start off with a little beauty 😂
Nothing wrong with that. I think your hot.
Lmao im not talking about me. Im saying that i still want the guy to start off hot even if he may lose his looks when we age up
Ok well as you know I'm your BP 2.0 so I'm already what your looking for. Lol 😆 😘
I answered a very similar question a few days ago. I'd have to go back and find it.
Both are important... but people don't fall for personality... it just plain lie there has to be attraction because of looks
Well he needs to be cute so that even if we fight I would want to kiss his cute face
Lmaooo
There is so much truth in what @Taylawebb1900 just said. I don't think this factor should ever be underestimated or disregarded.
@Jamie05rhs yes exactly
I have to have at least some physical attraction for a relationship.
I agreee
The ones that lasted the longest for me had both.
Exactly thats how it should be
Never started. lol. I think I was invisible.
What you mean
I really really liked this guy and his personality. The Forrest thine I saw him I was shocked to see he was so... well, to put it mildly, not my type. I still admired him, but never told him.
$#!×%=¡ this phone and the autocorrect!!!
Forrest thine = first time
It lasted for a while !!
Did their looks just grow on you?
I can always find something about a girl's looks that I'm attracted to, IF I'm attracted to her at all !!
Yes. Married her actually.
Do you find her beautiful now?
I do. As soon as I fell for her she became the most beautiful woman alive to me.
Love hearing that
Have lasted 26 years so far. . . .
And you dont find her face the slightest bit attractive?
Of course. But I didn't see her face until she sent me a pic a few months after we started chatting on AOL waaaaay back when. She didn't know what I looked like for over a year.
Oh no I've done that before too. But once we see eschother, if i dont like it, im ending it that same week
I have never fallen for someone's personality.
Insee it as more of a keeper