Does it seem he’s just trying to use me for something casual now. How do I respond?

[ohshee]

I think you are right on the money with it and what you were saying about in time it working out I think you already know the answer to that. That's like having a quarter tank of gas so you're just hoping something happened so you don't run out of gas you can't hope you have to know you have to deal with it and take care of it you make the rules because if you let somebody else do it they're not going to have the same outcomes that you want I don't know if I said that right but I hope you understand what I'm trying to say there's 150 billion guys out there don't stop in the middle of the road just pick a guy up I'm not no but the outcome is going to be I can tell you right now you can't I'm smarter than any guy your age do you see and feel things deeper than most follow your heart don't settle

[Honesttguy]

Use you? Are u kidding me, he just asking to see if you both on same page, maybe he is looking for casual hook up maybe not so what, its his life to choose and go for what he wants, if you look for relationship you tell him that so he knows, then and only then after u said what u want u csn ask question is he trying to use me for something that comes after

[Effably]

Dude seems nice to me. He is also outright asking what you want out of this which means you are allowed to outright ask him too. And then you get the answer you want.

He obviously is interested but the date didn't let you both click.

Honestly to me he seems genuinely nice. He might just want something casual but looking at how forward he has been with his feelings so far I think he'd tell you that if you ask what he is hoping/looking for.

[allrightbyme]

He is 95% looking for a casual relationship. Look at how a late reply turn to long xx answers. He's actually being a little reckless.

Basically if a guy was super into you he wouldn't be able to stop himself from replying quickly. Saying there wasn't much chemistry was kinda insulting.

[Yourfriend2021]

You'll never really know until time passes by by getting to know someone. Just take things slow and don't take off any clothes.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Seems to me that he's making an actual effort to get to know you and wants to know what you're seeking. You know what you want, so just tell him

[awkward_author]

That response works. It appears he just wants something casual right now... like a friendship.

[jasco]

Well I think he just wants to see where it goes, keep talking to him

[loveslongnails]

Sounds like two people who really aren't interested in each other.

[Fuentes]

Your reply is good also good u finally seek other men

[Jamie05rhs]

What's with the "x"es? What do the "x"es mean?

[Anonymous]

When's the last time he was juggling those juggs?

[Anonymous]

No, I don't see that. But just proceed cautiously.

[Luckycharms12]

He is guy 9 times out 10 they want sex

[888theGreat]

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