I believe in loving, dating and marrying one person only. I heard that in US, it's common to have one night stands, friends with benefits. Is it true?

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Aerissa_Jade · Accepted Answer

Sex with boyfriend/girlfriend's is common before marriage here, not sure where you are at. It should only be a concern of where your located at, if your not in the US then not a issue for you here. One night stands can be common, depending on person. Not everyone does them, same with friends with benefits, some do them more than others.

Different states have different rates though, by that I mean percentages of people that do it are higher in some area's than others.

There is a guy on here somewhere, forgot his profile name that says the same thing as you. He wants a girl with no sexual history, to be his first and he won't date anyone else, and has posted it several times.

Alisa158 · Accepted Answer

I have always believed that there are real gentlemen in this world, but we have not met them.

dragoblack · Accepted Answer

Yep, incredibly so. Society in the usa has become incredibly sex focused since the 1980s, but more openly so since 2010. Even dating society in the usa has become more focused around hooking up to see if they are sexually compatible... which sadly because of the sex focus in dating, many dont understand what a relationship is, which ends up with cheating on each other, only basing a relationship on how often they have sex then finding the relationship boring when sex isn't involved, fighting when one finds someone else sexually attractive, ... etc.
Though it is openly accepted, it has also damaged society.

Zygum · Accepted Answer

You are Really, a nice and with good morale, you are right, in US people have one night stand and affairs with multiple partners. Don't be disappoint, there are guys according to your wishes, possible some migrated from Muslim or Eastern countries

Heartache0405 · Answer

It’s true. People here also think it’s a good idea to have multiple partners and even marry multiple people. And don’t even get me started on those so marry their dogs or objects. You’d think it’s not true. Well, in America, apparently anything is possible. Unless you’re a Straight White Male Conservative Christian Republican. Then nothing is possible for you in America.

magiusX26 · Answer

saddly that is a fairly world wide thing (not just US) . about the only places this is not common at, that i can think of, are fairly isolated communities such as native tribes out in some sort of wilderness and also would have little to zero internet access.

Anonymous · Answer

It's a shi*show in the US nowadays. Feminism has destroyed society.

slatyb · Answer

You can believe in it but it isn’t likely to happen. And yes, in most western countries people have sex before marriage.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

It is true. American society is very wayward and sick. You will have to look carefully to find an American with good values.

awkward_author · Answer

Both are pretty common.  It would be pretty difficult, but your chances are going to be higher if you're religious.

Twalli · Answer

Some people are like that. The one person idea is risky, because you date to discover if that person is the one you want to marry. True you should only marry one person, but you may not know who that is until you've dated several

Marianna34n · Answer

I think we both watch too many movies 😂😂😂

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I’m a white American male and I do not like the idea of hookups either. I’m still a virgin, waiting for the one

clampfan101 · Answer

Unfortunately it seems to be true, but I agree with you.

Wise4myage · Answer

That's very true, but most people don't take the route you want to take.

Mister_Hangry · Answer

The US has become a complete and utter shithole with no morals, no class, and our people are vile hedonistic bastards.

2021biguy · Answer

It's widespread here but not every guy is like that.

anylolone · Answer

And it's also common everywhere else.

Anonymous · Answer

true

Anonymous · Answer

do you only prefer a guy from US?

boggboss · Answer

Lol ofc it true lol

jasco · Answer

Yup very true

Intothevoid666 · Answer

Yes it’s common

fireforeffect · Answer

Not for me.

Anonymous · Answer

sadly yes

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