What is the right move going forward in repairing a relationship?

[Anonymous]

So bottom line. I broke up with girlfriend of 3 years because I was scared I wasn't the right guy for her. 3 weeks later, I've come to conclusion that I am stupid and want to marry her something I NEVER said before in our relationship. I told her this. And she said lets just take it day by day. We have hung out twice now and she's been very hot and cold. As if she's waiting to see what I do. She won't initiate physical contact, but when I ask, then she says yes. Or if say literally, I won't text, then she text within the day. I told her to text me if she wants to hang, but its been a week and she hasn't said anything. Should I go for it? Am I just familiar? I think she's the one and I'm not sure how to prove that the fluke was breaking up, not how I feel now. Any advice?

[Xoxocutekitty]

People aren't subscriptions you can just cancel and rejoin on a whim.

You drop a plate, it shatters, you'll never have that plate back shiny and new. Outside of cheating, you did the only clear cut relationship breaker which is to end the relationship and take 3 weeks to think about it.

You aren't entitled to her affections, you aren't entitled to having everything 'back.' You broke the relationship. The only thing you can do it let her come to you, and yes that means letting her trust you enough to bring her real self, her anger, her hurt, her self doubt, everything that you caused. If she doesn't ever get that honest with you, it means she's moving on because she can do better than be with someone who questioned being with her.

[Anonymous]

She might be unsure of her feelings, she could still be hurt by the breakup and is still figuring out whether she sees the relationship going forward or not. I think you should follow her request and just take it day by day

[driven159]

than you need to talk to her not text her TALK to her honesty is always the best

[In_Trance]

get professional help