Been on two dates and can't get her on a 3rd date?

[red324]

This isn't the only girl that's done this. They'll just ignore the question when i ask them out and then a day or two later I'll get a good morning text from her and they'll carry on like I never asked.

[skytatoe]

Id address that if I were you. Just quote your question and leave it there.
Eventually if they're unable to give you a real answer as to why or why not then you gotta be clear with them and just cut your losses.

[TheFlak38]

they enjoy all the free attention, free meals, free drinks they get from you and then move on to the next well of resources.

[red324]

Do they ever settle on one guy or is it just a revolving circle with all these women?

[TheFlak38]

settling down is for later. After 30 or maybe 35. That's when the looks have faded away and the fresh young sluts start to replace them in the sexual marketplace. So the solution for the 30 year old woman is to find other way besides looks to lock down a man: with marriage and kids. Even then, don't expect her to be exclusively for you. She will always keep her options open, while at the same time screech autistically if you dare to give a like to a hot girl on instagram. It's a one way street.

[mysfit]

Hahaha! She isn't willing to commit. She put you on a friend zone or standby. She's not all in yet. But if you have patience, you can play the game she's playing. :-D

[red324]

She's out playing the field and keeping me as plan B. Wonderful.

[red324]

Maybe I should just disappear.

[red324]

Are you saying just go along with it? Usually I get mad and tell them I'm moving on since they don't seem interested in dating.

[mysfit]

It's really up to you. You have asked for the third date, but she ignored the topic and hoped you'd forgotten it. But some girls do talk like --- ah, there's this man again asking for another date. Could he just move on? Hey, girls are girls; how willing are you to sweep off her feet? Maybe, this is her game? And, they like being chased, you know. But you could really ask her again and say - hey... about that date I asked? If she brushed you off again - you know what to do.

[red324]

So is that her playing hard to get when I need to ask multiple times for a date? Why does she bother staying in touch if she doesn't want to go on a date?

[red324]

I just get tired of always being the side guy or the guy she wants to just talk to when things are going well with her current guy. It's obvious that's what is going on with all these girls. I want to be THE guy.