Ok, so we been talking for a while now. 3 Weeks. We set up a date Saturday the 10th to go out, and a hour before we got together, I text her telling her I was ready. Supposedly she had to babysit her cousin, and it was around 12pm, she told me she would keep me update but kept the text at a minimal. Meaning I didn't get much from her. Around 6pm, I texted her to, and asked her if she was still babysitting, and she said "Yes". I never bother replying back, because I knew we weren't going anywhere, and I found it fishy how her mom was in the house, and she couldn't have told her mom to if she could watch the kid.
Around 8pm, she text me asking what I was doing on the 20th. She said we could get together on that day, and go to the movies. Next day... Supposedly her mom is getting surgery, and she has to be with her mom through out the whole week, because she might need help/ can't be alone, which is understandable... from what she said... So, she changes the date to the 24th, Saturday. Now today, she changes the date to the 30th, and comes with the surgery story again, and how she needs to be around her mother.
This week Saturday she's going to some birthday bash, of her "friend" ... What I don't understand is, OK... You got Thursday, Friday and Sunday to tell me lets go one of those days, but instead you keep switching the date on me over and over, and I don't want to sound mean or anything, so I just flow with it, yet she's making time to get together with her friend, whenever he friend invites her somewhere. I don't know if it's me, but there's something fishy here.
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Forget about her man. She's stringing you along. I know it's pretty sh*tty, especially since there was kind of a connection there. It's just a waste of your time and dignity to keep pursuing this. Just break contact. If she tries to setup another date, agree but leave her hanging. If she contacts you afterward, go from there.1