It’s ok to miss him, and you shouldn’t beat yourself up for having feelings — you’re human. However I don’t think this is a healthy arrangement to stay in and it’s better to walk away. If he won’t commit now, he never will, at least not to you. I firmly believe in “if he wanted to, he would”. There are men who are boyfriends, husbands, etc in a committed relationship despite a demanding job. Entrepreneurs, millionaires, all that, they have wives and children at home that understand what they signed up for but want to be with him regardless and vice versa. You know this. Your guy isn’t with you because he doesn’t not want to commit and his job isn’t going anywhere, so why stick around hoping for a change? By continuing in that arrangement all you are doing is depriving yourself of a real relationship and connection with someone who can give what you deserve. Time is only going to pass, you are going to get older and before you know it you are looking back at those years you missed enjoying with an actual partner by committing to this dead end situation. That’s a huge disservice. Give yourself more credit for your ability to be strong and walk away from that. Don’t turn back until he has a better offer on the table.
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Please understand when I say this I do not mean to sound like a jerk. You cannot have your cake and eat it too. You both decided that you did not want a romantic commitment but you wanted the icing on the cake that comes with that type of relationship. It sounds like you obviously have a thing for him more than physical aspects. I do however think that you are right for giving him space. Unless this guy makes six digits a year and works endlessly, He may not be interested as much for avoiding you. I am referencing the day and a half to respond back. In today’s world, people are always on their phones so unless he’s working a lot with his excuse? As I said earlier, I think that you are right To give him space. A friend of mine once told me that if you are a priority, someone will reach out to you in a week. If that person does not reach out to you in a week, then that says it all. I am sorry that you were going through this I hope that what is best works out for you.
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