I don't know what I need to do differently to meet a woman, and it's worrying me?

[Anonymous]

This was bad enough when I was younger, but now I'm 32, and will be 33 in May, and never really had a relationship, and really want to find someone soon because it's getting to the point age-wise that I am extremely concerned. Sometimes I see women who are a few years older than me, and it's scary to be pushing that age and to be alone. I don't want to be that way.

I used to commute in to NYC, and obviously it is easy to meet a lot of women there, but I only worked there for 9 months. I do NOT like cities, but of course they're better to meet more people. My job also doesn't care if I come in person, so it doesn't seem to matter where I live now. I've just been at home the past two years because I don't know where I want to go. I am so confused. :/ But I need to do something where I am constantly meeting women so I can find someone.

I use a few apps, and have an eHarmony subscription that I have not been using enough. That runs until the end of August. I should try harder on it, but yeah. I don't know what to do.

[MrCommodore]

Its never too late, but I do suggest you do some homework to help your chances.

I suggest you start watching YouTube videos like
- Top 10 signs a girl likes you.
- Signs a woman is interested in you.
- Sign of flirting body language.
- Top 10 things women find attractive in men's behaviour.

Also note that while women appreciate a good looking or physically attractive man, confidence and personality are very important too and these can be worked on.

[Asker]

Objectively I would say I’m relatively attractive. I could stand to lose a little weight although I look like I weigh less than I do, I’m only 5’6 which counts against me for some women. But as for the other things yeah, sometimes I’m afraid to talk to someone. It’s easier if I talk to them online first