What's the best way to Break the Ice on Tinder?

[ArtemisSilver]

I seem to suck at small talk on dating apps, what works for, or on you?

Do bios matter?

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+1 y

So I created a new profile, put zero effort into it and got a bunch of matches and chats. I guess the key is half assing it.

[Guy13]

JOKES ‼️ I posted a question with 2 that have worked quite well for me. I THINK it got stuck in GUY’S BEHAVIOR-can’t never tell it should be in Dating.
Tinder: You will need a joke on front end. Just be honest…I want to see if this is Girl 👧 worthy. Would you allow me to use you as my test market? Give one joke provided in question…if she likes, Great‼️ You’ve got three days to impress me Thursday evening at Martini 🍸 bar…
When you arrive there Winner, as judge by Bartenders, gets olives 🫒. DRINKS are much better if one involves the drink poor ers…Work It with some savvy. 💪 -She’ll notice…hard to find funny plus savvy…

[ArtemisSilver]

A joke isn't a bad idea. As for a cocktail bar, the lack of culture here would astound most people. Asking for a mixed drink elicits a look of confusion and results in the barmaid unearthing a dusty arcane tome and some long forgotten bottles. God help you if you request something that requires a twist, milk or an egg. I would be willing to bet that the only olives in sight are on the frozen pizzas in back.

[Guy13]

Thank you for your point of view. No offense but I can tell you have not gotten out much. Dating apps are a lost cause and ineffective for developing meaningful relationship.
—Undoubtedly you are not in the Business world or what I characterize as the “Charity Circuit”. You would be better served going public.
—Start simple like a meet-up group. Do not be alarmed if the soccer meet-up ends up a bar..
-singles group starts at bar
-book club has anywhere from 20-40 bottles of red/white gambit.
—Or if both the bowling and dart groups are intoxicated.
Get out and about👍.

[ArtemisSilver]

Most of the public scene is closed due to the ongoing Covid nonsense. Offices too.

I may have to resort to getting a dog and taking it for walks or perhaps joining the clergy.

[Guy13]

Everything in USA, Southeast, has been full tilt for 6 months. I have not worn a mask 😷 since Christmas last year. Bars were full but spaced for Valentines Day. There were 200 people at the pub and along sidewalk outdoor seating last night 85/65 here. Later.

[ArtemisSilver]

Yeah it's weird in westen Canada, about half of things are technically open, but the last few times I've hit the local watering hole there's like 3-4 people where it would usually be hopping. People are spooked.

[peedy]

The best way is to delete your account

[ArtemisSilver]

Ah well, I've done that a couple of times and it works even less well.

[Dee00_2x]

Be attractive to them, most women are only on tinder to chat with the occasional attractive guy or an ego boost. I’m a 6’4 , slim , heavily tatted guy (hand, sleeve n neck tattoos) don’t even post my height at all or even fill out my bio. I’ve gotten over a 150 matches in 4 months on tinder from different races of women , even colleges girls but even still women have to have some sort of bond to sleep with you most the time they don’t even ask my height until getting ready to meet up (they ALWAYS message me first, I never message first unless she’s really hot). surprisingly some don’t trust me they think I’m “hoe” or “just tryna get laid” If anybody tells you anything other than being attractive to them they’re lying to you.

[ArtemisSilver]

Be hot... I'll be sure to try that.

[ArtemisSilver]

Tell you what though, bitches gonna be mad when they see I Photoshoped my beer gut away and all the tattoos are temporary.

[Dee00_2x]

😂😂

[JamesDiaz11]

Bios matter, for girls. Girls will rarely text first; so, it's important for them to put something that a guy can start a conversation on in their bio, or at least photos. Make a joke or comment of something the girl has in her bio, or in her photos.

Don't ask her some stupid generic question, like "what's your dogs name" (because chances are fifty other guys did the same).

[Dee00_2x]

😂 it’s all bullshit bro, if you’re attractive to them they will always message you first. I’ve almost NEVER messaged a women first off tinder and my messages are always full

[ArtemisSilver]

Thug lyfe

[JamesDiaz11]

Yea, sure.

[Anonymous]

There is no best way. Most women get on Tinder for validation, not dates. The moment you "match", she already has what she wanted and has no further interest. If you send her a message, you're wasting your time, and probably setting yourself up for ridicule. Dating sites serve only to satisfy the human desire for the illusion of importance and superiority for women.

[ArtemisSilver]

True, but with everything else closed for covid there's not a lot of good options offline right now.

[Dee00_2x]

This is facts bro I never message women first on tinder or even have a bio they almost always start the conversation and want validation from me

[Opinion Owner]

Hey, that's awesome. We've reached the stage where getting a match no longer scratches the itch (just like when Facebook introduced the other responses and the 'like' became no longer good enough). Now they need messages in order to meet the threshold.

I'll warn you, though. Be prepared for a lot of ghosting. Nothing says "I'm better than you" than the snub, cold- shoulder, and ghost. Pre-empt that by leaving them on read for a while, even a couple of days, before answering.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Why Break The Ice? Turn On The Heater & Magic Will Happen After That.

[lofii]

Just let em know your height and how big your dick is

Everyone on there is just looking for a quick fuck

[Anonymous]

The answer is that there is no way to break it. The way things are conducted on tinder is not comparable to real life.

[boobliker]

ask the time where they are, then it down to you

[FictionalCharacter]

Sending compliments

[ArtemisSilver]

Ah I was trying insults. No wonder I ran into trouble.

[FictionalCharacter]

Yuk yuk yuk yuk

[Anonymous]

Show that you have money

[In_Trance]

Send a message

[ArtemisSilver]

How erudite.

[Slim57]

Hey bitch, you dtf?