Nope. So I have a lot of friends that are men and women. I've heard plenty of horror stories from both about their date. Either from how their date was terrible or they described the whole date and I let them know that it was them that was the bad one.
I think that women may be a bit pickier when it comes to dates, but I don't think that it is always the man's fault.
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What kind of reasoning have you heard regarding bad dates being the man's fault?
I don't think it's anyone's "fault." Sometimes people just don't get along, or aren't quite attracted to the other person, or each other.
However, I do feel that a lot of people are quick to judge. They'll meet someone for one date and if they don't feel chemistry, they would ghost the person. I believe that chemistry doesn't always happen on first date, and that chemistry can be built.
That's what I believe the basis of a long-lasting relationship is, to be willing to build on something with someone, instead of needing that something to be there already. I feel that when people want chemistry to be present on first date, are probably looking for instant gratification.
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I think it can be anyone’s fault and can also be nobody’s fault. Sometimes you just aren’t compatible but that doesn’t mean as a female I should dog a man out blaming him for the reason it didn’t go well. Me personally, unless a man does something crazy creepy, I’m going to be chill and get through the date without being rude or ugly to him. I just let him know after that I had a good time but I just don’t see it going further.
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