One girl asked me even if I was expecting a date because I was dressed nicely. It isn’t annoying but just wondering why they are often so flirty.

They flirt with me too they like handsome man
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I had a male Starbucks guy tell me his age during our first convo, they are paid to flirt cause it increases their customer count, my friend was also flirted with when she went to Starbucks by a male Starbucks guy.
As my second job I work part-time as a cashier. I Treat and greet EVERYONE with MULTIPLE extra spoonfuls of Sugar and spice and everything ever so NICE! I do so by all and every means possible and yes that includes FLIRTING smiling and even winking. Am I attracted to every customer I'm pixie dusting? No. Are there some customers I consider eyecandy? Absolutely! If I step it up any it's really not by much. I need to be as dulcet with one customer as am with another. As I dont want to upset any customers. I need to appear as impartial as possible. Now if no one is at ear shot I may toss in if it isn't our favor customer? But honestly I say that many customers even if its FAR from the truth. See most receipts print out our names or workers ID number and at the bottom it'll ask how did "so and so" treat you today? Enter this code at our website and leave a review for a chance to win $500 gift card to our store"
If anyone's name or workers ID is mentioned on the review we get a special gift of our own. The gift can be up to $50 off in our store. And trust me I really can use those gift cards. So I make certain I'm selling our store as well as myself.
Now with this said I can't quite make judgments on your appearance or your suaveness. What I can recommend is make note if you get just as many compliments or flirtatious women doting over you when you're in other locations that do not involve your money or your business then you know its you.
Now if it is just one cashier who was flirtatious then the odds might be a little more on your side. You can attempt to gently flirt back. But if she's anything like I am and I sense that the customers getting ahead of themselves and Im actually NOT interested I quickly mentioned a husband or a boyfriend to cool down.
I hope this helps
Good luck !
It's easy to manipulate lonely dejected communists out of their money. She's working for tips... Commies are just so fucking lonely they can't pick up on that. It's why they gravitate toward communitarianism, they shop at companies like Starbucks because they think it is popular and they'd love to be popular, they lose money to BLM con men, and why they always fall for honeypots on hidden camera on channels like Project Veritas. Comies are weak, and it's easy to see that they are a mark that someone can take advantage of.
I've hooked up with my bartender, pizza place employee, and the girl that does my hair. So I'm not one to just say, they're just flirting because it's their job.
But at Starbucks. a lot of them flirt because it brings customers in and if you become a regular that's more money for the store. That said, doesn't mean some don't like you.
I've had baristas find me and stalk me because they're curious. One was interested but I came in one day with a girl and she was heartbroken. 1 Barista that actually wanted to get with, I had a shot with but I lost it because I had a date with another girl at the time
Went on that date. She met another guy and they're together. Recently engaged lmao so I guess it's good she and I didn't hookup because she wouldn't have met her man.
If it's just barristas doing this, then likely it's because they're being polite and cheerful. It's their job to be polite and cheerful.
If a lot of women do that when they're not working in service industries, then it's because they find you attractive.
@BluemaxE xcellently said. Sometimes its just part of the job but if it happens elsewhere then there's the answer.
I would say because it's their job, I'm not saying that it's their job to "flirt" but it is their job to withhold customer happiness. so they will always be as friendly as they can and also that can get them a better tip. So not saying they dont care because being confined in one area for so long you would at least try to make the most of it so talking to customers is how they can pass the time.
Maybe you're attractive. I will say tho as a former Barista, I made customers feel good about themselves by being super nice because it made me happy seeing them smile. Plus, not only was it literally required of us to connect with customers... I wanted tips lol.
I didn't read any other comments on this one but I can only imagine they are pretty funny. I want/hope this is more of a funny, joking post. If it's not, you should go to the strip club. You would lose your mind. I have never met but whenever I'm in a strip club they are always looking for you. It's nuts. Oh, which one you ask? My answer is Yes. It doesn't matter with all the details, right. Crazy enough, all the girls in all the strip clubs are looking for you.
Because they're working in the service industry and flirting with you is literally their job.
It's called "customer service" and it is for tips. It is not because they're into you.
It's called "being polite with customers".
That always happens to me as well in Costa. Maybe they're told to be friendly to the customers. I dunno.
Ditto but then I know them, the last one was a friend of my brother's and the current one is the younger sister of an old school friend
Don't flatter yourself kiddo.
They need that tip money kiddo. How else they gong to pay the bills?
Well you said it, you obviously dress nice and smell good
Because it’s their job to nice, act interested and serve you… they probably aren’t flirting, just doing their job
likely hoping for a nice cash tip and/or part of their job to seem nice to customers.
To get you to buy more crap
"God damn sewer clown" I love it
Next time She says Are you expecting a date say yah You what Time you get off
It's where English majors work to sus out all the rich dudes in the area
Probably it's the way their management told them to converse with customers?
For the same reason they "flirt" with every single other customer.
Fucking moron.
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