Then why do women always destroy my confidence if they find it attractive?
@RafaRodri How do they destroy your confidence, and what do you mean by 'destroy'? do they make you doubt yourself?
@RafaRodri The first thing that needs to be established is how you view confidence. Remember confidence is different to self esteem. It's impossible for a girl to destroy your confidence, but it is possible for a girl to have an effect on your self esteem. Self Esteem - a deep feeling of security and love for oneself. Knowing that you're enough and worthy of respect and love from others. Think of self esteem as the oil in a car, in order to go on a journey, oil is needed to make sure all components are lubricated and operate freely and smoothly. This is self esteem.Confidence - A feeling of certainty in your actions and knowing that if you move forward you will be able to deal with whats in front of you. This is the 'warriors cry' before they go into battle because they know they're equipped to win. This is the petrol/fuel of a car. It ignites and pushes the car forward. When you say these women destroy your confidence, confidence is created by using the act of courage. When you use courage, confidence will be released into the body. Its the actions of courage in any situation that will build your confidence. This cannot be affected by a woman. This is your own decision that you make.Self esteem on the other hand can be affected by others if you allow it to. Remember, if a girl rejects you or doesn't want to see you, this bares know reflection on who you are as a person. By reminding yourself of this, you are enough, and you are worthy you can use any rejection from a woman to build your self esteem as it is at this point that you remind yourself that it is truly her loss.
Heard of false allegations right? And I’m not saying you’re wrong but stop trying to educate me confidence and self esteem are almost the same thing I wasn’t taking about rejection I have that exact mindset it’s their loss ahaha. Maybe you’re right women maybe cannot directly destroy my confidence but they can definitely cause situations that lead to my confidence being destroyed and always remember not all men take rejection so harshly. Also it depends on how many times a guy gets rejected you women don’t understand what rejection does when you’ve been rejected hundreds of times also women reject men now a days just for the sake of it, I’ll try and start a casual conversation with a women not even looking for a relationship just to be friends and they’ll still reject me. I’m a good genuinely nice person and I have a strong connection with animals and the earth just cannot find a solid connection with a woman because they destroy my confidence or self esteem bit by bit. I feel like these women have ruined me for all the other women…
@RafaRodri Ahhh my apologies, I didn't mean to come across as though I'm trying to educate you. You can definitely be put into a situation that's going to impact your confidence which will obviously affect the next time you put yourself out there.Do they shut you down as soon as you start a convo with them, or after some interaction?
Usually after a conversation. Maybe I’m just approaching them wrong it’s probably something I should work on
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Yes, I could, to answer your final question. Physical attractiveness isn't something most of us even agree on, and youth doesn't last. Character, on the other hand, actually improves over time.
Awesome! I hope I can find someone that can want me :)Is that picture actually you? Haha
Ha, ha, yes it is! :D
Really? hahaIts not just a random pic you found? hahaI know some people just post random stuff all the time.
Oh, okay. Well, the other picture, the larger one, I found online.
Haha well of course :)But if that is you for realCan we be friends? HAHA
Yes, we can.Ha, ha! Ha, ha, ha... is that a laugh-track I hear?
Yes, we are practicing our comedy skit :)
What does being an atheist have to do with the question?