Made a stupid bet with a friend and boyfriend broke up with me?

[Anonymous]

Okay so basically me and my friend made this bet on to if I reach a certain amount of followers on Instagram. He would give me money. My friend suggested that I should follow people so that they could follow me back. So I did that. My (ex) boyfriend had my account and saw I was following a bunch of people. And he got mad I unfollowed them without him even asking. I agreed to the bet because I wanted the money, to buy my (ex) boyfriend our monthsary gift. I don't know what to do I’ve explained to him the story with proof and he even had my account so he knew I wasn’t cheating or messaging any of the people I’ve followed. He’s basically saying it’s my fault. I feel bad and I don't know what to do bc it feels like his overreacting and his not talking to me/blocked me everywhere and avoiding me in school.

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And his being petty posting stuff on his Instagram, like how he’s like moved on. Basically posted and the caption was “hoe hopping” and a bunch of girls were tagged in his post-😐

[Freyke]

According to the story, your ex was a lost cause. If something this minor set him off, there is no way your relationship would have lasted no matter how hard you tried. Because he isn't trying. You already told him everything, he has access to proof. He needs to decide on what to do with that information. And you should decide if a person like him is actually worth fighting for. I sure don't think so.

[Asker]

Honestly your right, the littlest things would make him so mad. And I would always be the one that’s having to fix things. Maybe this time I’m done.

[Nawlins34]

You dodged a bullet.

Leave this guy alone. This is nothing to be upset over. If he's reacting like this? He's insecure and emotionally immature.

And if you think about it, you HAVE to walk away, because if you try to pursue something with him, you validate his behavior and he doesn't have any reason to get better.

Let him go. don't even keep a friendship with him.

Be safe and good luck.

[quilala]

I don't know the background of your relationship, but from my point of view, maybe he was already waiting for an excuse to break up?

It was very irrational and immature of him to get mad over you following a bunch of random people on instagram, but I guess he's got his reasons to feel insecure (just to clarify, not saying you've cheated on him or anything, just that maybe he's been through stuff before)

[Asker]

I haven’t cheated on him or anything. I gave him all my accounts and I’ve tried so many times to communicate with him. And he doesn’t seem to care I don’t know what to do bc he’s basically saying it’s my fault I made the bet.

[quilala]

It isn't your fault at all. You're doing your best to fix it even tho he's the one that threw that fit, if he doesn't care then you shouldn't care either, you're much more worth than this.

[yucychan]

Why is your boyfriend mad that you are following a bunch of random people on social media?
You mean he is that insecure that he don't even allow his own girlfriend freedom on her own instagram page?
If so, you are better off without him.

[Asker]

I have no idea. I just followed people I didn’t message them or anything and he was even posted on my account so people knew I was dating him. I’m honestly so confused and mad and sad.

[DarylRoberts]

He shouldn't be so jealous, he should be happy and proud that you worthy enough for a lot of followers , forget about him , it sounds as if your not too deep in love I could be wrong though and it may be breaking your heart , so I don't want to be heartless and say move on to someone better for you ,

[Anonymous]

He either never really liked you, is overreacting, or you aren’t telling the full story. Is your friend you made a bet with a guy? Were you friending a bunch of boys? I could understand him being upset. But if he blocked you and stuff it’s best if you just move on. Otherwise you will always be apologizing for everything in the relationship.

[Asker]

Hmmm it was girls and boys. And the guy I made a bet with is a guy and he knows the guy I made a bet with.

[NathanDavis]

now you know... you could do much better than that

don't waste your time and energy next to such insecure people

[TenkRealist]

Yeah he is overreacting if this is truly what happened. Explain it to him, give him a little time. If he sticks by his decision, move on.

[Asker]

I literally showed him proof and my friends even confirmed it and his own friends have said his overreacting. It’s been 3 days and his posting about him talking about other girls 💀 literally posted a pic on insta captioning it “hoe hopping”

[TenkRealist]

Yeah. In which case you should forget it and move on my guy, he's not worth it. Trust me. Even if I was really mad, I wouldn't be going to other girls and doing that crap. That's the end of the line right there.

[Asker]

Do you know why his posting about “talking” to girls. Like what is he trying to prove by doing that honestly-

[TenkRealist]

He's probably trying to make you jealous or just being bitter.

[slatyb]

Forget him. You haven't lost anything worth having.

[Tyrael]

He was looking for an excuse to break up with you, time to move on.

[AssholeNumberOne]

Damn. Toxic. Dump him

[alice55]

He's an assholes and controlling

[Wise4myage]

He's being very petty.

[Anonymous]

Move on.