How can I get a first boyfriend at age 25/26?

[Sugar100]

I’ve never tasted or had experience as no guy wants give me experience what it’s like meet his family, be apart of his family , take pics, spend holidays at each other’s parents house, plan live together or guy spend my bday with me or have dinner with me and my mom. Even teenagers that aren’t serious do all this then you break up find new boyfriend. This does not mean u will marry. All couples that date short term do this. It’s not a big deal but how do girls get so many men to do all this? I also notice girls that are easy have a lot of sex get bfs only & all girls at the stores have baby with guy. Most all women are trapping men with babies so they can’t have a new girlfriend. I’m alone in a studio apt, I cook clean, work , sleep. I don't know what is good enough for a guy. I’m loyal fun, good wife/girlfriend. I date a guy that I love 5 years but he don’t let me meet his family & leaves me alone on my bday and holidays, no trips, no gifts, no pics. I’m sad cuz girls get babies and marry guy they love and I can’t meet parents of a guy that I love. A new random guy I meet I won’t be serious for or in love. No guy is racing to be my boyfriend as I said all women r trapping men with babies fast. I’m very skinny of how unhappy I am empty in life. Men only stare at women with surgery butt or thick body tall. I don’t want sex with a new guy. Just taste wut it’s like meet parents be inside guys life 😓

[Honesttguy]

You have some obsession with parents.
Girls have no chance meeting my parents i live in different country, so there u go. I haven't seen them in years and im okey with it. Its me you dating not my parents. I dont even want to really meet your parents either, they will try to have some authority over me and that will cause me to fight them back.

[Sugar100]

So your gfs neevr met ur parents? They don’t get mad?

[Sugar100]

It’s not obsesión, my brothers wife’s ssiters all bring bfs to meet parents and then they spend holidays togeher at parents houses and boyfriend is there at their bday parties etc

[Honesttguy]

Somekind of emotional fullfilment is missing with your boyfriend so you seek to gain it by meeting his parents and make "deeper" connection with him and when u dont, you feel like missing out on something. Sorry to say but that boyfriend is just not that good, I like to keep my girls happy.
Also you do have to take into consideration that not everyone grew up in happy family, some people have abusive childhood and they are happy to not see them again, its some of harsh realities out there.

[Sugar100]

I have no family

[Honesttguy]

I could sense there was something missing from the way you presented that topic. Are you angry that others take family for granted?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Now that shocking cause you seem like a real sweetheart

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks for the MHO

[Debbie14217]

Good things come to them that wait... take time no rush

[Anonymous]

on old questions, didn't you say you had a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

60% of people between 18-65 are single. You're not as alone as you think.

[Wonderwhat]

What kind of man are you looking for?

[Sugar100]

This guy I date and know 5 years we don’t meet parents. Just date. I love him n I feel depresed why girls get to meet guys parents of a guy they love and I deserve meet a random guys parents of someone I don’t care for?

[Sugar100]

With him I look single as I’m alone 24/7. Instead of being with his family Christmas I’m alone holidays n my bday

[Wonderwhat]

I agree it's not fair and he is definitely not treating you right. Have brought this issue up with him? What did he say about it?

[Sugar100]

He says go spend chritmas n birthday with friends

[Sugar100]

I’m not a stupid party girl or high schooler , I want be with a GUY A PARTNER NOT STUPID FRIENDS

[Wonderwhat]

That's awful. You deserve better than. I am so sorry he treats you this way

[Sugar100]

Yea and worst part is I love him. And girls all marry or live with a guy they love. I don’t deserve be with a random guy I have no feelings for. Also no guy is racing to be my boyfriend lol. That’s y I keep asking these questions. I go to the store and ALL men r with baby and girlfriend. That is y I can’t get a new guy cuz women r trapping all men with baby.

[Sugar100]

I wonder if I have a baby, will I meet his family finally?

[Hawkfrosty]

That is not a healthy mentality to have on the subject. As crappy as the situation is, having a baby just to use it as leverage is not the answer.

[Wonderwhat]

Having a baby won't make him stop being a crappy boyfriend. You have to leave him. If he's not going to take your time seriously then it's time to move on. I know that's not what you want me to say but staying with him isn't doing you any favors.

[Sugar100]

I’ve been looking for a new guy for 25 years, no one wants a girlfriend. No one wants meet my parents Be my boyfriend. I’m at point deoresed cleaning cooking 24/7 in my studio I just work n sleep n cry. DAILY

[Wonderwhat]

Have you tried to use a matchmaker or s dating agency?

[Sugar100]

Yes but I have no attraction to any men and all block me cuz I say I want a boyfriend no hookup

[Wonderwhat]

You are using dating apps and most them are just look for sex. Stop using the apps. Use a professional matchmaker so they can do the soul searching for you. They find you a guy who is serious about starting a family or getting a girlfriend. It'll cost more money but it's better than wasting your time with dating apps

[Sugar100]

I don’t want start a family with a random new guy, I want start family with the guy I love and am dating , I know him 5 years. 😔

[Sugar100]

I just wanted a new guy to taste what it’s like meet his parents and spend holidays togeher etc but no sex, no marriage nothing serious.

[Wonderwhat]

Yes I understand that but It doesn't sound like he's interested in you anymore.

[Sugar100]

We date weekly so how does that mean he isn’t interested in me anymore?

[Sugar100]

He acts that way since 5 years. But he keeps texting me n asking for dates weekly. This is not new behavior he’s been that way since we met

[Wonderwhat]

Oh I didn't understand it. Did you talk to him about this issue? What did he say?

[Hadyyy]

Try me. I'm single and available. 😉😏