Fiancé got confronted that he texted a Insta model but says he doesn’t remember that he did should I believe him? And what should I do?

[Anonymous]

Hey guys I’m 22 years old and I’m very Conflicted right now. my fiancé 22 has texted one of the most beautiful girls on insta and she told me about it in insta text sending me a pic of the conversation. he only said Hey what’s up. Making me feel angry and sad. I told him about it and says he doesn’t remember about it. We’ve been together for 3 years and he never done it before but only he likes and follows. I’ve already told him how I feel about the whole like and follow before he even told he he’ll never do it again. But now After a week just me telling him that a insta model telling me about him texting her. I don’t know what to do now. I don’t know to give him a chance or have a break before our wedding or not having a wedding at all? I’m very devastated. I just found out about it just today if possible please anybody can help me.

[SueShe]

The fact that he flirts with a person on social media is no reason for being upset about it. On the other hand, what is really worrisome is that he does not "remember" it yet I am sure he could tell you the soccer/football results of his favorite team for the past 10 years.

That is called selective memory but is actually a huge red flag.

It is not the fact to flirt online with some bimbo that is makes me wonder how honest your fiancé is but it is the fact that he is blatantly lying about it. He may not remember the exact words but he definitely remembers having a conversation with one (or more) people on social media.

His reaction is typical of a child that has been caught red handed but denies the fact. Now, is the communication with a person on social media worth you reconsidering your marriage or is it the fact that he lied and misused your trust?

[kylee2437]

I would honestly break off the possibly marriage. Unfortunately he is breaking boundaries and that will only get worse once you tie the knot and he realizes his chances of getting another woman is slim now that he’s married.

[Asker]

Thank you for telling me I’m trying to see as much advise as I can because I’m new to all of this whole relationship

[kylee2437]

Absolutely. Just need to think ahead of time. If this is a deal breaker to you, it needs to be nipped before marriage otherwise you are going to spend tons of money on something that isn’t even going to work out anyways

[MzAsh]

He says he doesn’t remember like that’s an excuse. That’s also a huge red flag. He remembers. And even if he doesn’t, why’s he hitting up women who are “forgettable”? How many other women would there be? You can’t trust what he says.

[Wise4myage]

He's lying.

[Iron_Man]

Sleep on it