Why dont men approach good looking women?

[Anonymous]

[Whatever2929292]

They have other stuff to be doing? Busy? Already have a girlfriend, fiancé, wife? Already dating a lot of people? Does not know her and already knows women that he is interested in so why go after a stranger? Too nervous? He might think she looks good but does not have other qualities?

If you like someone and you don't ask someone out then you are at just as much of a loss.

Many times the guys you like aren't even paying attention to you if you are a stranger. Some might be. Same to guys just talk to someone. It is not that hard.

If you wait around you wait until they either make a move on someone else if someone else does not make a move on them.

There are some people who are just narcissist's and think EVERYONE of the opposite sex is after them and wonder why they don't approach them. There are men like this too.

I don't know why specific guys don't do certain things. I don't really talk to women I don't know much unless I am... Just meeting them or they come and talk to me. Unless I see someone and just think I am really attractive then... I just don't talk to strangers much really period.

Unless it is like a cashier or a waitress or something and most of the time it is pretty... Just friendly

[ChrisMaster69]

They do

you just talk to her.

my main reason for not doing it, would be if she was on her own.

with her mates it’s fine, on her own it’s not a good idea

[Asker]

? How so

[ChrisMaster69]

As in its not good to chat up a girl who is on her own, it’s a bit meh and 99% time will make her uncomfortable.

[MCheetah]

Because good looking women tend to be entitled and full of themselves, more often than not. They typically have awful personalities and demand pure perfection in men. Besides, this isn't true, anyway; certain types of men approach good looking women all the time. These guys are usually just Chads who can treat women like whatever because they have no shortage of them.

[one1wild00]

Most figure she is A. already taken, or B. so overloaded with guys looking for her attention that it will be an automatic get lost.

[Asker]

Nah I've had my eyes on one dude. I made it clear I thought... now he just stares and sticks close

[Whatever2929292]

Asker, If you like him then just ask him out yourself. If you wait forever what most of the time will happen is yea there is a chance he will. But you are just as guilty for not asking him out. You're going to lose your chance if he looses interest and starts looking at another woman or another woman approaches him.

[Anno2]

Want real signals so I'm not wasting my time or make her uncomfortable.

Have less leverage with hot women so not taking a random stab.

[Asker]

What's a real sign to you?

[Anno2]

Lots of eye contact, deep eye contact, zygomatic smiles, submissive body language etc. Works both ways as I can't get close without showing real emotions if she's really attractive.

Guess nobody wants to be used for sex...

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

I'm simply not interested.
Not everyone has time for those things.

[serious]

They don't?

Is that a fact? If what you are saying is true, then they must find the personality of the woman as unattractive and unappealing.

[lightbulb27]

they are intimidated due to their own insecurities, poor training, and assumptions.

[bamesjond0069]

1. Taken
2. Busy
3. Hot but not my type
4. Just not in the mood to approach
5. she's not that hot but just interesting to look at. Ie huge ass like huge huge... might be interesting to stare at but i actually have no interest.

[20yearsolder]

We do, maybe you're just not as good looking as you think you are

[BeMuse]

Obviously you can't just get by on your looks... Takes a bit more than that.

[zagor]

They do. Unless a woman does something to show she is interested I usually assume she isn't there to meet guys.

[Asker]

🤔
Well I've had my eye on someone & they may have their eyes on me. But because he hasn't approached right away I'm taking it as he's not interested.. you know?

[zagor]

What is the situation? Work? School? Favorite bar hangout? There are some places where it is more comfortable than others to make a move.

[Asker]

The gym🙈 but I've made my intention that I want to be approached & I like him. Now he just follows me around and stares I dont get it

[zagor]

Ah. That is open to debate. I've never approached a girl at the gym, unless I already knew her. I've always been wary of making women feel uncomfortable when they are trying to focus on their workout.

Have you talked with the guy? He may be shy, or just uncertain how to get beyond nodding acquaintance.

[Asker]

We actually haven't spoken yet but I'd love to...

[Whatever2929292]

Asker maybe he thinks the same thing. You won't approach him so you must not be interested. Just go for it if you like him so much. I know you are nervous and wonder how me might react or if you embarrass yourself. But you will have your answer and then... It will be done

[KrakenAttackin]

It's not worth the effort or danger. If she deems the man approaching her to be substandard she might cause him to lose his job, humiliate him on social media, or even have him arrested.

[Freyke]

Because you don't see me do it 👍or the woman I believe to be a 10 is not a 10 in your eyes.

[jasco]

More than likely to be rejected and pretty woman often have standards average men can't obtain

[Creampiekarl420]

For the same reason some women don’t like rich men they think they are doing you a favor by being with you

[msc545]

Why would I bother? I am not tall enough, rich enough, good-looking enough, or stupid enough to do this.

[Valso]

Because I know what she's gonna say, that's why it's pointless to even try.

[Anonymous]

Because going to jail or getting executed for violating the MeToo statutes just isn't worth it

[FilmGuy93]

Why bother? The reward is basically non-existant and the risk (of having a needlessly unpleasant interaction with the woman) is a common enough outcome that I'd rather not put in the effort at all.

[Asker]

It's okay for things to be awkward. At least its genuine

[FilmGuy93]

I don't mind awkwardness, I just don't feel the need to subject myself to it on a regular basis.

[Anonymous]

Most men have no game.

[exitseven]

They are afraid they will just get shot down.

[Anonymous]

Women send mixed signals.

[Fuentes]

Their is a thing today called Feminism

[LazerBean]

They do.

[Asker]

In like 6 years...

[LazerBean]

It may be something about your vibes or personality, but it's definitely not because you're too good looking.

[vanshh]

Let’s approach here?

[Asker]

Check this out. I've had my eye on someone. I smiled and gigled... flirted a bit. Now he just watches me😔

[Asker]

He stays close too...

[Whatever2929292]

I mean... You have not approached him either so... Maybe he is waiting or getting himself together or maybe he is just too scared and talked himself out of it totally. If you think he likes you then you have a good chance as of now. But that is right now.

See I have done this myself. I had my eyes on a girl who I think liked me. Eventually I got too scared and talked myself out of it and eventually lost interest. But I found out later after I done moved on and really forgot about her that she liked me...

I was plumb over her though I was a little upset that I had a chance with someone and never took it. But again I was moved on by then so

[Anonymous]

She gives him no reason to generally.

[Anonymous]

Intimidation plays a role.

[In_Trance]

Lack of confidence

[MrTaboo]

Their taken.