Is it acceptable to say to a date that you completely forgot about them as you’d rather go to an event being organised by a close friend?

[Anonymous]

Yes it’s acceptable - you know the close friend better and you’re guaranteed to have a better time with them

No it’s not acceptable - you committed to the date first

[Rob1n]

It would be acceptable if it was a really important event (birthday you have forgotten about for an instance) and you reschedule with the date immediately. Even then it is a shitty move that you have to apologize for, but a forgiveable one as people make mistakes.

[IMuser]

Did you reschedule the date OR told them after you missed the date?

[Staximus]

It's a lie and a dickhead move

[Asker]

What if she did it first?

[Confusedashell123]

You’re not ready for a relationship