i mean if you had to manually create someone you'd spend the rest of your life with.
what would they look like?
give me specifics. hair color, hair length, eye color, height, or if they'd look like someone you know.
Hm, I'm pretty flexible on height, but would love someone within a foot of me. More than that becomes a bit difficult for photos and positions, lol!
I'd like them to be athletic. Leanish. Healthy weight at least, a bit of pudge is ok but not obese or heavily overweight. I like to do active stuff, so this is pretty doable.
Not white, ideally. I'm just over dating white people and want to date someone whose lived experience is closer to mine as a person of colour. Maybe after I date more PoCs, I'll have a different opinion and be open to white people again, but for right now I don't want to have to deal with having to educate a white person about my life's experiences with racism again. Done that twice, no need to try again.
It's their lifestyle and passions that would speak to me most, though. I want someone outgoing and willing to experience new things. Someone willing to put in work to see results. Someone who has a passion for life and exploration. Someone active and willing and able to join me for things like outdoor rock climbing, hiking, and camping.
Aaaaand at this point, I'm only interested in women and enbies, and possibly bisexual men. No more straight men. I don't want a hetero-passing relationship. I've fucked around and found out and it isn't genuine to me.
Thats really hard to say, because while I'm picky on looks, there are still probably several thousand variants of the physical traits I prefer, and as an artist, picking one of those as "better" is a rather infuriating task without incorperating which combination randomly had the closest mental match.
There is however a sort of theme among them, and you see this often in VERY large breasted, petite, cosplayer instagram models, who are absurdly cute. But I could edit variants of those for years in art, and not run out of creative ideas that look good.
I don't have a favorite hair color, or eye color, or skin color, or height, I do have a couple favorite body shapes, and several favorite facial preportions, and like 5 favorite hair lengths and 20 favorite hair styles.
Ideal specifics:
Hair color? Brunette or Black.
Hair length? medium, shoulder length, or a little shorter.
Eye color? Brown or darker.
Height? Short.
Skin tone? Brownish
If they'd look like someone I know? My ex-wife, but hotter to piss her off.
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5'6" . light brown hair, brown eyes, 140 lbs. sweet disposition.
If basing on one's physical appearance alone:
Although I don't have a specific prefrence, the only thing that I'am sure of, however, is that Chubbies ain't my thing.
Or: Instead of what I'd accept, if you were asking for what would be the "best" way to (physically) attract me: a "generic" slim/curvy/etc. Having larger boobs would simply be a bonus. (I'd be perfectly fine with small ones as well.)
(but I figured that hoping for someone like that can be a tall order, so I'd try to not set my expectations that high. Besides, I wouldn't be surprised if that can be a turn-off as well)
Basically Florence Pugh.
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