Is there something morally wrong/gross/creepy about someone who's 45 dating someone who's 25? If so, what's wrong with that?

[Anonymous]

Completely wrong

Kinda wrong

Nothing wrong

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Nope, there’s something very sexy and sweet about older women being with younger guys.

I had a 19 years old friend, he has said he loves me, he was very open with me, one day he told me about the dreams he gets about me, asked me If there’s a chance I can be his girlfriend ever or marry him someday and that he wants to wait, so that I can be a girl who’ll take his virginity.

I have a boyfriend and love him a lot, so I had to cut contact with that teen friend of mine.

But there’s something sexy about this kind of innocence, even if I am not interested in it.

45 years old woman with 25 years old man, that’s even sexier.

[mermaidcancermoon]

I have a 15 year age cap. Typically the wider the gap, the more likely theyre pedophiles. So you just have to be careful with that. Girls in their 20s make old men feel confident and young again. Its like some old mans game that they laugh about anongst their friends.

[Chris_8036]

I know that guys my age dating women in their 20's makes some people jealous.
The only thing I can see wrong with it is if she has plans to have kids, but he doesn't want that, and he's holding her back from her goals to get married and raise a family.
Otherwise, if neither of them want kids I don't see why anyone should care if they like to be together. As long as he still looks good and hasn't let himself go or something.
There's definitely some people in their 40's who are still very attractive so it's isn't that crazy.

[Chris_8036]

A few jealous ones downvoting I see, lol.
They're mad because I had girlfriends in their 20's when I was young, and some women in their 20's still like me at 40. I date women my own age as well, but some if these jealous individuals likely can't find anyone. That's their real issue.

[Man-O-Metal]

What’s wrong with that? Let me ask you this. Do you find yourself wanting to commit to that? How about in 20 years when that person is 65 and your 45? Still feeling comfortable in that relationship?

[laurieluvsit]

I really am perplexed when two consenting adults want to date and the fact that they are not the same age makes it wrong.

Why is that anyone's business in the first place but their own? What am I missing here?

[Anonymous]

I never understand it like what do they have in common. Whats the convo is gonna be like? Whats the relationship is gonna be like? Huge age gap. But i personally still want to date older men, they’re usually more content and calm. I want one like Oscar Isaac please

[Kaneki05]

I was 16 when I dated a 45 year old. by the way 16 is legal here so it wasn't not weird, nor morally wrong. It didn't scar me nor was it manipulative.
So 25 is impossible to be wrong in anyway.

[WhereIsMyMind]

Genuine question, and I mean no disrespect, but how did that even come about? I just can't imagine why a 45 year old would be interested in a 16 year old. They would have hardly anything in common, sexual experience would presumably be very different, and a 16 year old hasn't fully matured yet. Not to mention the fact that they are at completely different stages in their lives.

[Kaneki05]

No worries, our commonality more came from she accepted my flaws as I did her's. While she was kind, sweet and motherly, She wanted to take care of me as I did to her. She liked my passionate feelings on things I like, along with the fact I read and write.
She actually proposed to not really do anything sexual until I am 18 guess she was slightly uncomfortable with it, meanwhile I wasn't though I accepted this fully because I don't think sex is really need to love and care for someone and find that ideology for people who don't understand what love is.
Anyway we both just clicked.
These day's I am more focused on someone around my age even back then I was. But I am not gonna deny someone if I like them.

[wolfunknown]

It's not all wrong if both are of legal age. It's just a bit weird.

[CaptainCh]

It's a big red flag about the guy. Women his own age probably dump him. Old men dating young girls usually do it because through can manipulate. Older wimen have more experience and won't tolerate.

[Creampiekarl420]

So why would they want the older woman 😂

[CaptainCh]

@Creampiekarl420
Better in bed. By far

[Creampiekarl420]

@captainch Can’t have children? Less flexible and tight? And less open minded due to experience you can teach a young girl to do everything you like and she’ll be great at it because it’s all she knows oh and here’s the big one HER YOUTH! She a lot prettier than nana

[Shamalien]

Such a misconception. Men don’t want women their own age, especially once they get to 30s and older, especially for an ltr

[sharrinfoxx]

I've actually done it in the realm of quarantine it was great because it was just us but once it came time to introduce ourselves to our social circles as a couple it fell apart

[whiskeyontherocks]

Not for me but I don’t judge either way
If there happy why should that be wrong

[superdonkey]

If you're both cool with it absolutely nothing is wrong I'm currently in that situation except she's 27

[888theGreat]

When it a business tycoon or actor , no one says a thing. A normal person and it is child molestation

[Sparkie460]

If they are happy together then who's to say it's wrong. They are both adults

[WhiteBoyChill]

There are plenty of guys who would bang a hot mom and 45 year old woman if she looked good enough 🤷‍♂️

[Smashingdoozy]

Eh. If they're giving them money idc

[mark000h]

Quit calling things creepy that aren't.

[anon1903]

I'd give you the gross and creepy — it's absurd.

[exitseven]

They are both adults so it is okay.

[Anonymous]

Who will date the older women?

[DivineZero]

Not really just depends why they are both together

[Wise4myage]

C. Why does their have to be something wrong?

[JohnK123]

That’s fine if they both like it….

[Xtendable]

Nothing wrong if it works for them