Girls, tell me how to get a girlfriend, I’ll tell u exactly what I do and tell me what to change cuz I swear there’s nothing I can do?

[Intothevoid666]

So maybe some relevant details about myself. I’m an attractive guy with a high sex drive and I want a girl with a similarly high sex drive. So if I were to approach 100 random women anywhere have a conversation with them get their number and then try to set up a time to hang out 95-99% of them will not want to and the only ones that will want to are the ones I ended up asking out of desperation after getting rejected 20 times in a row. I don’t try to be flirty, and I don’t ask them on a date just to hang out as friends. It’s as if all they want is to be my text buddy for god knows how long and then maybe we could hang out one day but they’re always still seeing other guys in the meantime which is weird. It’s like the more interest I show the less interest they show and some of these girls have even admitted to being into me while still playing this game. What am I doing wrong and why is this so hard? It’s asking a girl to eat lunch with me or go to a concert with me or go grab a drink with me is like pulling teeth. I don’t have internet guy friends. All my guy friends are simple I met them we kick it off I text them and we hang out , that’s it. Why does that not work when trying to make female friends?

[WhitneySnow]

Because you’re not tryna make female friends. You’re trying to get a girlfriend. Dating is complicated for people of any gender. Maybe they can sense that you primarily want them for sex and they don’t want the same thing?

[Intothevoid666]

But I am? I approach a girl I think seems cool I have a convo get their number and ask to hang out. How is that not trying to make female friends?

[WhitneySnow]

Because you mostly want sex. That’s either a girlfriend or a friends with benefits, not just a friend.

[Intothevoid666]

Oh wait I misread that. Maybe I have a high sex drive which I try to hide but I mean I don’t even flirt with them most of the time. I’ve had girls do this that originally started the flirting with me.

[Intothevoid666]

Yes I want a romantic relationship that includes sex, a lot of sex because I have a high sex drive. Why do u act as if there is something wrong with that?

[Intothevoid666]

Like I’m ok with just being friends too if we don’t see compatibility. It’s not like I’m allergic to female friends

[WhitneySnow]

Oh ok. I’m not sure then. I think most girls assume (and correctly in your case) that when a random guy asks them to hang out he’s asking for a date. A lot of girls might not be into that with you and some might wanna get to know you through texting before they hang out in person.

[WhitneySnow]

There’s nothing wrong with it. But a lot of girls might not want that.

[Intothevoid666]

I try to text for awhile most of the time before I ask them to hang out but it’s like I don’t want an internet friend. How long should I realistically be expected to text them before we hang out? Cuz tbh I really don’t like texting. I’d be down for a phone call but they never seem to want that. It just takes so much time to convey information through text ya know? I don’t text any of my guy friends and I’ve even tried to text with some of these girls and it can go on for months and they still won’t want to hang out.

[Intothevoid666]

And it’s not like they won’t be talking to and hanging out with other guys in the meantime either.

[WhitneySnow]

Some girls just like texting

I gtg. Good luck.