Lovers Quarrel! Your honest opinion on who is Wrong plus Advice, Please?

[Gloree]

Two days ago I was Sick and took some drugs and stayed off work.

My man wanted to come and see me when he heard I was sick but I said no need as I'm on drugs and won't be able to see him as the medication makes me drowsy.

He got mad and stayed away. In the morning he called so I didn't take it cos I was mad that he was mad the other day.

Then I called him later and he has been ignoring my calls too.

Today I called again and I asked him if he was tired to me and want to break up and he said instead of me to apologize to him, I'm looking for trouble. So I said apologize for what and he's like, I'm not learning anything. I'm still full of pride and I should call when I understand what he expects.

I ended the call with an excuse that my battery is low but I have decided not to apologize cos I didn't do anything.

Shouldn't he be the one to apologize for being mad over nothing?

Let me know, because I see he is not going to relent on this one unlike other times. I hate saying sorry, especially when I feel it is not necessary. I hope I'm not making a mistake here.

Thanks. In advance.

[AviatorTom]

He has every right to be disappointed that you pushed him away when he wanted to see you when you were sick, and you have no right to be mad at him for that, especially to refuse to take his call. You owe him an apology.

Get over yourself. Sounds like the guy cares for you and all you're interested in doing is pushing him away.

[AviatorTom]

Thanks for the mho

[exitseven]

Maybe he was concerned about you and wanted to see you and feels like you blew him off. It is easy to see that there is blame to go around.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Waldoe]

HE... wanted to show you Love and Care for you when you were sick, you rejected him and made him feel unwanted and unloved... Now he is Hurt... so... I guess it is up to you, let go of a Loving and Caring man, because you were sick and Grumpy... sounds fair to me

[LazerBean]

He sounds like a bitch. Most adults certainly understand wanting to sleep while you're sick. He is clearly a self absorbed pain in the ass. I would dump

[maximumpower]

if you're sick, you're sick.
as written this was a misunderstanding, not a quarrel.
if that's all it takes to kill your relationship, then it wasn't very strong.

[jshm2]

You are both immature and insecure to boot. It's for the best you both break up and move in with parents for another couple of years to learn to become adults.

[KrakenAttackin]

You both suck. You were acting childish and as a man he should expect that from a woman and understand.