This question gets asked A LOT on here... Here we go.
PERSONALITY:
1. (Mandatory) Strictly heterosexual
2. (Mandatory) Strictly monogamous
3. (Mandatory) Politically moderate; not too liberal or conservative
4. (Mandatory) Loyal/faithful
5. (Mandatory) Respectful/classy/ladylike
6. Kind/positive
7. Intelligent
8. Strong sense of humor
9. Strong work ethic
10. Accepting/nonjudgmental
11. Open-minded
12. (Optional) Patient; not easily offended or bothered
13. (Optional) Artistic
14. (Optional) Nerdy; into video games or superheroes
PHYSICAL:
15. (Mandatory) Strictly female
16. (Mandatory) Feminine style
17. (Mandatory) Good hygiene
18. Curvaceous; big boobs, big booty, thick thighs, etc.
19. Great smile and good teeth
20. (Optional) Tall: 5'9" to 6'5" (6'2" to 6'5" is ideal)
21. (Optional) Redhead (or strawberry blonde, or blonde)
22. (Optional) Young: Between 20 and 34 (23 to 30 is ideal)
TURN-OFFS:
These are my dealbreakers, in which there is 0% possibility in which I'd consider ever dating them, and the traits I'd really dislike in a partner, but be willing to give a chance if they work on fixing or getting rid of these traits.
DEALBREAKERS:
1. Transgender (males).
The biggest dealbreaker of all. I'm not gay, which means I'm not attracted to anyone who isn't a heterosexual monogamous female. Don't be male.
2. Feminist/woke (far-left).
The biggest personality dealbreaker of all. No man-hating, bitter, negative, angry, complaining women should be tolerated.
3. Bisexual/queer (lesbians).
Self explanatory: If she's queer, then she's a lesbian. If she's a lesbian, why on Earth would I want her? Lesbians are a giant turn-off to me. So, straight women or nothing at all.
4. Abusive in any way, physical or verbally.
This is a clear dealbreaker and one I won't tolerate whatsoever, not even red flags or warning signs of it will be tolerated.
5. Polyamorous/isn't single/the "open relationship" type (an adulterer; unfaithful).
These are all basically the same thing: Being promiscuous. I don't want to have anything to do with fast and loose immature women like this who have no loyalty and can't be trusted in a relationship.
6. Promotes lewd content of herself online, including and especially OnlyFans.
The same thing as the one above. These women are unfaithful, selfish, make poor life choices, and can’t ever be trusted.
7. Has “preferred pronouns,” or uses terms like “genderfluid,” “non-binary,” etc.
These people are mentally ill narcissists and psychopaths. I won’t be tolerating their nonsense.
Physically I am really intrigued by a lot of women that are beautiful in different ways. Like different body types, height, race, hair color, etc. Hair style.
But I digress. The MOST important is her heart. Her morals. Her ethics. Her values. Her character. Her personality. Stuff like this.
I need a woman who is not entitled. But also grateful. I need a woman who is sweet. Nice. Kind.
I need a woman who LOVES me and I also need her to RESPECT me. BOTH of those are a MUST!!! I can't just have one without the other I am sorry. You either both love and respect me or leave. I can do the same.
I need a woman who does not have doubble standards. A woman who loves me for who I am and does not ask me to change. But does push me and help me to be better. Not just nag me.
I need a woman who I can cry on and who can cry on me. I need a woman not to just stroke my ego but be truthful to give me praise when I do and complement me but to also be honest. Even if the turth hurts sometimes but to say it in the right way.
I could go on and on but I am getting too much into it.
Personality wise:
Someone who is kind and hearted, thoughtful, selfless. Someone who will create boundaries so they don’t get used. Don’t want an ignorant man. Hates to argue, open to communicate about any and everything. Would rather sort something out then and there and doesn’t get mad when you tell him how you’re feeling or what you think. He’s romantic at heart so picking me flowers, setting up dates (picnics, painting, ceramic classes, cinema, dinners, etc), is going to be a best friend that I tell everything to and he’s genuinely interested in knowing my life and what I have to say. He’s confident but not cocky, he takes care of himself and wants to learn more, keep healthy etc. He stands up for what’s right no matter how many people are against him. He’s not a smoker or heavy drinker, he doesn’t enjoy clubbing or doing dumb stuff on weekends. He’d rather be out watching a movie or at a pub with friends or having a dinner with friends and family at home or going to some sort of class/group thing. He’d rather be alone and wait for the right woman that’s mess around and come across as loose and just a player. He’s respectful to people and will want to help those in need without a thought. He’s just naturally this kind, wholesome, strong, ambitious man. He looks for the good in people and in this world because there’s enough hate and distraction. Even if he gets burned by women before, he feels no hate towards all women and will still look for the love he wants, he won’t take it to heart and be crushed. He loves animals too, some more than others but will treat all kindly. He feels comfortable and confident enough to be able to cry when things get crazy in life and doesn’t feel embarrassed by it because he knows its normal and nothing wrong with tears. He’ll drop friends and family who treat him like utter shit and doesn’t feel bad about it. He’s got a great sense of humour that just comes effortlessly and can’t wait to whip out the dad jokes some day…
Physically:
I don’t know. This would depend on if he’s like the above. I’m not picky. Of course I’d have to be attracted to the guy to want something with him but that would depend on the person.
Physically: blonde or brown hair and preferably blue or brown eyes, but any is ok. I don't really care about anything else. Oh, I don't want someone super overweight. Preferably someone who can keep up with me when I decide to go on some crazy adventures in the woods lol. And it would be great if they played a sport of some kind.
Personality: nice, kind, smart, (previously I have been attracted to guys who pretend to be dumb or are just lazy and it always ends up as more work for me.) So. NOT LAZY. They have to like kids because I have lots of younger siblings and cousins. I would like him to be a man of God, you know? And he has to be kind to his mother.
Keep in mind I am in middle school so I have different values lol.
Opinion
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I don’t have a certain type… but when I see him and raises my eyebrow, that’s it
Physically:
Medium or long hair thats so thick you can't see her scalp.
Petite top heavy hourglass with unusually large boobs that are firm and don't sag.
Super cute face with a rounded tipped nose, round cheeks, a small chin, and either big doe eyes or squinty happy looking eyes.
Innie vag.
Medium small butt.
Slight amount of abdomen fat, so her ribs or hip bones aren't sticking out and she isn't sporting a six pack
Mentally:
Extremely positive, very optimistic, hyper af, kind hearted, extremely silly and random, sweet, bubbly, loving, very affectionate, monogamous, lewd, reliable, loyal/never cheats, and is unusually smart.
Is talented at art, is into science, sci-fi, fantasy, anime/cartoons, outer space, evolution, technology, dinosaurs, and animals in general.
Collects toys, builds model kits, and plays the hardest video games. Is an atheist and is not a risk taker.
Doesn't smoke, drink alcohol, or do other drugs.
Is not afraid of creepy crawlies in tanks, and loves cats/has no pet allergies.
i lke girls that go in the direction tomboy when it comes to appearence she should be fit (not muscular but be in good shape) I don't know why but i love this vertical ab line on girls, hair depends on face there has to be chemistry but either way straight or messy heir (i dont mean styled messy i mean we went on the court and played baskedball 4 hours straight) and be white or brown id say i like rather "cool" looking than hot girls
now the stuff that matters she shouldn't be afraid to get physical when it comesto work or sports she should be straightforward and kind when it comes to normal things but shy when sex is involved she should be funny and roastable what i mean is with hear im able to have a roastbattle without her taking it serious (the guys know what i mean) and most importandly kind in nature like if i break my leg the best reaction i could imagine her laughing her ass off while helping me to get to the hospital
but after all i just discribed my dreamgirl and im more than happy with just the half of these things (exept it comes to sports cuz if she doesent do that i would never be able to spend time with her)
Mandatory:
- takes care of her body. Doesn’t have to be a fitness nut but she does care about diet and exercise. This also includes good hygiene (full shaving included)
- appreciates but doesn’t demand my financial support. She’s smart enough to make it on her own if she had to.
- NOT a modern SJW leftist. She can have some liberal viewpoints but as for a “modern” liberal huge no on that.
- puts in some effort to look good for me. But it doesn’t have to be over the top.
- doesn’t shit test to an extreme. All women test but some go way to far with this bs.
- must like sex. If she always gives it to me reluctantly that’s a huge red flag.
Optional (but nice to have):
- cute petite athletic gymnast body type.
- 3 to 10 years younger. I can date same age but sweet spot is around 7 years younger more or less
- I like blondes but for some reason they don’t dig me (maybe because I’m fair/blonde and girls usually want the opposite).
- crazy in bed. It’s okay if she’s shy at first but the lady in life and whore in bed is the best.
Very optional
- comes from a wealthy family and is rich herself
- skilled in martial arts (I am well trained)
- would like to get in FFM 3somes but won’t cheat or leave me for another woman. Again this is not required but I won’t definitely won’t complain if she likes that.
- orgasms easily
- good cook
On macro level she must have a tender heart and a clear mind.
What tenderness of heart means is
She must be caring about herself.
She hasn't forsaken herself in order to please others.
She enjoys little moments of life.
She is caring
She listens intently
She is open to various views and accepts people openly.
She is giving and forgiving.
She is secure in her skin.
She might be failing at all things but she still hasn't given up on herself
She doesn't talk negatively about things or people, little gossip is fine but it is not the habit, rather she likes it when she sees someone doing good.
She loves herself or aspire to love herself and doesn't let anyone disrespect her
Clarity of mind means
She knows what she wants.
She works to get it while being focussed
She takes care of her body and mind
She is disciplined in her way
She has an original way of thinking and is not afraid to speak her mind
She knows how to direct herself and her energies
She doesn't need anyone for validation because she has herself.
Physically I would love it if she is slender or chubby but likes to keep herself fit. More than anything else the body proportionality matters no matter how thin or fat she is. Fitness of the body is important.
u I don't go by types... I do have some preferences yes, but even so, I do not consider them a factor when it comes to be with someone I like... all my exes had things in common thought, they were smart, they were interesting and they were funny
besides having that healthy assertiveness and confidence, I think that's the one thing I could not go without, I really like and need someone with a stronger personality and not afraid to be herself and as she really is
as for physicality, it is the same,... there's sometimes I really find attractive and alluring right away, that being jet black hair, the darkest eyes possible and pale skins however... they have never been a priority for me nor a factor when I really fall with someone
I honestly don't think I have a type physically. Even though I'd love it if my children had blond hair or light brown hair, I don't really have a preference for what my spouse has. Regarding a man's personality, I think we definitely have a similar type there but I also do have a weakness for guys who are complete "idiots" at times, meaning guys who just like messing around like kids and letting loose every once in a while. If they're passionate or obsessed over something, even better, I may not understand it or why but I love that.
For women, I'd say it's similar since I also don't have a strong preference or anything. As long as she's cute, caring, and motherly, anything else would be a bonus honestly. I'd love it if she was intelligent as well or at least working on it. Doesn't mean college or school, just someone who likes to always be learning.
First and foremost my woman has to be Christian. I want to raise my kids with the same values so it’s best if we’re on the same page. Looks and features: I find blonde hair and brown eyes to be the most attractive. But anything opposing is not a deal breaker. There’s just something about that color contrast that I enjoy. I’m not afraid to say it, I like a woman with a bigger chest. I also like a little belly, arm fat, and thigh fat. Not model thin and not chunky, right in between. Personality: humerus, ambitious, energetic, compassionate, well educated, and not afraid to take a chance.
s I would like to say that I don’t really have a type when it comes to physical appearance… hahaha
but I definitely have a type when it comes to a how a man is… and I have a hard time explaining it, so to keep it simple, a man with a strong personality, presence, loyal, righteous and kindhearted
I like a woman that is talkative, intelligent and mature who is sympathetic, so that you can talk with her about anything and establish a good relationship through a leading conversation.
Though looks vary and matter less as long as you get along well together, her looks shall be Brunette and a little chubby, curvy. I am fine with it, if she has extra weight and wouldn't bother me at all. So in this case she shall be fully satisfied with herself.
And that is actually it 🙂🙂🙂. I don't expect too much from a woman.
Probably quiet, bubbly affectionate. Personality
Physically: (Some context: I'm 5'10.5" which is average to somewhat tall) I surprisingly like short girls. So probably under like 5' in terms of statue or height, dark or brunette hair probably brown or black eyes. (And yes i would not mind being their personal grab stuff off the upper shelf crane XD)
And as to how they act around me I guess I'd be okay with clingy and super loving as it would make me feel comfortable to address my emotions that I normally and regularly just enjoy detaching and tossing to the side.
Describing My Ideal, Dream Girl
Physically, I like the light skin, dark hair and features contrast, as well as girls who are taller, with a slightly athletic build with a noticeably big butt and big-ish boobs.
Mentally, I like someone who's simply a nice person, has a nice way of speaking, going about things and someone who can let their guard down and you can be immature with and have fun together.
That being said, I wouldn't refuse to date someone if they aren't my type.
quite frankly, it is super difficult for me to figure out the 'type' of guy i like. Watching an anime or something, i fall for every guy tbh. but whateva, i suppose you're referring to real life.
i like respectful guys. that is, quite realistically, the most important and attractive thing i notice about a guy. On top of that, i've noticed that guys who're intelligent, they catch my eye a lot too. It. is. so. attractive.
i'm not even talking about academics; just guys who know what they're talking bout; guys who seem genuinely passionate about something and have a great deal of knowledge about the subject.
hope it helps :)
Well i guess if i have a type, it would be a man, with brown hair, hazel eyes, darker complexion 5’8 or taller, nice abs, and pecs, as well as big strong arms! Must have amazing sense of humor (personal note, guys who TELL you that they have a great sense of humor, never do!) the guy’s with the real sense of humor just say something that makes to laugh… or think! Oh and a nice ass never hurt either!*
* Everything on that list is completely negotiable and absolutely not carved in stone, except SENSE OF HUMOR!
Looks wise: tall, skinny (but not scrawny or frail) or fit, short hair to medium lenghth hair, straight or wavy hair, at least kinda cute face, takes good care of himself, has nice fits
Personality: loud (but not in the annoying way), extroverted, confident, really funny, assertive, charismatic, really exciting and fun to hang around, generally kinda immature but can be more mature at times, really good in bed, kinda reckless and has a bit of that live like it's your last day type of mentality
I find redheads with round faces to be very attractive. I'm also into tall and petite brunettes. Round faced Asians are also attractive.
These are my top 3 favorites in order even
Personality wise playful and flirty can make my heart feel like it's going to blow up! I love both shy and confident so she could be either or. Being occasionally hyper is definitely a plus. Im Also a fan of the cuddly type. Well the list goes on.
I don't always date within "my type" though so I never really know who I might like
I like cute looking girls with some type of ass but it doesn’t have to be big necessarily, I’d like her to have a skinnier waist but depending on what sport she does that doesn’t really matter, Athletic, competitive, she doesn’t have to be funny just find me funny and she has to enjoy play fighting me cuz that’s my love language
She has dark hair, light skin, curvy but not fat. Dark, full eyelashes, brown eyes. Full lips, blushes and laughs a lot.
The same size as me, maybe a bit shorter.
Says she's absolutely independent and doesn't need a partner, but is very clingly and slightly jealous. Laughs all the time and has a cruel humor, likes to traumatize people with weird af jokes. Doesn't have the same interests as me, but always listens and tries to learn more about my interests.
SUPER GIRLY
To me, the appearance is not so important. I’ve liked red head guys, dark hair color, blond…Hispanics, whites, Asians. I do prefer tall men though, their hugs are always fantastic. Anyway, personality and character are very important to me because I feel that’s what really will determine if we will connect or no. I like guys who have a great sense of humor, who are open to criticism and learn from their mistakes to be better, a man who is not afraid to stand his ground, that likes to learn and share his knowledge. That he is Organized and understands the importance of good communication and respect. I don’t mind a strong character, I prefer that many times over a simp.
Yes I have a type. I give importance to both physical looks and personality, equally. Yes I have my standards and they are hard to explain.
However, it does not matter because I wish to remain single for life.
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