Found out my boyfriend cheated on me, he got mad I found out, should I delete his number or block him too?

[Walamagicc]

I already deleted the conversation thread between us and deleted his number, should I block too?

[JakeS00]

That's your choice, but will you want to work things out? I would be an adult about it and have a debate with each other, and not be so quick to block him right now. Let him air everything out.

[Walamagicc]

But he was very nasty and rude to me when I found out. He got defensive and called me names to hurt me whenever he was the one playing me this entire time and he was telling the other girl the same exact things that he was telling me. I don’t think this is salvageable. I kind of am hoping that he would at least apologize but I for sure do not want him

[JakeS00]

I can agree. If there is a brick wall in your way, don't try to go through it. Turn the other way.

[Walamagicc]

So in the case, block him?

[JakeS00]

Do what you need to do.

[OlderAndWiser]

Will you ever want to talk to him again?

[Walamagicc]

I have nothing else to say to him. He does owe me $$ because he broke my car but he’s being really nasty and said I’m not worth it so he won’t give me the money. He’s a real definition of a narcissistic person and he got so mad at me for finding out then went on calling me names

[OlderAndWiser]

You are never going to see the money. You have no real reason to ever talk to this loser again; don't take any chance on being weak and giving in to temptation when you are feeling lonely.

[Walamagicc]

Right? He’s not even worth it at all and I don’t remember his number by heart to reach out anyway

[007kingifrit]

blocking is often pointless and stops us from growing as people

[Walamagicc]

How? If you block they can’t reach out if they even wanted to

[007kingifrit]

yea but then you're not relying on your emotional intelligence and resilience to solve your problems

[Oaooynrnrm]

Yes. He's dead to you now.

[Walamagicc]

Delete or block?

[Oaooynrnrm]

Both. Everything to make you forget his existence.

[Noodle_fan]

what? he got mad? block him , forever

[Walamagicc]

He’s a narcissist so of course he got mad and okay will do

[RuthlessAggression]

Yeah, get that scum out of your life