What’s wrong with having an onlyfans to make a little extra income? Is it really that “bad”?

[Anonymous]

I started doin onlyfans 3 weeks ago and money has been pretty decent. I do not have that many subscriptions but that’s ok. I don’t do it full time and post everyday bc I have a full time job. Sometimes I get worried if someone in my family would find out and I have no intentions of ever meeting up with these guys I just talk to them for clientele

[MCheetah]

I already answered this twice.

Why do so many men slut shame women that do only fans?

Why does society as of late, have this obsession to destigmatize slutty people and slutty behavior?

- Your dignity, reputation, and respect in society.
- Cheap and easy money for being a talentless flesh bag.

Pick one but you are NOT entitled to both, no matter how much you may THINK you are.

The internet is forever, so don't whine and complain when you can't get a job in 5-10 years because any employer can find your name and/or face in a simple Google search. You give up the right to that the moment you sign on and no one has to feel sorry for you. Also don't complain when your day job finds out and they fire you on the spot for it. I wouldn't want an OF thot ruining my company's reputation, either.

[Asker]

Most people who do onlyfans don’t use their real names anyways and what employer is going to care what you did 5-10 years ago? Onlyfans is not illegal shit I know some women at my jobs who used to be a stripper and they have a job 💀💀💀

[MCheetah]

You're incredibly naïve. In an age where celebrities get "Canceled" for Tweets they made in 2009, you think doing a simple Google search to have your name and face come up on mirrored porn sites isn't going to affect your future?

"The internet is forever" Like I said.

If you want to sell your dignity and reputation to become a professional cum dumpster at best, and entitled lazy talentless e--whore at worst, then don't complain when no one respects or hires you, like I said.

[Asker]

Lmao okay 😂😂I have a job and do onlyfans and they don’t give a fuck. Only people who sub to my content would know

[MCheetah]

Wait until your customers start showing up at your job... Just like another question here on GAG.

[Asker]

Jokes on you. Fans They can’t show up at my job bc I work at a government place

[Asker]

You need a badge to even enter

[Fuentes]

It's as exactly as he said the internet. People can run your face through sites and connect who you are and pull Metadata off each video or picture you posted and then find out who you are and yes their has been times where people have sent your stuff straight to your job and yes most subscribers screenshot and re-upload all onlyfans stuff to mirror porn sites that don't remove your pictures or videos. Why do you think sites exist out there like OF Leaks? Because people are constantly reuploading it and saving it lol what you put out there is out there forever! Simply cause it's the internet.

[RavVid]

I will point out the obvious. If you don't want people to find out what you are doing then you shouldn't be doing it. If you don't care if everybody you know knows then knock yourself out.

I'm lazy. It is just easier to be honest and open about my whole life, what I do and what I have done.

I'd guess you are fresh meat still after 3 weeks. The money might be good for a while but then become not so good. If you are dependent on that extra you may have to start doing extra for it.

I'll leave that thought with you.

[Anonymous]

Don't listen to those sexist pricks in the comments.
It's not by any means wrong, no you are not a whore, you're not "losing your value" (you're not an object!!) and it has nothing to do with your need for attention of how faithful you are.
You're making your bread and that's wonderful, wish you the best!
The only problem you can come across is that a lot of guys wouldn't date someone involved in sex work of any kind and they're at their right. But that should be a problem for them and not you. Do what makes you happy and you'll find someone who loves you for who you are not who they want to be!

[Shamalien]

Newsflash: you, much like her, except even younger and more naive are a dumb kid who does not yet understand how this decision will impact your adult life. Ask your dad if it’s a good idea and listen to him

[Daniela1982]

@Shamalien Better yet. have her mother and dad and the rest of her family visit her OF profile and see what they say. Cam whores are no better than prostitutes except that these is no sex, at least not during business hours.

[Opinion Owner]

@Daniela1982 And what's so bad about being a prostitute? Oh no, a women having sex!!! Someone arrest her, burn her!!! Heaven forbid a woman being comfortable with her body and sexuality and profitting out of it!!
Grow up and mind your business.

[Opinion Owner]

@Shamalien Aren't you a bit too old to mind what young women should be doing with their lifes? It's kinda ironic how one of the worst sides of being a sex worker is having to deal with sexist bigots like you. Literally, the only impact on her life for being a cam girl would be the prejudice of people like you who keep acting like women being sexual is something new. Newsflash for you, big guy: If women weren't sexual you wouldn't be born on the first place.

[Shamalien]

You won’t have to deal with me because I don’t use sex workers, and I never will. Not OF or anything. The most I might do is google boobs

And don’t mind my age, this account is not 1:1 me, it’s my 7th account here and many details r different. I’m 27 if that matters to you, which it shouldn’t, age and the wisdom that comes with it doesn’t invalidate my opinion. Go do whatever you want and keep hating on people trying to help your sorry ass, see if I care, go fuck your life up and enjoy

[Opinion Owner]

@Shamalien Yet you still go around the internet shitting on women for being sex workers. And I wouldn't call "being disrespectful towards people who are or support sex workers who are an endangered minority" wisdom, in fact, much on the contrary. Caring SO MUCH about how other people make money, given it's not something harmful towards other people, is pretty childish. And that's exactly what I was planning to do, stop acting like you care if sex work ruin anyone's life. If you DID care you would be out there supporting a sex workers' rights organization not calling them "sluts" on the internet like it's any of your business.

[Daniela1982]

Oh what's the matter? You can't stand anyone having a different opinion but yours? I imagine you are one of them since you are so adamant about it.. *rolls eyes*

[Opinion Owner]

@Daniela1982 Oh no, honey, you got it all wrong. I just see why would anyone have to listen to your "opinion" based on sexist ideas and a whole bunch of internalized misogyny you failed and still fails to detach yourself from and instead tries to make yourself some self-esteem by putting down women who don't follow your "morals" instead of living your own damn life, which is pathetic. And I'm a minor, how do you expect me to be a cam girl or a sex worker? In fact, it's quite worrisome that you would be more concerned about my "dignity" for being a sex worker rather than what would lead a pptentially non-consenting minor to be involved in sex industry. Reveals quite a bit about your character. I'm not a cam girl, sorry, I'm simply more educated and less bigoted than you.

[Daniela1982]

Sure you are a minor. Minors aren't allowed on OF. What you are is a liar and full of shit.

[Anonymous]

I personally don’t see anything wrong with it but at the same time it’s not something that I would ever consider for the same reason as you mentioned (I don’t want my family/friends to find out + it’s gonna ruin my reputation, I prefer to keep everything private, etc). But hey that’s just me, and I don’t think it’s “bad” at all - it’s just not as normalized as other jobs.

[Asker]

Yea I do onlyfans as something on the side. I blocked all my family members from my social media but I don’t plan on doing onlyfans long term. I don’t see how people do it as a full time job

[love_conquers_lust]

Yes, for your reputation. You probably have no idea how infuriating and/or humiliating it is for a someone to call a girl you’re interested sloppy seconds because he hit or paid for that.

Why do so many men slut shame women that do only fans?

The girls here condoning it can fuck off. Their intentions are two fold, they can look like they’re encouraging equality and it makes them look better to other men when you lower your own value. Seriously, don’t even look at the genders, use common sense. If you have to ask, it’s probably bad.

[Asker]

I’m not sure about all of that but I realized that I didn’t like it after all. This may be TMI but I’ll say it anyways and give my personal experience. When I did the OnlyFans for those 3 weeks, I didn’t like the attention from men I was getting and I didn’t realize how much actually came with it. My ex boyfriend raped me, I heard through the the chick that he cheated on me with that he was trying to “pimp me out.”

I only did OnlyFans for a little side income bc I was desperate for money and I just wanted to try it out but my ex took it way too seriously and that’s all he ever started to talk about was how much money I was making so he can have some of it. That’s all he cared about was money. On top of that, he was cheating on me with his ex, lied about it, and he also raped me so that OnlyFans went bye bye. I made about $200 in those 3 weeks of me having it but hell no. That shit is not worth my mental health and I don’t want another man to ever be after my money. It was a horrible experience but I’ll never do that shit again !

[love_conquers_lust]

So you’re a saint compared to him. And you’re both just trying to put food on the table.

You’re not a bad person. I wish that business would just die. I bet the site owners have the same fucking problem and probably smoke and/or drink their brains out thinking “I’m not the one doing it. No one is forcing them.”. Mental gymnastic champions.

#ThinkofyourchildStophavingchildREN
#Women&Feministsaren’ttheProblemMenhavingPussiesaretheProblem
#BoysgotoWarMenAskforaPayIncrease

[Asker]

I don't know what it means to be a saint but yea it was a horrible experience. The way guys would text me on there, disrespectful and I wasn’t even making much money anyways lol lesson learns

[love_conquers_lust]

Hopefully you can find better work. Stuff is just too sexualized and judgmental.

[FactsRULE]

If you saw what the majority of the people physically look like who see your body in your nakedness. Sure you might get some good looking people checking you out but the rest of them if they saw you naked in person you would cover up, run and call the police.
Women believe that OnlyFan'n won't hurt them in the future but it will. The kind of men women dream of and want to have relationships with will NOT be interested in a long term thing. No matter when the guy finds out he will dump her even if he's "attached" mentally to her. It's a deal breaker.

[AlanJ17M4F]

@Anonymous nothing wrong with it. Proud of you for the confidence to do it. I've been a member for a couple months and then money is great, but the duets and things I've been ask to 'help' with are amazing lol. Too much fun, keep it up and if you see my pro please stop by

[AlanJ17M4F]

@Anonymous an update to this, I've made $1800 on of since this, so it's up to you. If you need any assistance feel free to hmu

[RationalMale]

Reminds me of a joke. Guy is going to go out on a date, and the girl goes, "Going to be honest and up front, I have an onlyfans. Are you cool with that?"
Guy: "That's cool. I'm sorry but I'm cancelling the date."
Girl: "OMG you piece of trash judgmental jerk! What, because I have an onlyfans I'm not worth dating?"
Guy: "I was about to pay $80 for a dinner and movie date to maybe see you naked, while I can go home and pay $10 and definitely see you naked!"

[Anonymous]

Anything you do in the shadows is questionable and shame does not build the soul...

Fact is, you are misusing your body, and taking advantage of weak simps that are too foolish to know any better.

There is a reason why you feel the need to hide it. You aren't proud of it. This system has been designed to entice degenerative behavior... it will stain your soul, and when the money has been spent, your self respect will be gone with it.

I am rich through serving and helping others. I give them hope, help them make better decisions and teach them how to be free of shackles and Satans traps. When you make easy money... it always holds a greater cost for a reason... often the cost is your soul.

What would Jesus do?

[Anonymous]

I don’t think there’s anything concretely immoral. Well some would argue humans natural predispositions against it. But in the end some people just value being conservative such as myself. Me and my fiancée are both one and only’s for reference. There may be a actual reason… employment. I sure wouldn’t hire someone with an onlyfans. It could be a “bad” look for the company and I wouldn’t take the risk. Also personal relationship wise, people don’t like people who flaunt what they have.


But do you! I won’t judge you, your choice

[Aerissa_Jade]

Nothing wrong, your body, your choice. I am subscribed to some friends right now to support them... haven't even logged in since like June 7th... time to cancel, now that I'm done helping.

Most doing OF don't ever meet up, its all visual. Just like everything else in life though, others will judge you, so the real question is do you think it is wrong?

If not then your fine, don't worry about what others think, no one can ever chose how others think.

[D_Bone_Steak]

https://imgur.com/lXBRMFy

You do your thing... it makes money, and I'd probably do it if I was a female. It's the subscribers and pay pigs I look at funny. Like get a real girlfriend, and porn is free. I understand the parasocial relationship stuff they're suffering from and I would worry about your safety if you ever wanted to actually meet one.

[Honesttguy]

To protect more of your identity make one where u have like mask on or something, thrn it be harder for someone to know its you.
If i was girl i would grab thst extra cash especially knowing i go to gym and keep myself in good shape, that's worth somwthing and nos onlyfans gives opportunity to turn it into actualy cash.
Its not gonna reflect good in society like family or new boufriend, cus its similar like a stripper only safer more distant but social view on it is like that.

[ChrisMaster69]

Nothing wrong with having it, as you said it’s extra money.

i have some friends with it, I have even helped them with it.

Use a different name and as mentioned by @Smashingdoozy ban at country level.

https://medium.com/betteronlyfans/can-you-block-certain-states-or-area-on-onlyfans-95984a791e6f

[Bob92220]

I don't see anything wrong with it.
That's fantastic you are making a decent income from OnlyFans.
My girlfriend thought of doing it and she did a lot of research into it. On the surface, all the ads say you can make good money. But the reality is only the top % make decent income.
So congratulations!

[MikeInHawaii]

1) Would you want your daughter to do it?
2) In 25 years, would you want your kids to know you did it?
3) What would you think if your father, brother, boyfriend or any man you cared about was spending his time and money on Only Fans? I’m not passing judgement, just trying to help you reach your own conclusion.

I don’t care for porn, myself. If I was starving, I don’t think I’d get any satisfaction from watching other people eat.

[Anonymous]

Unless the guy you're asking is addicted to porn, yes its that bad. Generally speaking, men will dump you if they find out for a variety of reasons; risks of stalkers, risks of you cheating with followers, non-exclusivity, and making your intimate areas public.

[Asker]

I quit actually. Found out my ex was cheating on me with his ex, she told me that he was trying to “pimp me out.” On top of that, he lied that we were in a relationship when I had full proof. He also raped me in our relationship. I realized the OnlyFans had too many negative thoughts because some of the things had my ex on there and he raped me. Also I don’t want another man to use me for my money. In the future, if I do start dating again, I don’t want a guy to use me for my “OnlyFans money” it’s seriously not even worth it plus I was constantly living in the fear that someone close to me would find out. After I broke up with him and all of that, I blocked my exes number and I deposited the $200 I made from my OnlyFans and I deleted it. I could do better than that seriously, never again.

[Opinion Owner]

That's horrible to hear, you did the right thing. As a side note, there are many different types of men and women out there, don't let one influence your opinion of them all - taking a break and getting yourself back on track is a great idea.

There are other similar jobs; such as counsellor, therapist, clothes/photography model, etc. that would value you as a person, and enable you to speak to your clients and make a positive difference. Lots of psychology jobs are telephone or web-cam based nowadays too, just a thought.

In any case, I wish you the best and a swift recovery

[Asker]

Thank you! Good riddance on that horrible man and that OnlyFans account!

[Hairylegs222]

Wow I can't believe the delusional comments on here. You're using your body for money with random guys... I find it gross and want nothing to do with those women. It's bad to me because instead of sharing that side of you only with one man, you are with any guy, and for money... Ewe. It's your choice though. I have respect for women that want to share their sexual/love side only with one man.

[Shamalien]

Love how women are justifying this. The female liberation movement has finally reached it’s conclusion, “empowered” sluts twerking their shit for money for horny desperate, depressed men. Wow. Real classy. Men, DO NOT DATE THESE WOMEN!!! Push them out of the genepool!

[Anonymous]

Ok please explain to me what onlyfans is? I mean do you show your goods? If so I think it’s not a good thing at all. If you can get away w it w out showing your face ok I think you’d be fine. But this could come back to ruin your life or career in one way or another years down the road.

[Avicenna]

As you remarked, it reflects poorly on you.

But look at it this way- would you want your boyfriend going to strip clubs when he's in a relationship with you?

[Anonymous]

Just a different form of prostitution in my opinion (no judgement for it, to each their own, I'd do it if I was a woman also LOL). It's "bad" for the guys buying it I think. It blows my mind how women can make money off of "nothing" really. But their choice. Guy's couldn't sell used underwear though LOL (mind blowing what some guys will buy).

[flipflopBD5]

Because our access to the internet and all it brings I see no reason for someone to pay to join an only fence account. If you have a nice body and you can show it respectively and people want to pay you money for it, good for you, I see nothing wrong with that.

[Adronicus]

Nothing at all, but on the flip side there's nothing wrong with men having boundaries on what they'll tolerate & what they won't. Some men dont tolerate their girl seeking the attentions of other men..