How can I get guys to ask me out on dates?

[Glasses]

What are some things that I can do to be more approachable?

[NoUsernameSelected]

Hm being more approachable...

Not too much make-up or jewelry. Only either have the bottom (miniskirt) or top (shoulder free or cleavage) part of your clothes be a bit revealing, never both (could be intimidating). Sit with only one friend maximum, three or more can be seen as a girls' night out, meaning you already have a boyfriend.

And most importantly: AKS. Always keep smiling. If you can't, look at the mirror, train. The world will respond to you differently. Thank me later.

[OddBeMe]

I think you should be asking what is the right guy for me? And maybe you don’t know so that’s why you date a good range.


So what attracts people in general? Confidence. Humor. A chubby standup comedian who has both those could get tons of dates.


How do you get confidence? Psychiatry’s answer: why don’t you have it? What’s bothering you about you?

[Billlewis]

Give them the impression that you're dating various guys fairly frequently, because so many men are always asking you out. That's always been a surefire attraction for guys.

I just started following you and I'd like to invite you to follow me as well, if that's alright. Thank you very much.

[DaveJord]

I was going to say be more approachable... well nothing says you can't talk to guys or start up casual conversations with them. Make eye contact smile at then, say hi, give him an in or opportunity.

[Truthatanycost]

Not much... in this age a lot of guys are no longer approaching regardless. It's not worth it. They are probably using dating apps instead if they want to meet.

[DryGermanGuy]

Show them this…

[slatyb]

You could just ask them yourself.

How friendly are you? You could start by saying "Hi, (guy's name)! How's it going?"

[FilmGuy93]

Smile, say hi to people. Honestly, all you really have to do to get ahead of most women is not be an actively off-putting person to deal with.

[VikingWarLord]

Lose weight (no woman should be over 120 lbs)
keep your hair long
Wear tight pushup bras that show off your cleavage.

Simple as that

[Scarlett3156]

boy wth, you can be over 120 if u are tall enough to fall into a healthy bmi range and healthy waistline. I weigh over 120 5’1 and have 25 inch waist which is pretty slim.

[VikingWarLord]

@Scarlett3156 5'1 and 120 is up there!

I know chics who are taller than you at 110 and still look a bit chubby

[Scarlett3156]

@Scarlett3156 I don't know, i think u have distorted perception of woman bodies based on your profile. It’s quite hard to look chubby at that weight if you are tall. Ig it all comes down to body frame size. I can’t be any lower than 110 or my body become sick because my body frame size is large so i must weigh a little more than the average girl my height.

[VikingWarLord]

@Scarlett3156 Uhhh this chic below is 5'6 and only 101 lbs

https://www.instagram.com/terezadzet/

[Scarlett3156]

@VikingWarLord well, it’s pretty believable she is 101 because she does looks pretty skinny aside from her breast. I mean look at her waist and arms and hips. They look skinny.

[VikingWarLord]

@Scarlett3156 They look sexy

[Scarlett3156]

@VikingWarLord i mean she does look good but she does look skinny which is not a bad thing as long she is healthy.

[Crankor]

Make it obvious you like them and don't assume subtle hints are obvious?

[CubaPirate]

Just be yourself present yourself well and flirt a little

[Glasses]

How do I flirt?

[anylolone]

You put yourself out there more, sending more blatant signals and lowering your standards.

[Celticwolf78]

Well if u want try something with me and I will help u

[jhl_x]

Do the approaching yourself. It's 2022.

[boggboss]

Show intrest in guys lol

[stargazeraug1989]

Depends. How pretty would you say you are?

[Lycanthropic]

Make eye contact and smile.

[driven159]

smile more be happy dress sexy

[Anonymous]

Put in some actual effort. Wishing is for wells.

[UniquelyBasic]

Approach the guy

[UniquelyBasic]

Probably dont be with a lot of your friends as men are very shy going up to 1 girl let alone a group of them.

[jahaims]

You can ask

[truthisthree]

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