I am not going to answer A or B because neither is the answer.
I will give you my personal experience.
In August 1990, it was A LOT.
Normally, I would not pursue a woman and didn't since I was a boy in the early 1970s.
But, on 10 AUG 1990, I "re-met" this beautiful young woman at our college.
I was 27 and going for a PhD.
She was 22 and finishing her BS.
One day in May 1990, we became acquaintances through a mutual friend and, while she was beautiful, I assumed she could be bitchy. I paid her no mind.
I did notice that summer that I kept crossing paths with her, but, other than a nod or "Hello", kept walking.
But, on that day, F 10 AUG 1990, I was alone in the basement of our student union building. She happened to come down to. Noticing me, she sat with me and we just started talking.
I had become fantastically smitten in a way I had not since September 1971.
She became my girlfriend by W 22 AUG 1990.
She dumped me on her mother's 50th birthday, 12 JAN 1992, and I never recovered.
Introverted men such as myself don't always make the first move. If he does then he probably has a high attraction to her.
Generally speaking, I think if an introverted person initialises the first move, there must be some level of interest and attraction as they'll seemingly be putting themselves in a situation that is not necessarily comfortable for them. Once there's confidence, it will help too of course.
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He’s been practicing many times how to approach you and finally he did. So yes he likes you a lot!
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As (mostly) an introvert myself, in that situation, I'd say it generally means that he tends to like her a lot. An introverted guy isn't always as assertive in asking a girl out, so if he does it's usually because he really likes her and is motivated enough to push past any fears, apprehensions or insecurities he has about doing so.
However, as a side note: even if an introverted male asks, it can oftentimes take him more time to get to that point. He may have deep feelings for her, but it may take time for him to get enough courage to ask. So, even when he does ask her out, he could've had deep feelings for her for weeks or even months before making a move. It all depends on the person and the situation though.
Oftentimes, introverts will play out what being with that person would be like for even weeks or more before making a move. They tend to play these scenarios in their heads many times before striking up enough courage to ask. Again, not always, but this can be a common thing introverts do.
So in a way, being that it tends to take more time for an introverted guy to ask a girl out, that can even be more of an indication that he really likes her, because he could have been thinking about her in a romantic sense (or other wise) for a lot more time.
With all that said, I'm not really afraid of asking anyone out anymore. I may take a little time to get to know her a little more first, but if I'm interested in someone I'll ask. 😊
Most people don’t really understand what introversion means, including many introverts. Without going into it, there’s only one good reason an introvert wouldn’t want to ask someone out traditionally. It’s often very difficult to keep engagements because we might not have the energy to engage on a given date and time. Arrangements that work for introverts are characterized as “casual” by people who have only ever dated conventionally. That’s often a dealbreaker for women. For that reason, a male introvert might be reticent about asking a female out. Otherwise, maybe he is also shy or has some other concern.
Introverted people aren't obsessed hermits, they are just people who find more fulfillment in being alone more compared to an extrovert. Most have no problem socializing when they want or need to. They experience dating pretty similarly to an introvert, the differences are pretty minimal. They whole introvert and extrovert thing is also very black and white, which seems inaccurate.
If an introvert makes a move that means that he has thoroughly thought it through or still wanted to ask her out.
That means he has a strong interest in her, I wouldn´t call it that he´s thinking about babies but a serious relationship.
He may like her a bit or maybe a lot. You can't say anything for sure. But he doesn't want to give it and has thought enough about it.
And by the way it is hyperbole and not hypoberle
My guy friend told me a few days ago that he liked me and he's more on the introverted side so I say he likes me a lot because he said that he's liked me since 6th grade and now we're about to start college
"Shy and introvert isn't the same" this already answered your question and that answer is? Who knows.
One can be introverted but always the first one to make a move for all I know. So unless they express they don't often do that or haven't before it's not gonna give any clue to how interested they are.
I gotta go with the second option as a 14 year old I will def be thinking about what a nice family and kids we will have /j
Introversion has nothing to do with confidence or attraction or commitment.
Not that black and white. Am introverted and have no issue asking a girl out I like.
The problem is that there are very few people I like.
Hah, i like how you did that option B. 😁
Yea, the answer is B, introverts need more "courage" and more reason to go up to anyone, not just girls to talk to them.
It really takes a lot of effort... I woundn't say that he's thinking in kids , but definitely he's not thinking just in sex. He really likes you, and probably he's done waiting and want to end at once whit this thoughts about wheter if you like him back too or not.
I'm guessing months and months because an introvert making a first move is a big deal in general.
If an introvert makes the first move... he's committed.
He likes her a lot. The thought of being without her is greater than the sheer terror of asking her out.
He's probably been planning this approach for a while, put a Lotta thought into it snd over thought is 1000x.
I'd say a lot
As an introvert, usually means he likes here a lot. It not an absolute rule, but the odds are he really likes her.
Well…yeah. We intros don’t come out of our shell often.
takes a lot for an introvert to get the balls to ask
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