I don't know if there’s anything much to add. I tend to be attracted to people with very similar personify and physical trait except I prefer several shades darker in complexion several inches taller ( tho the height seems to vary and is only significant sometimes) and more of a bold demeanor and willingness to assert themselves in situations. I’m not too particular about the gender.
Do any of you find you are attracted to attracted to people you or very different?This is not me this is Stevie nicks, I just like her cottage mixed w/ fusion aesthetic
After speaking with a friend, we concluded I am attracted to people like me (in & out) but darker in complexion & bolder spirit— odd or normal?
I think it's not very relevant how the other person is. What truly triggers attraction for me is a who brings out the best in me. Every time you talk to someone you show one of multiple personalities, that is normal. But some you naturally love more than others and wish you could bring out more often and that is what attraction is to me, when a person brings all these things out regardless if she's bold or shy, funny or serious...
That is beautiful lol you are rarely If ever not naturally poetic.
This I think is also possibly completely on point. I think you touched on something bc obviously a friend isn’t going to focus on the parts that are less appealing and I prob wouldn’t either when I’m thinking of what I like — so maybe when I said like me I just meant has or elicits ‘my better angels ‘ (according to me) you have given me a lot to think about 🙏🏼
I'm definitely attracted to people who are different from me. I'm black and I tend to be attracted to white men, I'm 5'5" and I like tall guys. I'm reserved and I tend to like extrovert men. Also I don't play any sport but I'm into sporty guys.
I think it's quite fine to be attractive to people of your choice never think it's odd or abnormal everything sounds cool I like younger women aged 18-37 mostly cause women that age can bear children if a woman doesn't want children that would also be cool with me too
Definitely not abnormal or weird. Pretty common in fact. Everyone has their own quirks and things that they find attractive. Stuff for me, I like women who are darker than me as well
I would understand if you liked people with similar personality bc you are so pleasant & cover but of course you know yourself more than I do and so you think you also tend to like people with your personality, and so you think that would be likely with people who have very difficult personalities as well?
Thank you! I do like someone who has some similar characteristics. Like emotional intelligence and kindness.
Actually, I think people who tend to have a personality that is more extreme often go for someone who is the opposite. To balance them out. But if someone is in the middle then they will tend to go for someone else in the middle because they are already balanced
I guess for the most part I'm attracted to people (women) similar to me in personality. Like we either have to just click on a deep level or we can be different and cover eachother's short comings.
Lol why don’t you think about what I’m asking instead of looking for ways to prove I’m self obsessed. Did you think about the kinds of traits you are attracted to on others and if it aligns with your own?
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