Is it okay to like other girl’s pictures on instagram and a girl’s pictures you used to talk to but are now friends with when you are taken?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend went through my stuff in a really deep search and noticed I liked a girl’s instagram picture that I used to talk to. I knew she was gonna flip out so I had secretly started recording. Is she overreacting or am I really in the wrong here?

https://youtu.be/_Q2JH1-P1us

It’s not okay to like other girl’s pictures on instagram especially someone you used to talk to before you started dating.

It’s okay. You were doing nothing wrong at all.

[Anonymous]

As I girl I wouldn’t feel comfortable with that but it’s not necessarily wrong to be liking other girls’ pictures (might be somewhat disrespectful but nbd). What’s wrong is she flipping out on you over it and even resorting to emotional and physical abuse… she could’ve just communicated her discomfort with you like an adult.

Looks like she’s way too insecure, if she flips out over something so trivial she’s gonna go even crazier later on. She’s also manipulative in the things she’s saying and the “you’re just like your father” is a low blow. Please leave asap, you deserve better.

[Asker]

I think I was in the wrong here though so she has a right to be upset.

[Opinion Owner]

She does have the right to be upset but she doesn’t have the right to be abusive about it. I would be upset to if I were her not gonna lie, but I would calmly talk about it instead of screaming and getting all physical bc I’m upset…

What you did is pretty disrespectful to your relationship, what she did (flipping out, being physically and emotionally abusive) is disrespectful to not only your relationship but also to you as a person. I would seriously reconsider the relationship if I were you. Please stay safe…

[fonduegirl]

That fine with me — as long as you don't fap to them. Or you guys flirt in the chats, that's kind of a red flag for most women.

In your case, she doesn't have anything to worry about. It's just Instagram. It'd only be a problem if you guys secretly meet up or something, which doesn't seem likely here.

[Wubs3000]

I would say its pretty rude to like follow a bunch of girls who are like half naked in their pictures on main. Most men watch porn but don't get it in everyone elses business or where your girl is gonna be seeing you are looking at it all the time.

Either way though break up with jasmine she sounds like she is gonna kill you over you liking someone elses picture. Danger she's crazy

[Koalamate]

Alright so you can't go likeing old pictures of a girl you talked to when your in a relationship.

But she fucking abusive bro breakup with her she's horrible.

[dynamicyandere]

I’d say it’s disrespectful to be checking out if there women when you’re taken. So, liking photos of girls that you’re attracted to is definitely not a good practice to continue if you’re already taken.


Your girlfriend though… She sounds highly insecure and toxic. She escalated things to physical altercation over a IG picture you liked. That’s a huge red flag. I’d say leave, because staying will only cause you to experience physical and emotional abuse.

[dynamicyandere]

it’s disrespectful to be checking out other women when you’re taken*

[Dinklex3]

I think that's something the two individuals in the relationship should discuss.

On another note, the bitch is psycho. Run away before you get seriously hurt. That's absolutely no reason to get physical.

[Guy13]

It is stupid. Once a month like clockwork you notate. Everyone knows you are spoken for and it demonstrates you know it as well.

[Apple1996]

Your girl freaked out way to hard over this