How to get even with a boy?

[Anonymous]

I created a dating profile to pass time and matched with this decent looking guy. We exchanged socials and texted often everyday. It seemed like he was genuinely interested in me somewhat but I could kind of tell that us dating was up in the air. He joined the army right after high school because he had a daughter and was now back to start school and having a part time job at a Walmart.

as discussing meeting up, he informed me that he was going to get his first check from work in a little while but wanted to meet up sooner for our date. I told him we should wait but he kept insisting so I said sure and gave him gas money to meet me in the middle since we lived 2 hours away from each other.

we met up for the date, and I paid for his food. Everything seemed to go fine to the point he wanted sex even. I spent more money by giving his new dog a toy as well. Before, throughout, and after the date he kept reassuring me that we’d go on another one a couple of weeks from then and I trusted him since there was no reason not to at that time.

he left and we texted somewhat more afterwards but his replies became less over time. I asked him what was the problem and he said he was busy with work. I then asked when we were going on that date again since a couple of weeks had passed and that’s when he ghosted me altogether. I didn’t know that then since i thought he was busy so I sent a text a day basically asking if he liked me, if not it was fine I at least wanted 1/2 the money back since I spent $150 that day. I even sent a money request earlier this week to pay me back half of it and he still hasn’t sent me anything.

he unadded me as a friend today on the social after responding to his story requesting him to be a man of his word and at least be honest with me. I wanted to know how to get him back if I can in this situation because he doesn’t have me blocked on other social media outlets. What should I do or say to get his attention so I can at least reach him a lesson?

[DaveJord]

Unfortunately you don't. You learn from experience and find some else. That's how you get even.

[Cowboy6666]

Sorry to hear about your story. He sounds immature, irresponsible, non serious, player and wanted nothing but sex from you. Move on find another better guy and next time don't go for sex in the beginning.

[BarryLiverstone]

Do you think you will hear from him again? It sounds like you don’t have deep feelings for him

[Asker]

I might but I might not who knows? I know he did try to make his friend test my loyalty to him right after hanging out too by adding me on social media and being flirty to me but I immediately declined it and blocked him. But after him ghosting me, I decided to unblock his friend and try to get more information but he said to let him be and that he hasn’t seen him in a little while.