My boyfriend's family said they will disown him if he marries me. He still wants to get married anyway. What should I do? (Page 2)

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He doesn't want the girl they picked for him because even though she's pretty he said she's a fake and jealous person. Regardless, of whether they are pushing a girl on him or not, they think he wants a human vacuum cleaner but he wants a partner he can have fun with and doesn't just agree with him and serve him. He wants someone who will light a fire under his ass. Also, his mom wants a girl she can exert control over. So he just told me that basically him and his whole family are in a war about it. I mean I said I understand if he has to pick them but he said he isn't going anywhere.

EmmaMary · Answer

Taking into account your own age, just how damn old is your boyfriend? Isn't he old enough to make his own mind up?

CasaNorba · Answer

get married and not listen to their asses. if your marriage not their's

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

When they see him happy or fully committed... they'll come to peace with it eventually

Bratsondanielle · Answer

Lol what country are you in? Marry who you love like the rest of us. Who gives a shit what everyone else says

KelleyNice · Answer

Tell him he must first obtain his family's approval.

dragoblack · Answer

I say marry. It is ok to let go of toxic family. You both don't need that abusive toxicity in your life

whiskeyontherocks · Answer

my parents are just happy I have a girlfriend so I can’t really relate.
But if the other woman says no than that doesn’t make you or him to blame.
Maybe talk to her or have him talk to her about refusing if it’s arranged than her father.

boredgal · Answer

This reminds me of the movie Crazy Rich Asians. And if you don’t know the ending to their love story, I suggest you watch it ☺️

Slartybartfast · Answer

My exes family tried to warn me off and I overheard her mother say to her (don't break this one) on our wedding day.

Keepitreal007 · Answer

True love should always win. It’s your decision not the parents.

corejjx · Answer

Excuse me but who cares that what are him parents say? Also we are in 22. Century. How do they find the power to themself for interferetin to you? Everybody has rights. Basically they are ruin your an him life. Just ignore them.

Raaj4you · Answer

Life is short. Don't delay marry soon and start a family.

Guanfei · Answer

You should do nothing. It's his decision to make, not yours.

goodgirlsteven · Answer

do you love him? Yes- then marry him Fk everyone else

007kingifrit · Answer

just get married, it seems like you got a real winner

Snakeyes7 · Answer

Good, let them. They seem like miserable people to be around.

NathanDavis · Answer

how old is he again?

ManHater · Answer

These things are typically a muslim thing. Like when parents find out their daughter is riding some muslim dick and vice versa.

Sabretooth · Answer

stay. you going will only hurt him more and give his parents far greater power over him.

MikeInHawaii · Answer

My mother was a psychobitch from hell. If she and my girlfriend got along, I’d worry!

andreasderjuengere · Answer

''Disowning'' isn't a tragedy.  Just make your own money and living.

Anonymous · Answer

Well seeing that 50% of marriages end in divorce and most relationships don't last more than 5-10 years, you have to ask whether its worth it? I mean marriage is just introducing the government into your relationship.

nc081970 · Answer

If he cares for her he will tell them do what you have to do. As long as it his choice.

Anonymous · Answer

you're 38... why the fuck is this a question?

Quigly · Answer

If your 38 years old and worried about what your (or his) parents think.  You will go nowhere in life.

Paul09 · Answer

Oh religion and traditions, ruining peoples lives. Who cares what they think. You live each other and that's what should matter.

Spiritofn · Answer

Mmmmm you should have just laughed…..

hihihiok · Answer

See first of all, you are a lucky person that he stood by his decision. Coz my partner just dumped me because his family was against inter caste marriage.

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds like he must be from some backwards-ass place if his family is like that. Good for him for telling them to go fuck themselves.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Question is what do you want?

irmaavila301 · Answer

Good for him for standing up to his family!

Anonymous · Answer

Be worthy of the potential sacrifice he's making.

Agape93 · Answer

Get married if you two want.

Anonymous · Answer

I assume he was the one who asked you out

Lycanthropic · Answer

Let him be a man and make his own decision.

katiesmuff · Answer

Stay with him and fuck the inlaws!

Twalli · Answer

Accept his choice. As of now he's choosing you.

CubaPirate · Answer

Love conquers all. Get married to him

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

Why doesn't she want him to marry you?

Whatever2929292 · Answer

Marry him

EarthRealm · Answer

You should Go to Court with this.

eagle1951 · Answer

marry him

Anonymous · Answer

We’ll go back to hustling

MannyFrs · Answer

starting looking for a new boyfriend i guess lol

peedy · Answer

What did you do to piss them off?

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Marry him

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