How to break the touch barrier with the guy?

[Anonymous]

Kind of lost here lol

We're going on our first proper date, we've had very few and short meetings prior to this upcoming "big date" and neither of us dared to do anything more.

I just don't know how to touch his "insert body part" without coming off as desperate or weird.

Any ideas?

[wingattebaby16]

wait until date 5 before you go after his cock.

Date 1, just have a good time. If he holds your hand, great. Don't expect a kiss.

Date 2, talk a lot.. ask deep questions to show him you are interested. It is okay to hold his hand if he is shy.

Date 3, hold hands, go do fun things.

By Date 5, think about kissing him if he has not done it already.

Date 10, you should be kissing, making out, and him touching your boobs and other skin, especially your butt when kissing. Be brave and Trace his cock through his pants or shorts to see if he gets hard or is hard.

If the chemistry is there, go after it.

no later than Date 15, he should be wanting to put his hand up your skirt, and you should feel comfortable taking his Pudding and even swallowing it.

Sex is the next logical thing...

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i am aggressive. if a guy is really hot, by date 2 i have kissed him and often at the drive inn movies, i make him shoot in his pants by stroking him. THAT removes the shyness barrier and we can move forward and have a great time/.

[DanielDiaz]

Don't touch him on the first date. If all goes well, tell him you'd like to go on another date. If things gradually progress during the third or fourth date, and you feel that he is giving off energy that he is interested in you as a girlfriend, then a light touch is neither desperate nor weird.

Wait for a moment when you both are enjoying a laugh together. As you are laughing, you can put your hand on his shoulder or bicep. Another scenario could play out like this: you're both sitting down for dinner. As he is looking at the menu, say "(Guy's name), thanks for taking me out," as you touch his forearm. When you say his name, wait until he takes his eyes off the menu and is looking you in the eye, then thank him. And be sure to thank him with warm, genuine intent.

Relax and have fun!

[demonics]

... by touching him. If he thinks you're desperate or weird (thanks 19 year old dating coaches on Tik Tok), then he's not for you. Past 30, no one has time for this stupid BS. Ditch the horoscopes, ditch the tarot cards and unfollow this stupid broad and others like her:

A woman giving women dating advice about men lol. DO YOU SEE A RING ON THIS E-THOT'S FINGER? STOP GETTING DATING ADVICE FROM WOMEN!!! These people are like the new age Cosmo, Sex In The City writers, 30 years of lying to women and they finally come clean after their own lives are ruined.

[OlderAndWiser]

What are you doing on the date Is it a dinner date?

[jahaims]

Start the date off with a hug and go based off of that. Most guys are pretty comfortable with a females touch on a date as long as she isn't trying to neck him or grope him. It is harder to come off as a creep or weird as a female. We luckily have the luxury to not feel threatened because we can stop the situation if need be.

[AimeeKyle]

Start with holding hands or if at a movie (or somewhere where you sit next to each other), put your hand on his leg or lay your head on his shoulder. These actions should give him a signal that you are ok with touching…. (It’s always a dilemma for guys - when, if and where they should touch)

[whiskeyontherocks]

First proper date but you have been seeing each other couple of times
If you feel comfortable than hug and kiss his cheek. Let’s him know your ok with physical touch. If you’re not ok with that at this point than just a quick hug. If he’s not ok with that touch than there’s than maybe talk about it.

[Wubs3000]

On a first date it depends on what kinda of guy he is. Some like just hand holding, some like kisses, some want sex. No surefire but if you go for a kiss on the first date that should be great generally.

[AviatorTom]

When you're walking together, take his hand and hold it... that's a good first step.

[exitseven]

Wait until at least the third date before you grope this poor guy.

[Anonymous]

Well don't make him uncomfortable. Save sex for marriage in my opinion. But you could go for a kiss. Maybe a hug or something.

[Waldoe]

start with a KISS... always, then include caressing, his face, his back, his arms, his thighs... once things are "warmed up" it will become natural...

[Anonymous]

pretend to accidently drop something near his feet then go very fast to pick it up before he can for you, and then on you way up have your hand "accidently" grab his crotch

[Opinion Owner]

and then be like oops sorry about that and give him a smile

[Birdlegs]

I never heard of a touch barrier. Just do it.