I live in NJ and she's in Oregon. I'd imagine if we were ever together though I'd probably have to move there, and I don't know if I see myself living in Oregon. I was considering staying at a hotel near here and then we'd just do different things during the day and she would take the week off, etc. I am not sure about her though...
Starting in like June she showed some signs of being impatient that I hadn't planned a trip there yet, since it was first discussed as a possibility in April. I told her that I would come in the summer, but that might be closer to later in August. She doesn't have anything that conflicts or anything. A couple of times she has lost patience with me for various reasons
1- Apparently I am taking too long since we mentioned this in April. I mean it hasn't been THAT long.
2- She was bothered by me saying I can talk a certain day and then if something came up or it wasn't 100%, she didn't like if I had to reschedule after telling her I could talk then.
3- Seemed repeatedly concerned whether I was still talking to other women on eHarmony (where we met). Like if I come visit you, I'm not flying across the country to visit every flipping person I find on there!
4- We were supposed to do another video call tomorrow, but her answers tonight were weird and non-committal about it, and if this is like a sign of how she will be in the future, I don't know... don't really want the stress of this. So I have a couple other concerns too - She and her whole family are anti-COVID vaccines, she even has flown on a plane without a mask without being vaccinated, and she is even against taking the at-home tests to see if she had COVID. I don't drink a lot, but I like to sometimes, and she does not look very favorably on this. So I don't know, maybe this isn't the right person for me... We're both Christian/conservative, but yeah...
