The dating world would be much easier if women approached men at the same rate as we approach women. Why can’t it be like that?

[LonelyHeartedSoul]

[Ευδεμονια]

I think sincerely it depends on various factors.
First of all, the common habits: it’s common use and habit to have men approaching women and not the contrary;
Second, the cultural context: in some realities, like my country, would be very strange for a woman to approach freely a man without filters;
Third, the need: usually women feel less the urge for sex that men feel, it’s a biological factor and this doesn’t help it.


I agree with you that theoretically dating would be easier with women approaching like men but it’s very difficult to apply so because of the previous mentioned factors. For that, I think I’d feel very uneasy to be approached by a woman, since here it happens only when the woman wants money or wants to scam you.

[Anonymous]

If girls do the approaching then, guys would still be unhappy with the results.

If guys approach women they find attractive... then that means if women do the approaching, they are going to pick the men they find attractive.

[fonduegirl]

For sure. I love to approach!

[letuswaltzforthedead]

I would be surprise of any man actually would like being pursued by a woman.

[LonelyHeartedSoul]

I would feel giddy that one woman out of the millions out there actually wants to be with me.

[Jessica405]

A lot of us are not desperate for sex like some guys.

[LonelyHeartedSoul]

So why are women on Tinder? You want it from specific men who are 9/10 minimum on appearance.

[Jessica405]

To meet someone whe might be a suitable for a LTR. Not necessarily for sex.

[LonelyHeartedSoul]

I want that too. A long term relationship. Getting married and being a dad is one of my main goals honestly.