Why do women on dating sites either write short profiles or complain about what they don't want?

[FenderMustango]

Most women never seem to be able to write anything in their profiles. It's not hard to say what your interests are, what you do for a living.

The other alternative is just to list all the people they don't want. That still doesn't give anything or a good impression of them. Usualy they say stuff like I don't want drama anymore had to much. Says to me they have been bouncing from guy to guy. There is also option to search themselves. However women cry about equality but still expect guys to message first so they can reject anything in site and hold the power.

I have never had 1 woman in the 10 years of dating apps message me first. That may well be because I am not very good looking admitedly but I refuse to change and conform. Also when you see women with guys who look similar to you is just circumstance. At the right place right time.

What are you giys oppinion on women's attitudes, personas when it comes to dating sites and life in general.

Not a dig at all women just the majority.

[Anonymous]

You have to understand most women are hostile from the get go because most women are offended by the fact that they have to use a dating site to begin with. Most women on dating sites are trash. Sorry but it's true. Don't expect healthy actions. Most have NO CLUE what a healthy relationship even looks like. Also women don't say what they want for 2 reasons. 1. Women expe t a guy to figure it out. Most women think them just being is enough to attract and keep Mr. Right 🤣. And 2. if they tell you what they want a guy is more likely to just pretend to be that.

I have a couple rules for online dating. 1. I NEVER message her first. Women on online dating apps need to know they are the leftovers. If they were a prime choice cut of beef then somebody would've picked up on them by now. 2. I post my pics and NOTHING ELSE if she wants to know who I am she's going to have to earn that by putting effort in. With women less is more it's always better to leave a bit of mystery. Women have a hard time telling the difference between reality and fantasy. If she likes your pics her brain starts writing the story about who you are before she's even talked to you. And trust me, the nonsense her brain will come up with is better than anything you can type.

[FenderMustango]

Yes but in my case I can not do that foe obvious reason I don't look look like a "night in shining armour" Also the argument of don't use dating sites doesn't work either because I refuse to go to nightclubs and surrounded by drunks listening to trash music. Yet you can not go to a pub and meet. How many women want guys going up to you when your drinking with friends no woman is going to go drink alone.

[Chazmatazz269]

Women don’t think much about what they have to offer. They’re told constantly that they’re perfect just the way they are and that they are the prize. So all they write in their profiles is what they do or don’t want.
Ask any woman what she has to offer a man. If she doesn’t completely lose her shit, she’ll likely have no answer at all. If she has a good answer to that question, you’ve found a unicorn.

[Avicenna]

It's a true reflection of what they're thinking. And if they are on a dating app, they're probably not thinking about what they need to do to get a quality man, they're just thinking that dozens of guys will be messaging them daily and they'll have the pick of the litter. Basically, these are the women you have been burned in the past and haven't figured out why they aren't finding what they want.

[IAteTwoFullHams]

Because they're getting so much attention that they aren't trying to attract more of it - they're trying to weed out some of the kind of attention they hate.

There's about 9 men on dating apps for every one woman. They're gonna get messages.

[Guy13]

I do not know because it is a guaranteed way if not getting anyone of any Value to reach out…Self-imposed Circular Reality 🤷🏻‍♂️

[ArtemisSilver]

I'm glad they do, it makes it easy to tell who's an asshole

[ArtemisSilver]

The negative no this no that stuff

[HaveNoName]

It is because they know guys are visual people and they will come after anyway.

[SevilleJuan]

Don't try dating sites, they are scams.

[Philyouup]

dating apps suck