The guy I'm dating said that he's extrovert when I asked him on the first date whether he's introvert or extrovert. But what I can see is that he's more to introvert, shy and an awkward person. Is it possible that he lied to me to make a good impression?
It's certainly a possibility that he opted to choose the answer he felt would garner the better first impression, as he wouldn't be the first guy to lie to a girl to impress her. There is a second possibility though which could suggest that perhaps he IS extroverted when he isn't nervous. He could possibly be smitten by you to where he is forced into this awkward state of being unsure & over thinking everything that he's doing including what comes out of his mouth, causing him to second guess himself & to worry far too much about saying something that's going to negatively impact your impression of him. This of course should only last throughout the short term though, where as the more time he spends around you the more comfortable he should become & the more his extroverted personality should be revealed. There's also a third option where there was maybe a time when he was extroverted, but that he has changed a lot since then, & has become much more introverted but his opinion of himself has yet to catch up to reality, but if this is the case then that at least means the the extrovert potential is there & all it might take is some social excitement along side you in order to pull that part of him out again. I apologize for not providing a direct answer & have likely only made you even more unsure, but all men are different & it's always good to have multiple perspectives in order to potentially grasp the situation after some process of elimination has been implemented.
I think the introvert/extravert system is really flawed. Most people aren't strictly either one. They're confident and outgoing in some situations and shy and reserved in others.
Maybe he was, you know, thinking about how he acts in one kind of context but you're seeing him in another.
Ehhhh I know a guy that is outgoing when it comes to his friends but then when it comes to women he’s extremely nervous. It has to do with overall nerves , maybe lacking a little confidence in the field of dating. That doesn’t mean he isn’t an extrovert.
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Perhaps, compared to his friends, he is the crazy one ⁉️🤷🏻♂️
No I'm who I am a guy who treats a girl with respect
Nah i prefer being honest
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