Have you ever stooped low enough to lie to your girl/guy about your sidepiece being your “cousin”?

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I’ll never forget that shit. Before 2010, so many dudes would use the excuse of “Man, thats my cousin.”  I probably should’ve worried more about why they were so touchy with their cousin as if we were in fckin Alabama. But anyways, I was naive and believed it. My first boyfriend had a “cousin” that I didn’t find out the truth about til maybe a year later. And when she started attending our school, she threatened to beat my ass if I didn’t fall back. I was thinking, girl I was with him first. You’re just a “cousin” 😭 Either way, we were both dumb af for still wanting him. And he had the nerve to tell me, “You’re wifey but I had to have my sides too.” And well that was one of our many break ups and getting back togethers. RKELLY warned us in “I’m A Flirt RMX” A dog on the prowl When I'm walking through the mall If I could, Man, I would probably fk wit all of y'all Yea homie you say she your girlfriend But when I step up to her I'mma be like “cousin” #FeelFreeToList #GettingPlayed

wheresmrcunnunglis · Accepted Answer

I have not and do not plan to do so in the future since dating one person exclusively is hard enough. I can't imagine juggling two and on top of that keeping their existence from each other. Sounds like an overwhelming amount of stress but looks like some people like that.

After reading your story, it seems like that guy had little to no guilty conscience due to how easy it was for them to lie to you straight to your face. Then on top of that be touchy-feely with the secret girlfriend, gross. I hope you haven't had contact with that person every again.

Thankfully, I have not had a partner or dated someone who attempted to pull some stuff like that on me. I usually scare those types away with how I tend to question people with what I deem to be sketchy behavior and not let the topic go until an unequivocal understanding has been met. I just dont need the stress and hate putting up with BS from others.

EmyyWolf · Accepted Answer

EEWWW LOL!
SWEEET HOME ALABAMA FORREAL!!

Im sorry you went through that. That’s some trauma sh! t right there. I hope you heal from SUCH A THING.

This reminds me of a Reddit story that I heard on YouTube

Loveisgirthy · Accepted Answer

Well, no I don't plan to. But now I ain't trusting that shit either. I thought this was mostly just a returning gag in comedies mostly. Never thought it'd work in real life to act like the side chick is your cousin but I guess I can see how it would if they're that much of a socio ass. Beyond me though. I've dealt with having multiple girls trying to get me sweatin, I feel like they knew how awkward it made me sometimes, I realized my choices one day, turned me on for a hot minute to think I could get them all if I really strategized for sure. But I considered all my options and decided not to do shit about them and ignored them as much as I could. Turned my attention to the girl I had wanted for years instead. But point is if I'm having feelings for others while taken I wouldn't lie to hide that. That shit ain't sexy.

Ευδεμονια · Accepted Answer

After all, every person on Earth shares a piece of DNA with every other one, so maybe we all are cousins, who knows, maybe your ex has only discovered the obvious.

Jokes apart, I think it’s disgusting to boast a kinship with someone you rub shoulder with, only in order to trick a innocent (and a bit dumb) girlfriend.
I’d never do such thing, I think honesty is the way: if there’s uneasiness or needs, it has to be told. But absolutely this is low level cheating and it’s despicable.

melanieeeB · Answer

Nope why would I do so? It's stupid

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

I don’t understand why you would want people thinking that it’s your cousin? Personally I’d rather be known as a girl who cheated, than a girl who fucked her cousin! Why would anyone want to be thought of as the type of girl who would fuck her cousin anyway? I don’t think I understand this question?

Freyke · Answer

My cousin turned out to be a giant swine, finally resembling how she is on the inside as well. My Nephew, we're cool. For your question, no. I never had a sidepiece and I do not plan on doing my partner that dirty. If we grow closer I will grow farther away from other people I have been seeing and as soon as we make it official, I cut out the other people.

Anonymous · Answer

No, but my ex has. There was a twist tho, he said it was his friend’s cousin when i caught him hanging out alone with a girl and there were very flirty pictures. What the fuck do i care if its ur friend’s cousin? U can still fuck her? Lmao that time of my life was annoying.

SaartjieJane · Answer

Have you ever stopped low enough to lie to your girl/guy about your side piece being your cousin” Well that took a turn I didn’t expect lmao. What is wrong with people😭

Shadow_Monarch · Answer

Never had that kind of a cousin, and never will.
Don't see the point in lying about that sort of thing. If you found someone else, don't cheat, just end the current relationship. Even that is better than cheating, or "having a cousin".

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

I have a whole lot of cousins. I’ve never fooled around with any of them. —but a few of them have tempted me.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

What the actual...

RuthlessAggression · Answer

I saw an article today, about how two girls, lesbians/bi whatever they are these days, found out they're related, and yet they're still gonna date. Why? Cause their kids won't be fucked up, since they can't have any

God_of_Thunder · Answer

I've never stooped low enough to even have a side piece, in the first place. 🤷‍♂️

Sparkie460 · Answer

I dated 2 women when I was like 18. I never lied to them I just didn't tell them about the other girl. I ended up breaking up with both of them because I was going away to college.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

No because that's weird to me. I have no reason to lie but to go as far as to claim to be related to someone I'm screwing... that's gross

EarthRealm · Answer

I’m curious did you feel emotion when you Wrote this?

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Never stooped low enough to have a sidepiece to begin with.

Caliguy88 · Answer

Lol. No. I have never cheated on anyone….. but that’s a good move. Lol

dolemite89 · Answer

nothing like that but i’ve been with current girls and seen ex’s or old booty calls and just said they’re an old friend or acquaintance 🤷‍♂️😅

Hulk30 · Answer

im a virgo so im too conservative sexually to do some weird shit like that i deal with multiple women in polygny like God permits biblically but they all know about each other

peedy · Answer

You already stopped pretty low just having a side piece what difference would it make at this point

Twalli · Answer

I don't have a side piece, but apparently my cousin is extremely attractive

TallAnon · Answer

Why would I want a side piece to begin with? Sounds like too much effort

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