She doesn't go out drink or partying or needing to go on constant trips, she has her daily routine and is a bit of an introvert. A good time for her is sitting at home reading a book rather than partying with her girlfriends at a club. Now, she is more than capable of going out with friends and having fun but she can get equal pleasure from staying home and ju
Yeah, as long as we clicked mentally and were perfectly compatible.
I'd pick it over some kind of drunken party animal any day.
The chances of finding a partner who's exactly on the same page as yourself when it comes to hobbies is unlikely anyway and I like being home a lot as well, but I do like to go out occasionally and just be in front of other people, even if it's just from going to the gym.
As long as we still go out sometimes and aren't just locked up at home, then I doubt it'd be too much of an issue.
No. I hate boring. I'm anything but boring. Although I AM getting better with convincing normies that I'm just another boring Joe Slob like they are. I used to never get away with it, but I guess my public acting has really gotten better over time.
Although this girl doesn't necessarily sound "boring." Just quiet or reserved. And quiet and reserved doesn't have to necessarily mean "boring." Just ask any genius; they're usually one or both.
She sounds like the perfect girlfriend for me.
I'm someone who also does best with routine, am mostly introverted, but I like playing DnD with a small group regulalry, going to my martial arts classes, and going rock climbing.
I don't know, I've always described my life as "boring" but it nearly always surprises the people I talk to.
I’ve dated a guy like this, and honestly it was draining. I am an introvert but I LOVE going out and exploring the world and seeing new things. You can not fully get to know someone when you are always doing lounging activities with them
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I would not. My reasoning is because that's me for the most part. I've realized that opposites do attract to a certain degree.
My current partner is the opposite. Always on the go. I'm pretty much always down to do these things, but I want to do it with someone else, and that's her.
Wow, this is such a coincidence because I actually saw some of her video a few days ago and thought how I want what she has too lol.
I find it silly how people think drinking and partying and doing drugs is "fun". Listen, whoever reads this, unless you are rich and famous and you can do whatever you want. Let's be real here, the majority of us have to go to school, or go to school and work, or work full time or have a family and work. I like to go to certain spots around the city, like a low populated park to play basketball alone and have my air pods in my ears listening to some tunes. That's relaxing to me, others might find that boring. If I was with a girl and we went on a date to watch a movie and grab some pizza. That means the world to me. Why? Because it's the little things in life that matter, has corny as that sounds. People who have a large social media following and post pics looking all happy in every single pic are just fooling others. That's why social media is just a mirage. Yes, I would date a person with a boring life, that's okay. I would rather have someone stable and grounded in that sense then to be some drama queen.
She'd still need to be mentally interesting. I have difficulties with being too active because I get tired quickly especially with social stuff so having someone who doesn't need to go out as much would be great. But I'd like to have interesting conversations with someone who thinks about stuff.
I don't date club/bar girls. From my experience they have a lot of self-esteem, mental health issues and little to no class. Not saying that being "boring" is even a quality I look for I just avoid the club/bar scene. Meeting someone who likes to go mudding/4 wheeling is preferable for me.
The boring girl is wife material. The bar stars and dancing queens are what I call "a practice girls." I wouldn't commit to a party girl because of all the red flags and the bullshit you know will eventually happen in due time. Not being content is a major sign for me that she's not really available for anything serious... she may claim she is, but she's really not.
Well, what might be boring to one person, might be exciting for another person. But overall if a woman who I meet does nothing stimulating and isn't "into" anything, and has no passion about anything, it would not interest me at all to date her.
I wouldn’t date a guy like that. I don’t want someone who drinks or party, because I don’t, and I do want someone who also enjoys staying in and just relaxing together sometimes HOWEVER I also need him to enjoy going out to do things. Eat, movies, walks, museums, the beach, road trips, shop, travel and so on. I get annoyed and frustrated with people who aren’t willing or interested in doing activities or travel. Yeah they are boring - too boring for my taste.
Been there, done that. My ex- spent most of her waking hours in the library studying Indian philosophy so she could write her dissertation. She'd been doing that from around the age of 18 `til she finally got the damn thing finished at about the age of 43!! By then, she was cheating on me!! I spent that many year playing drums in my band and we were already working on our third album by the time we broke up!
That's perfectly acceptable to be honest, though it's still good to get out of the house.
I am very like what was described in the question though I have been making more of an effort to go out, take road trips and stuff and I do enjoy it and I don't think it's good to be inside all the time.
I think it's nice to have a balance between shutting yourself inside your house which has it's own merits and going out, taking trips, going to events and the like.
If she also plays challenging video games, makes art, likes science, and watches anime and scifi/fantasy movies, then she's not boring in my opinion.
Women who go to bars and get drunk or hang out in clubs or parties are extremely boring to me. I want a homebody nerd.
Yes, because I like relaxing. I work hard and I don't want to play hard. Too many people spend too long trying to be a clown for their partners, entertaining them when it's the last thing they want to do.
There is nothing wrong with enjoying quiet time alone. Most people know this and are too afraid to admit it in the event they're seen as "boring."
Guys typically only like this in a girl when they are looking for a potential wife, and that’s because they think she’ll be less likely to cheat (which is very untrue.)
Sounds an awful lot like how I see myself in adulthood. As the Earth’s greatest Conga Artist, I also don’t see myself with a lot of free time. So to answer your question, I am confident someone like her is compatible, as long as she’s a Christian girl. They’re the best kind of girls. AAAAAHO
The boring ones are the ones less likely to cheat/slut/have 50+ boyfriends. Less likely to create drama. Less likely to marry you & then decide she made a mistake 2 years later. But when you're really young it's hard to see this, I know.
I mean to be fair that describes most responsible adults.
Already did.. She preferred to stay in and read and considered herself a "boring person" many times.. I prefer that to a party girl anytime.. As long as she is at least opened to going out sometimes..
She just sounds like a normal person who has her priorities straight, not a "boring" one
That's not "boring". It's just being reserved and doesn't mean they're not fun. I'm like this and I do not mind dating a guy like this.
I would actually trust a girl who has a “boring” life much more than a wild one. If she gets bored with me it’s not the end of the world. The wild child will find other “means” to find excitement quickly and easily. Don’t trust them.
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