How can I impress this woman?

[Smartman5]

There is a woman at work who is older than me but single, and we are on good terms. I think she likes me for a long time. But I didn't know if she was married or not, I asked her and I learned that he wasn't married. I want to impress her a little. What can I do? She mostly travels alone. She has female friends, it's like she doesn't have any boyfriends. Her favorite drink is coffee. We are texting and it goes very well, she gives very sincere answers to the messages. When we meet inside the building, she asks how are you, says good morning, says hello. When I go to her or when she is with someone else, when she sees me, she smiles and becomes dignified. That's why I think she likes me. Since she's not married, I want to impress her a little bit. How can I do it?

[Avicenna]

What's your endgame here? A hookup, dating, or something else?

[Smartman5]

We are currently trying to get to know each other better. I want to impress her because she's not married and I think she likes me too. I would never regret she for knowing me, she for being with me. Frankly, I want to know if she likes me.

[Avicenna]

Well, how much older than you is she?

[Smartman5]

she is 8 or 10 years older me. yes it's quite an age difference but I want to make her happy. maybe she is 30 years old and still unmarried. If it goes on like this, maybe she will never get married. I don't want it to be like this.

[Avicenna]

LOL, normally a woman her age or older will take the initiative with someone that much younger than them. Now, you work in the same place, so keep that in mind. Just have friendly convos with her and try to get her social media.

[Smartman5]

I follow her on social media. she is following me too. Not much verbally, but we have very nice sincere conversations via message. Frankly, I get excited when I see her and it's hard for me to talk. But I can talk easily via text message. I think she gets excited to see me too, she.

[Avicenna]

Then suggest meeting up somewhere outside of work, like for coffee and see if you can talk about things other than work with her.

[Smartman5]

I'll try this after some more time. I will make such an offer. because most of the time she always travels alone. Her friends are only women. She doesn't spend any time with men. probably won't break me. there will even be a good movie coming to the cinema this week. I would like to invite her. but I'm afraid if she refuses in the first place and doesn't talk to me again. so it should take some more time. Our sincere conversations should increase.

[Avicenna]

Fortune favors the bold. If you don’t make s love, she might not either and you might lose out.

[Smartman5]

I understand. I will try my luck but not right away. It should take a little more time.

[Smartman5]

What else would you like to say? do you have any other suggestions?

[Avicenna]

There's no reason to hesitate if she's given you her social media already.

[Smartman5]

but I didn't want social media. I searched for her name, found it, sent a request, she accepted and started following me too. she also follows most people at work.

[Avicenna]

Then you need to get her to spend time with you in person. Just ask confidently, that's all you have to do.

[Smartman5]

ok i will do that but not now. after some more time.

[Smartman5]

@Avicenna I have bad news. I asked a question about her private life and she said "don't ask about my private life, don't even ask anymore questions!" she sent a message. The question I asked was actually not a very specific question. "Can you ride the Ferris wheel at the amusement park?" I asked. Actually, this is a private question, but it doesn't want me to ask any questions anymore, along with private questions. I don't understand why this happened all of a sudden. I thought you liked me though. And when I asked her if she was married, she said "no, I'm not married". I asked her age and she said "guess". I totally misunderstood. why would you like me? Why did this happen all of a sudden? whereas he puts a heart mark on the funny things I send. Then he says don't ask questions. It's really hard to understand women. I'm about 10 years younger than her anyway. I don't invite her anywhere anymore. If she both reject me and others find out, very bad things can happen. That's why I'm not texting her anymore. I work as a tea maker at work. favorite drink is coffee. From now on, only tea, coffee send a message when there are requests. Other than that, I won't text her at all. I will not look at her when we meet her inside the building and give her the coffee. If she greets the most, that's it.

[Avicenna]

Just meet someone else

[Smartman5]

I think the best thing would be to meet someone else.